Love sucks some times

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Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#1 Nov 11, 2012
What would you do if you were dating someone steady for three years and you loved them, but they still couldnt say they loved you back? No matter how much you cared about them, would you stay or walk?
just a guy

Duluth, GA

#2 Nov 11, 2012
Walk
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#3 Nov 11, 2012
I walked. But it still hurts because I did love him. I thought maybe I'd made a mistake by letting him go and not giving him enough time, but I thought three years seemed like plenty.
casey

United States

#4 Nov 11, 2012
Walk. I don't get why some guys are so scared to say "I love you". Obviously, he felt something for you or he wouldn't have been with you so long. Sounds like he has deep rooted issues of his own. Maybe to do with how he was raised. How does he act since you left?
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#5 Nov 11, 2012
A week after he left all he was thinking about was replacing me and having sex with anyone random he could find. He told a friend of mine that is what he was going to do. I guess to get over me. Of course that made me walk even harder to hear that. He never came back to tell me he thought it over and does love me, he just acted like this was it. He told my friend he doesnt say I love you, not even to his mom. I dont understand that at all. How can a person go through life and never ever love anyone, or express those feelings? It still hurts and we had a pretty good friendship, realationship. I just dont understand how this all played out. It's been a few months now, and it still bothers me. He is with another girl now, they fight all the time and I would have never thought he would do that. We never argued and had a pretty peaceful relationship other than the fact he didnt love me. Even when I finally asked him point blank if he loved me, he could have said yes or no, and he didnt say a word. Thats when I walked. I'm pretty bumbed.
just a guy

Duluth, GA

#6 Nov 11, 2012
Have you replaced him yet?
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#7 Nov 11, 2012
No... I've been quietly sitting back to see what he would do. And I guess in my heart, I've not been able to replace him with a significant other yet. I dont think I'm ready. I'm still greiving I think. Still trying to figure out what happened. He came to me in my dreams again last night. So that has just added a little more hurt to my heart. I guess thats why I posted this morning. Not sure how to get over this and move on.
just a guy

Duluth, GA

#8 Nov 11, 2012
Well I dream of my ex often, and yes it makes my heart ache. I know that i am better off without her. I have talked to guys that split from there love years and years ago and they still do that. I'm thinking it don't get better you just have to try and move on best you can, I know it's easier said then done tho.
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#9 Nov 11, 2012
Thank you Just a Guy. I'm trying to move on, I really am. It's all still fresh and new right now. Its so hard to see him out and about with someone new. I dont understand why he couldn't love me. I was really good to him and I was devoted. I'm not ugly, not fat, have a good job, a home, a vehicle, a close family, loving grown children, and I hold my own very well. Those three little words would have kept me around for a very long time. Now he is with someone that has no job, no vehicle, no home and no responsibily. I'm just in shock over his desisions..But, I guess I'm better off without him now. I probably couldnt forgive him for his actions at this point anyway. Thanks for listening. Needed to vent a little this morning.
just a guy

Duluth, GA

#10 Nov 11, 2012
Your welcome! Good lucky. When your ready you'll be ready. If you wanna get out let me know
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#11 Nov 11, 2012
Oh..really..I take it you are single. lol Are you hitting on me? Well, I'm blushing...Thank you for putting a smile on my face...
just a guy

Duluth, GA

#12 Nov 11, 2012
Yes and yes. That made me smile
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#13 Nov 11, 2012
How old are you? Gosh, you might have just made my depressing morning into a happy day.:)
just a guy

Duluth, GA

#14 Nov 11, 2012
29. You?
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#15 Nov 11, 2012
45...You sound much older though...
just a guy

Duluth, GA

#16 Nov 11, 2012
Age is only a number. I bettor got it going on don't ya
just a guy

Frankfort, KY

#17 Nov 11, 2012
Bet you*
Brisbain

Campbellsburg, KY

#18 Nov 11, 2012
Falling in love is Bliss. Being in love is when you get hurt. Now, when I see a woman smile at me or act interested I run. There is always a friend that tries to set you up, I hate that. I like women and some women like me but I do not wish to travel the love path any more. Love hurts.
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#19 Nov 11, 2012
just a guy wrote:
Bet you*
I dont know about having it going on, but life has not been to bad. I know that age is just a number, until you get old and then it might be puzzeling to find your spouse trying to catch up with you or not being able to settle down to the age difference. I've never dated anyone younger than myself. I'm sure it could be fun though.
Hurt

Campbellsburg, KY

#20 Nov 11, 2012
Brisbain wrote:
Falling in love is Bliss. Being in love is when you get hurt. Now, when I see a woman smile at me or act interested I run. There is always a friend that tries to set you up, I hate that. I like women and some women like me but I do not wish to travel the love path any more. Love hurts.
I agree, but it can be very lonely growing old alone. I never thought that I would be alone at my age. Its kinda depressing at times. Especially righ know with the hurt involved. Do you run because of the hurt you have experienced, or the fear of hurting again. Are you the type of person that could not say those three little words too?

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