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Confused

Shreveport, LA

#1 Jan 14, 2010
Ok- somebody answer this question for me without being hateful or nasty please.

Why is it that men feel the need to watch porn? My husband says its normal for all men to watch it, but I am not totally unattractive and will do most anything he ask in the bedroom. Is it normal for all men to watch it and WHY do they want to if they have a woman that will do anything that they are doin on the tv, only its REAL? And is it normal that my feelings get hurt knowing that he wants to or do I just need to get a grip?
sexy guy

Frankfort, KY

#2 Jan 14, 2010
just do what there doing in the movie while whtching the movie it might be a turn on...i can help u
imjustme

United States

#3 Jan 14, 2010
I wonder the same thing myself. It hurts my feelings too but i guess its better than him cheating. Mine says its normal too but he hides it.
Confused

Shreveport, LA

#4 Jan 14, 2010
I know that it definitley would not be a turn on for me. I am just wondering why he wants to watch it when I ALREADY do what they are doing and then some....
Confused

Shreveport, LA

#5 Jan 14, 2010
That's what makes me so mad about it. He lies about it and I catch him. My problem is is that if he wants to look at other women that bad eventually he is going to stray. Wonder why they lie if it is so normal? Mine says it's because he doesnt feel like hearing my mouth, which is very likely the truth!! lol but he fails to realize that i would not be so upset over it if he wasnt always lying!!
bigfoot63

Frankfort, KY

#6 Jan 14, 2010
see now im different, i tell my wife i like porn don't hide it from her but i also respect the fact that she doesn't like it. i have my own room in the basement and i watch it there when i want too.
you have to be honest with a partner. he is clearly not doing that. as for why guys have that need, its because unlike the females of our species us male think of only a few things, sex being no 1. lol
imjustme

United States

#7 Jan 14, 2010
I know mine is still doing it cause he deletes his internet history . Plus he gets irate if i touch his phone. He gets pissed if im on facebook but jacking off to pictures is cool. I just wonder after 11yrs if he is bored with me? I too do most ne thing he wants.
well

Louisville, KY

#8 Jan 14, 2010
im a guy and i respect my girl a whole lot, i dont look because i feel its wrong as well. i dont even like the idea of thinking another girl is pretty.
i give her my 100%, we never argue, i never lie to her, and i always put her first above myself. because of my self control im proud to say i have a perfect relationship:)
onewhocares

Frankfort, KY

#10 Jan 14, 2010
well,it sounds like your the ideal man.My husband also looks up porn on the internet and tries to hide it from me.He never does it until I leave the house to run errands.I feel as if im not enough for him or something.Do men not realize how much it hurts most women?
getajobulazyfuk

Simpsonville, KY

#12 Jan 14, 2010
porn allows us to see what you wont let us do to you
Birdeater

United States

#13 Jan 15, 2010
Perfect relationship huh? Bs. I luv porn!
our side

Frankfort, KY

#14 Jan 15, 2010
Men hide porn because we dont want to upset you and then in return have to hear your angry and or disappointed words. also, we don't want to hurt you but we arent giving up porn. Watching porn isnt about cheating or necessarily wanting another woman. Men are very visual and visceral creatures. We walk around half the day with an erection in our pants. We have a caveman mentality to sex alot. porn is about self gratification. it has nothing to do with hurting or disrespecting you. Every sexual therapist and psychologist of merit will tell you that masturbation is healthy and normal. Porn is simply a quicker way to get there. But, yes! sometimes people can go overboard and it can consume that side of their life.
Confused

Shreveport, LA

#15 Jan 16, 2010
I am so relieved to see that there are women who are as hurt as this as I am. I was beginning to feel as if I was going crazy!! To "Our Side"... It was nice to hear an opinion from a man that wasn't hurtful, or nasty, and for the most part explained where you all are coming from. I guess I was expecting this forum to make me feel better about the situation and I still don't. I am still with "onewhocares" and feels as if that no matter what I do and how hard I try, I will never be enough for my husband.
Confused

Shreveport, LA

#16 Jan 16, 2010
But, to "our side", thank you for your input. It did put thing s alittle in perspective.
someone

Frankfort, KY

#17 Jan 18, 2010
getajobulazyfuk wrote:
porn allows us to see what you wont let us do to you
You must be single,huh?
Pscyh Major

Frankfort, KY

#19 Jan 18, 2010
Men watch porn because their small ... minds need pictures. They need visual stimulation because they are insecure about their performace strategies. Lets face it girls, men just aren't as evolved as we are. When men watch porn it is NOT a reflection on their significan other it IS about THEM and their self-image. The persist in thinking that little thing dangling in their pants is what makes the a MAN when in actuality all it does it make them male ~ and therefore pathetic lesser beings!
Until you have a PHD

Louisville, KY

#20 Jan 18, 2010
Pscyh Major wrote:
Men watch porn because their small ... minds need pictures. They need visual stimulation because they are insecure about their performace strategies. Lets face it girls, men just aren't as evolved as we are. When men watch porn it is NOT a reflection on their significan other it IS about THEM and their self-image. The persist in thinking that little thing dangling in their pants is what makes the a MAN when in actuality all it does it make them male ~ and therefore pathetic lesser beings!
Lesser beings? Sorry Psyche major, but we are wired that way and have been from the beginning of time. In a study conducted in 1948, 92% of men spanked it.. that’s right, even your pops. The same study shows that men think about sex several times a day... that was then, imagine NOW where sex is plastered everywhere you look! It is said there are two types of men when it comes to porn...those who look at porn, and those who lie about it. Porn and masturbation have been defined in such negative terms that men will either blatantly boast about it as a sign of defiance or hide it somewhere dark and dank in fear or being chastised for being a man. From prehistoric times where cavemen etched naked chicks onto cave walls to the futurists future where we’ll have porn etched onto our eyelids, porn will not be going away and it must be accepted and controlled just like video games, caffeine, and any other acceptable part of life. 92% in 1948.. that’s 9 out of 10 guys.. so next time you’re around 10 guys, be sure to only shake hands with that 1 guy. So Psych major, come back when you have your PhD!
agree

Eddyville, KY

#21 Jan 18, 2010
pathetic lesser beings...yes. because you dont see women watching this stuff in order to have an orgasim. I am a women who can think of my husband and have one. goes to show that women can be satisfied and men never will be.
METOO

Louisville, KY

#22 Jan 18, 2010
Kind of makes you sick. Don't have an answer but happens to all of us.
someone

Frankfort, KY

#23 Jan 18, 2010
TO,until you have a PHD.It said 92% of men spanked it,not 92% of men watched porn.So,there for,as far as you know they may have been thinking of their wives or girlfriends.So until you have all the facts dont worry about whether some one has a degree or not.

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