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need help

United States

#1 Feb 26, 2013
does anybody no were i can go for help.i believe my kids are being abused sexually,emotionally and physically the kids have said they have to.ive told social services they tell me to hire a attorney theres nothing they can do.shouldnt they open a case on the dad since the kids have told them he hits them ect. they tell me i dont have to let him have kids but yet if i dont he will just get violent i dont want kids to see this.plus he will go get them from school as he has before and social services said he could cause he had the right to.i dont have money for a attorney but i need custody tooking from him or some kind of custody agreement and child support needs to be established does any one no who will help me for free? im calling obudzmen to report the worker is not reporting that the kids told her there dad abuses them.cause by law dont she have to?
Duh

Chicago, IL

#2 Feb 26, 2013
Call the cops YDB
serously

United States

#3 Feb 26, 2013
Duh wrote:
Call the cops YDB
i dont need no jokes ok im a concerend parent trying to get my kids some safety and support.cops dont do shit for that .unless they see him in the act which theyve been called he always gets out of everything cause he has a person with money and pull on his side.i would love to put every detail on here but ive been warned my family will disapear im scared as hell to even try to get help so please dont make rude comments.
Ummm

United States

#4 Feb 26, 2013
That was the best advice you could've been given. Call the police and get a protective order for yourself and your children. That will stop him from getting them from school as well. Once the police are involved, they will take action against him for abusing your children.
Ummm

United States

#6 Feb 26, 2013
Ok so don't do anything and let him continue to abuse her children. Good advice. I would gladly take an ass whoopin to get the pig who was hurting my children put in jail. And if the police are involved, the state will press charges on the child abuse. AND at least he wouldn't be able to get them from school without her permission. It would help in so many ways. But I'm sure that everyone would rather sit and around and let him do whatever he wants to their children.
tried

United States

#7 Feb 26, 2013
Ummm wrote:
That was the best advice you could've been given. Call the police and get a protective order for yourself and your children. That will stop him from getting them from school as well. Once the police are involved, they will take action against him for abusing your children.
ive tried to get protective orders they say has something happened currently. either they wouldnt give me one with out up to date evidence or they'd give me one but not the kids and they really offer no protection im like ok if he knows im trying to get help he will hurt me so how r me and my kids safe at home.they would never put us some were were would b safe so i could give the basterd what he deserves so im left with no way out.
news flash

United States

#8 Feb 26, 2013
Ummm wrote:
Ok so don't do anything and let him continue to abuse her children. Good advice. I would gladly take an ass whoopin to get the pig who was hurting my children put in jail. And if the police are involved, the state will press charges on the child abuse. AND at least he wouldn't be able to get them from school without her permission. It would help in so many ways. But I'm sure that everyone would rather sit and around and let him do whatever he wants to their children.
guess thats what it is going to take ive told myself i guess my social worker and cops r waiting for me to be paralized dead or something before they say we need to do something.
PI

Chicago, IL

#9 Feb 26, 2013
You need some probable cause. Buy a semen test kit to test your children's underwear and clothes http://www.getcheckmate.com/

Take them to the hospital or doctor and have them examined for sexual abuse.
DDC

United States

#10 Feb 26, 2013
Take them to the hospital for examination, same with any rape case. File police report. Protective order. When all else fails, frontier justice.

Really, what the heck are you doing sitting there? Take them now!
easier said

United States

#11 Feb 26, 2013
PI wrote:
You need some probable cause. Buy a semen test kit to test your children's underwear and clothes http://www.getcheckmate.com/
Take them to the hospital or doctor and have them examined for sexual abuse.
i have took them they said only way they can tell is with semen or if they hymien is broke or if the kids admit it and even if they did with out actual evidence they couldnt charge him .cause the childs say so alone wouldnt hold up in trial.
PI

Frankfort, KY

#12 Feb 27, 2013
easier said wrote:
<quoted text>i have took them they said only way they can tell is with semen or if they hymien is broke or if the kids admit it and even if they did with out actual evidence they couldnt charge him .cause the childs say so alone wouldnt hold up in trial.
Stop making excuses and get the semen kit. It's not expensive and it's something you can take to the police.
Local

Frankfort, KY

#13 Feb 27, 2013
easier said wrote:
<quoted text>i have took them they said only way they can tell is with semen or if they hymien is broke or if the kids admit it and even if they did with out actual evidence they couldnt charge him .cause the childs say so alone wouldnt hold up in trial.
You don't want help! Convicting someone of sexual abuse on a child isn't that hard. And social services investigates every complaint. There's more to your story than you're telling and if your kids really are in danger, you shouldn't be wasting time on Topix and making excuses for every piece of advice you get.

Since: Feb 13

Frankfort KY

#14 Feb 27, 2013
If these were my children I would NOT stop until someone took me seriously. It has been my experience that when someone is talking about the safety and welfare of a child everything is taken seriously until proven otherwise. I agree with Local's comment. Seems to be more to the story here.
whatl

Lawrenceburg, KY

#15 Feb 27, 2013
I would not let him have my kids if I even thought that he could be abusing them in any way! Let me tell you something is not right here! My kids father tried to take one of my kids one time and he was drunk as a dog. I didn't look to good the next day but my child didn't get hurt and he didn't take the child either! I would take a beating any day before I would place my child in danger! There is more to this story!
look

United States

#16 Feb 27, 2013
Local wrote:
<quoted text>
You don't want help! Convicting someone of sexual abuse on a child isn't that hard. And social services investigates every complaint. There's more to your story than you're telling and if your kids really are in danger, you shouldn't be wasting time on Topix and making excuses for every piece of advice you get.
ive tried everything to get help they pretty much tell me to stand up to him myself .theres nothing they can do.the social worker does nothing.the last one i had would go back and tell him everything i was saying about him and trying to do i reported her all they did was take her off my case.yea there is alot more to it then i can explain but like i said money and pull with the right ppl walks while we get no help.check this out the bastard has been in trouble for rape and sexual miscoducts on kids and woman he gets out of everything.and no they dont take sexual abuse seroius here my son told me there dad did something to him i called social worker she said i cant get u a protected order either would courts i had to go to another county to get help .they investigated said since the child wouldnt admit it to them they couldnt persue anything .uh hello victims are scared of there perpitrators .i would glady stand up to this creep but im scared it would cost me my life and id never rest in peace knowing im dead and my kids r with him.
trying

United States

#17 Feb 27, 2013
looking for numbers for free legal help so i can get him into court does anyone know i was told there is attorneys that will help u for free u just have to find them.im on here for answers not negtivity.
DEVIL DOG

Chicago, IL

#18 Feb 27, 2013
need help wrote:
does anybody no were i can go for help.i believe my kids are being abused sexually,emotionally and physically the kids have said they have to.ive told social services they tell me to hire a attorney theres nothing they can do.shouldnt they open a case on the dad since the kids have told them he hits them ect. they tell me i dont have to let him have kids but yet if i dont he will just get violent i dont want kids to see this.plus he will go get them from school as he has before and social services said he could cause he had the right to.i dont have money for a attorney but i need custody tooking from him or some kind of custody agreement and child support needs to be established does any one no who will help me for free? im calling obudzmen to report the worker is not reporting that the kids told her there dad abuses them.cause by law dont she have to?
call pat Melton!
Local

Frankfort, KY

#19 Feb 27, 2013
look wrote:
<quoted text>ive tried everything to get help they pretty much tell me to stand up to him myself .theres nothing they can do.the social worker does nothing.the last one i had would go back and tell him everything i was saying about him and trying to do i reported her all they did was take her off my case.yea there is alot more to it then i can explain but like i said money and pull with the right ppl walks while we get no help.check this out the bastard has been in trouble for rape and sexual miscoducts on kids and woman he gets out of everything.and no they dont take sexual abuse seroius here my son told me there dad did something to him i called social worker she said i cant get u a protected order either would courts i had to go to another county to get help .they investigated said since the child wouldnt admit it to them they couldnt persue anything .uh hello victims are scared of there perpitrators .i would glady stand up to this creep but im scared it would cost me my life and id never rest in peace knowing im dead and my kids r with him.
I have had personal experience with the family courts, social services, and sexual abuse on minors. What you are saying doesn't make sense. The social workers AND cops are blowing you off. Either because you've exaggerated the story, made stuff up, or trying to abuse the system. If your ex is actually abusing your kids, you should be willing to give up your own life, your own safety and the convenience of your current living situation to protect them.(ie. Go to a shelter out of town!!) All I hear from you is excuses and ONE side of a story full of holes.
whatl

Lawrenceburg, KY

#20 Feb 27, 2013
Local wrote:
<quoted text>
I have had personal experience with the family courts, social services, and sexual abuse on minors. What you are saying doesn't make sense. The social workers AND cops are blowing you off. Either because you've exaggerated the story, made stuff up, or trying to abuse the system. If your ex is actually abusing your kids, you should be willing to give up your own life, your own safety and the convenience of your current living situation to protect them.(ie. Go to a shelter out of town!!) All I hear from you is excuses and ONE side of a story full of holes.
I agree and I'm just wondering if this is Jamie! It looks like her spelling and wording! I just know that being a momma,I would never just sit back and complain my butt off instead of actually doing something about it...if it's even true! Something doesn't make sense! I would not care how much money or power he had on his side. When it comes to your kids,you do what you have to do to protect them! No excuses!
Local

Frankfort, KY

#21 Feb 27, 2013
whatl wrote:
<quoted text>I agree and I'm just wondering if this is Jamie! It looks like her spelling and wording! I just know that being a momma,I would never just sit back and complain my butt off instead of actually doing something about it...if it's even true! Something doesn't make sense! I would not care how much money or power he had on his side. When it comes to your kids,you do what you have to do to protect them! No excuses!
Does sound like Jamie

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