wow

Frankfort, KY

#67 Jun 15, 2012
Just a woman wrote:
Have you ever bothered to ask why she cheated? This is so out of the norm, but sometimes in a marriage that loses it's spark, you may need to understand what exactly went south. I have an open marriage with my husband. We have been married for 25 years and he is 10 years older than me. Our marriage was great for about 15 years, then our sex life started to go sour. Mainly because of his health issues. I still love him very much, he is a good man, and I am a good wife. We want to spend our old age years together, but since I am still young, he and I came to an agreement. He still gives me 90% of what is desired in a good marriage, so the other 10% we work out privately. It works and we are happy. Eventually I guess I'll be at the age when sex isn't a need, and when I get there, we will still have beat the odds and enjoy old age together.
you have dark/black hair?
Old school

Kansas City, MO

#68 Jun 15, 2012
Stand beside her you can work anything out just communicate
hello

Frankfort, KY

#69 Jun 15, 2012
How about grow a pair and get over it an leave her omfg what a great idea
Slick

Kansas City, MO

#70 Jun 15, 2012
hello wrote:
How about grow a pair and get over it an leave her omfg what a great idea
givin up is to easy if you love her try to make it work
reality check

Frankfort, KY

#71 Jun 16, 2012
How did you all find out your spouses cheated?
whatever55

United States

#72 Jun 20, 2012
leave
The real me

United States

#74 Jun 21, 2012
Me wrote:
Women don't cheat if they are getting what they need at home. And, they certainly don't get caught unless they want to. So keep that in mind boys when you are ignoring your woman's needs and only thinking about your own. And when she starts letting you see signs that she's cheating or thinking about cheating, take the hint and step it up before she leaves you for him.
Shouldn't have to take a hint they should be open and talk about what's wrong just sayin
The real me

United States

#77 Jun 21, 2012
Me wrote:
<quoted text>
We do talk to you all, you just don't listen
if the woman I love said she had a prob with something I was doin I'd listen and compromise in a heart beat but I've learnd that women like to shut u out or make u guess that shit ain't cool
The real me

United States

#79 Jun 21, 2012
Me wrote:
<quoted text>
Well the women you dated were immature. I talk about what I need and try to fix things. If the guy I'm with doesn't listen, I leave him. But there are a lot of guys out there who only care about their own needs and deserve to be cheated on.
I don't think anyone deserves it stand beside them tell them hay this is what's goin to happen if u don't change don't just jet!
BillH

Frankfort, KY

#81 Jun 21, 2012
Nuh uh wrote:
No, she may have hurt YOU but do not take her children away.
No, they don't. But this person is right--don't take them, because that will make you look like you left the household first. She needs to be the one to leave (WITHOUT the kids).
been there

United States

#82 Jun 21, 2012
Heartbreaking
im here

Lawrenceburg, KY

#83 Jun 21, 2012
Ill satisfy you all if your husband's can't.
The real me

United States

#84 Jun 21, 2012
Me wrote:
<quoted text>
I said that before. Still didn't change anything. Next advice?
yea if you kno he really loves you and would give you his last breath go the extra mile
geez

United States

#85 Jun 22, 2012
Me wrote:
Women don't cheat if they are getting what they need at home. And, they certainly don't get caught unless they want to. So keep that in mind boys when you are ignoring your woman's needs and only thinking about your own. And when she starts letting you see signs that she's cheating or thinking about cheating, take the hint and step it up before she leaves you for him.
Disagree completely. Relationships and marriages are a two way street. Caring and taking care of the other goes both ways. And two wrongs dont make a right. Maybe he isnt taking care of her because she isnt taking care of him. But if she isnt happy she should either leave, except it or work on fixing the problem. Cheating isnt the answer or giving the illusion she is cheating to whip him into line is not the answer. Same goes for him.

Since: Jan 12

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#86 Jun 22, 2012
Cheating Wife wrote:
I do have proof, i think i should leave her and take my kids and never let her seem them again....
Don't worry about it unless the other fellow got passed the part you used.

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#87 Jun 22, 2012
We often get wrapped up in our daily life doing things that have to be done that we forget the ones we love. So along comes Bobby Bigdick and fills a woman with a big line of shit and tells her all the things women want to hear. Bobby doesn't have to work to make ends meet for your wife and kids. His only concern is what your wife has in her pants. Set some time aside every day and week just for her. Remember, what she wants in life is just as important as what us men want. Us men are so busy making a living we forget the little things.
Interesting

United States

#88 Jun 22, 2012
Us women make a living too. That's no excuse !!
The real me

United States

#89 Jun 22, 2012
Interesting wrote:
Us women make a living too. That's no excuse !!
yes this is true but it seems like the women are the ones that jump the gun in the relationship but I also agree set time for them cause when the kids and everyone else are gone they are supposed to be the ones left standin with you
josh

Henderson, KY

#90 Jun 22, 2012
i would get some head, ram it down her throat hard!!!! then ask for a divorce after i busted
dude

United States

#91 Jun 23, 2012
Yeah wrote:
<quoted text>LOL yup my ex would and still does lay down with any thing that comes along that will look at her. Don't really see why anyone with a functioning hand (if you get my drift) would have anything to do with her really she looks twice as old as she really is.
You must be talking about Melissa Mcroberts (Perkins) LOL

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