anonymous

Roxboro, NC

#1 Sep 4, 2008
I am concerned about a police officer we have in our town of Four Oaks. It is my understanding the Chief has hired a police officer who is not worthy of honoring a badge. He has been married 3 times and has 4 children of whom he only sees 1 right now. He has been charged 3 times of domestic violence all of which were dropped so he could keep a job. He doesn't pay his child support he is in and out of court every 2-3 months for contempt of court orders on child support. He is a con artist, he gets people to believe his little stories and feel sorry for him. It is my understanding that he has conned a couple into letting him live rent free in 1 of their rental properties now. When is he going to be stopped? Is this who we want representing our town?

Since: Aug 08

Ohio

#2 Sep 6, 2008
free loadder hugh,that is a shame for youns.needs to move on down the road there,someone will pick him up.
MENDY GREINER

Raleigh, NC

#3 Sep 10, 2008
I AM A FOUR OAKS RESIDENT WHO IS VERY CONCERNED ABOUT THE CARELESS AND RECKLESS DRIVING OF THE STUDENTS WHO ATTEND SOUTH JOHNSTON HIGH SCHOOL, BEING IN CLEAR VIEW FROM MY HOUSE I OBSERVE LAW ENFORCEMENT NOT ENFORCING DRIVING LAWS BUT ALSO CHOOSING TO MAINLY PATROLLING THE SCHOOL AFTER ALL THE CARELESS AND RECKLESS DRIVERS HAVE SPED HOME. IT DOES NOT MAKE SENSE TO IGNORE THESE DRIVERS HABITS AND THEN SIT AND COMMENT ABOUT HOW MANY TEENAGERS HAVE BEEN KILLED ON JOHNSTON COUNTY ROADS.THESE DRIVING LAWS ARE SELDOM IGNORED WHEN IT COMES TO AN ADULT OFFENDER SO WHY DOES LAW ENFORCEMENT IGNORE THEM BY THE DOZENS DAY AFTER DAY AS THEY LEAVE THE SCHOOL AT THE END OF THE DAY?I WOULD THINK AFTER A FEW TICKETS ARE HANDED OUT THESE TEENAGERS WOULD SLOW DOWN AND WOULD MORE CONCERNED ABOUT THE SAFETY OF THEIR FELLOW DRIVERS.
anonymous

Roxboro, NC

#4 Sep 11, 2008
Look @ what you have serving you as Law Enforcement Officials in the Town of Four Oaks........if they can't uphold the law themselves why would they make anyone else?
MENDY GREINER wrote:
I AM A FOUR OAKS RESIDENT WHO IS VERY CONCERNED ABOUT THE CARELESS AND RECKLESS DRIVING OF THE STUDENTS WHO ATTEND SOUTH JOHNSTON HIGH SCHOOL, BEING IN CLEAR VIEW FROM MY HOUSE I OBSERVE LAW ENFORCEMENT NOT ENFORCING DRIVING LAWS BUT ALSO CHOOSING TO MAINLY PATROLLING THE SCHOOL AFTER ALL THE CARELESS AND RECKLESS DRIVERS HAVE SPED HOME. IT DOES NOT MAKE SENSE TO IGNORE THESE DRIVERS HABITS AND THEN SIT AND COMMENT ABOUT HOW MANY TEENAGERS HAVE BEEN KILLED ON JOHNSTON COUNTY ROADS.THESE DRIVING LAWS ARE SELDOM IGNORED WHEN IT COMES TO AN ADULT OFFENDER SO WHY DOES LAW ENFORCEMENT IGNORE THEM BY THE DOZENS DAY AFTER DAY AS THEY LEAVE THE SCHOOL AT THE END OF THE DAY?I WOULD THINK AFTER A FEW TICKETS ARE HANDED OUT THESE TEENAGERS WOULD SLOW DOWN AND WOULD MORE CONCERNED ABOUT THE SAFETY OF THEIR FELLOW DRIVERS.
ANONYMOUS

United States

#5 Sep 15, 2008
THIS IS TOO RESPONSE TO OTIN, NC. SOUTH JOHNSTON IS NOT IN THE FOUR OAKS CITY LIMITS, IT IS IN THE COUNTY, UNDER COUNTY JURISDICTION AND THE HIGHWAY PATROL. IF YOU HAVE A PERSONAL ISSUE WITH ONE OFFICER, YOU NEED TO KEEP IN MIND THIER ARE OTHER FOUR OAKS OFFICERS WHO DO A VERY OUTSTANDING JOB THEIRSELVES. IF YOU WANT TO GIVE ONE A BAD NAME, FINE, LEAVE THE OTHERS OUT OF IT. DO NOT STEREOTYPE THE OTHER OFFICERS. YOUR DRAWING A FINE LINE ON SLANDER.
FOUR OAKS CITIZEN
anonymous

Roxboro, NC

#6 Sep 17, 2008
seems like I touched a nerve. Sorry.......I am talking about 1 officer but from what I hear there are 2 others that aren't much better. And it's not called slander if you don't say names.
ANONYMOUS wrote:
THIS IS TOO RESPONSE TO OTIN, NC. SOUTH JOHNSTON IS NOT IN THE FOUR OAKS CITY LIMITS, IT IS IN THE COUNTY, UNDER COUNTY JURISDICTION AND THE HIGHWAY PATROL. IF YOU HAVE A PERSONAL ISSUE WITH ONE OFFICER, YOU NEED TO KEEP IN MIND THIER ARE OTHER FOUR OAKS OFFICERS WHO DO A VERY OUTSTANDING JOB THEIRSELVES. IF YOU WANT TO GIVE ONE A BAD NAME, FINE, LEAVE THE OTHERS OUT OF IT. DO NOT STEREOTYPE THE OTHER OFFICERS. YOUR DRAWING A FINE LINE ON SLANDER.
FOUR OAKS CITIZEN
CITIZEN

United States

#7 Sep 20, 2008
anonymous wrote:
seems like I touched a nerve. Sorry.......I am talking about 1 officer but from what I hear there are 2 others that aren't much better. And it's not called slander if you don't say names.
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Really.... TWO OTHERS... I wonder since you really dont KNOW anyone other than your ONE that your talking about, how you can have even the slightest bit of right to even go into the others. Like I said before, you have a personal issue with ONE OFFICER, you need to leave the others out of it. No you havent said anyones name, but there is something called having a little respect for the fact that if you dont KNOW someone to leave them out of it. If you arent getting your child-support, then I am sorry for you, as for any of the other officers, THEY take care of their famlies above and beyond what an everyday father does.
As for hitting a nerve, apparantley your nerves have been hit or you wouldnt be on here complaining. I responded to the fact that if you want to talk about an individual then do so, do not drag OTHERS into it.
anonymous

Roxboro, NC

#8 Sep 20, 2008
Well you know if they can hire a deadbeat who only pays his child support when he has to, in order to keep from going to jail and who has had several DVO orders from past wives.......then I say they really ain't no better than he is. How can they put a man in this position into the town to serve and protect when he can't even uphold the law himself? Do you feel comfortable as a resident knowing this man is serving your town and writing tickets and arresting people for breaking the law when in fact he breaks it everyday he goes without paying his 3 ex-wives child support for their children. And yes we do go thru the legal system but guess who has to pay for that(us) not him......and it also takes a process which is stupid for it to take 3-4 months to be able to get half of what he actually owes, but child support court is suppose to be so great....yeah right. I also want to state I am not complaining I only wanted to let other residents know who is protecting them as law enforcement in the town of Four Oaks if you don't live there then it doesn't apply to you!!!!
CITIZEN wrote:
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Really.... TWO OTHERS... I wonder since you really dont KNOW anyone other than your ONE that your talking about, how you can have even the slightest bit of right to even go into the others. Like I said before, you have a personal issue with ONE OFFICER, you need to leave the others out of it. No you havent said anyones name, but there is something called having a little respect for the fact that if you dont KNOW someone to leave them out of it. If you arent getting your child-support, then I am sorry for you, as for any of the other officers, THEY take care of their famlies above and beyond what an everyday father does.
As for hitting a nerve, apparantley your nerves have been hit or you wouldnt be on here complaining. I responded to the fact that if you want to talk about an individual then do so, do not drag OTHERS into it.
CITIZEN

United States

#9 Sep 20, 2008
anonymous wrote:
Well you know if they can hire a deadbeat who only pays his child support when he has to, in order to keep from going to jail and who has had several DVO orders from past wives.......then I say they really ain't no better than he is. How can they put a man in this position into the town to serve and protect when he can't even uphold the law himself? Do you feel comfortable as a resident knowing this man is serving your town and writing tickets and arresting people for breaking the law when in fact he breaks it everyday he goes without paying his 3 ex-wives child support for their children. And yes we do go thru the legal system but guess who has to pay for that(us) not him......and it also takes a process which is stupid for it to take 3-4 months to be able to get half of what he actually owes, but child support court is suppose to be so great....yeah right. I also want to state I am not complaining I only wanted to let other residents know who is protecting them as law enforcement in the town of Four Oaks if you don't live there then it doesn't apply to you!!!!
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I do live here, you dont apparently, or you would know how the jurisdictions are set up. I may work out of town, but I do live here. I collect child support too, when its collected, but I dont put the other people who work with my Ex down because they happen to work with him. That is my point!!!!!!
anonymous

Roxboro, NC

#10 Sep 21, 2008
I do, and I also know how jurisdictions are set up but that has nothing to do with what I am talking about. I'm also sure your ex isn't suppose to protect and serve and uphold the law b/c he is a police officer. You would understand otherwise. They never get treated like you or I. They are always going to get special treatment b/c of their title. I'm sure it didn't take you 9 months to get your child support order in affect....and how can you defend a police department that would even hire someone with this baggage, most respected police departments wouldn't hire an officer that has or had recently a 50-b order, but they did. THAT'S MY POINT!!!!!!!!!!
CITIZEN

United States

#11 Sep 24, 2008
anonymous wrote:
I do, and I also know how jurisdictions are set up but that has nothing to do with what I am talking about. I'm also sure your ex isn't suppose to protect and serve and uphold the law b/c he is a police officer. You would understand otherwise. They never get treated like you or I. They are always going to get special treatment b/c of their title. I'm sure it didn't take you 9 months to get your child support order in affect....and how can you defend a police department that would even hire someone with this baggage, most respected police departments wouldn't hire an officer that has or had recently a 50-b order, but they did. THAT'S MY POINT!!!!!!!!!!
ANYONE WITH ANY KNOWLEDGE ALSO KNOWS IN ORDER FOR SOMEONE TO BE AN OFFICER, THEY CANT HAVE THAT KIND OF RECORD, SO IF YOU GO BACK TO YOUR FIRST STATEMENT WHERE YOU SAID THESE CHARGES WERE BROUGHT ABOUT THEN YOU DROPPED THEM, THATS YOUR FAULT NOT ANYONE ELSES. YOU DO YOUR PART, THEN MAYBE THE STATE CAN DO THEIRS IN MAKING SURE PEOPLE LIKE THAT ARE NOT OFFICERS. AGAIN MY POINT IS, THESE FELLOW OFFICERS HE WORKS WITH DONT HIRE HIM, THEY HAVE THEIR JOBS, YOU DONT HAVE TO PUT THEM DOWN BECAUSE OF YOUR EX. YOU WANT TO MAKE A POINT CALL THE STATE, THEY ARE THE ONE WHO DECIDE WHO CAN BE OFFICERS NOT THE ONES HE WORKS WITH.
anonymous

Roxboro, NC

#12 Sep 24, 2008
For your information the domestic charges were dropped so he could continue to work(against our better judgements)but not the 50-b orders. And yes obviously they can have these charges and still be in Law Enforcement because he is. In fact, he was auxillary while he was under his 50-b order so he could keep his certification and then in April his year was up and 50-b order was done so he was part-time paid then and now he's fixing to go full-time. And I say again the Chief is at fault and the Town Manager for even allowing him to be on the department w/ having these charges and being in and out of court every 2-3 months w/child support issues and also being served with other civil papers b/c he is scamming folks for jobs he does thru his side business that he isn't doing. No other police Dept. would hire him trust me he's tried. So that's who I am talking about when I say people who he works with. So until you walk thru mine and his 2 other ex-wives shoes don't try and judge me for giving my opinion of the police department and people on it.
CITIZEN wrote:
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ANYONE WITH ANY KNOWLEDGE ALSO KNOWS IN ORDER FOR SOMEONE TO BE AN OFFICER, THEY CANT HAVE THAT KIND OF RECORD, SO IF YOU GO BACK TO YOUR FIRST STATEMENT WHERE YOU SAID THESE CHARGES WERE BROUGHT ABOUT THEN YOU DROPPED THEM, THATS YOUR FAULT NOT ANYONE ELSES. YOU DO YOUR PART, THEN MAYBE THE STATE CAN DO THEIRS IN MAKING SURE PEOPLE LIKE THAT ARE NOT OFFICERS. AGAIN MY POINT IS, THESE FELLOW OFFICERS HE WORKS WITH DONT HIRE HIM, THEY HAVE THEIR JOBS, YOU DONT HAVE TO PUT THEM DOWN BECAUSE OF YOUR EX. YOU WANT TO MAKE A POINT CALL THE STATE, THEY ARE THE ONE WHO DECIDE WHO CAN BE OFFICERS NOT THE ONES HE WORKS WITH.
CITIZEN

United States

#13 Sep 24, 2008
YET AGIAN YOU ARE PUTTING DOWN PEOPLE YOU DONT KNOW. YOU CAN GIVE YOUR OPINION ON PEOPLE YOU DONT KNOW, YET I CANT GIVE MINE ON PEOPLE I DO KNOW. BY THE WAY WHY DONT YOU CALL THE POLICE DEPARTMENT, THEY DONT HAVE POSITIONS OPEN, THEY ARE ALL FILLED, SO HE CANT BE GOING FULL-TIME WITH THE DEPARTMENT WHEN THERE ISINT AN OPENING. OH, AND THERE IS A THING WITH THE STATE WHERE YOU CANT TURN SOMEONE DOWN FOR A JOB IF THEY PASS ALL THE QUALIFICATIONS FOR THAT JOB. SINCE YOU DROPPED THE CHARGES, THEY CANT TURN HIM DOWN. IF HE IS THIS WAY, AND HE HAS DONE THESE THINGS HE NEEDS TO BE STOPPED, CHARGED, AND THE CHARGES NOT DROPPED.
HOW CAN YOU GIVE AN OPINION ON OFFICERS HE WORKS WITH, THAT DONT EVEN HAVE A SAY SO ON WHO IS BEING HIRED? YOU ARE GROUPING THESE OFFICERS INTO ONE PERSON. YOUR TRYING TO GIVE THEM ALL A BAD NAME WHEN THEY CANT EVEN DECIDE WHO IS HIRED. THATS MY POINT YET AGAIN. YOU WANT TO SINGLE OUT WHO HIRED HIM FINE, THE OTHERS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH IT, THATS MY POINT!! THE COMMENT YOU MADE TO THE OTHER PERSON WHO POSTED SAYING "LOOK WHO YOU HAVE SERVING AS LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICIALS IN THE TOWN OF FOUR OAKS" YOUR PUTTING THEM ALL TOGETHER.
I THINK I HAVE MADE MY POINT, I'M DONE. I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU. GOOD DAY, GOD BLESS.
CITIZEN

United States

#14 Sep 24, 2008
ONE MORE FOOD FOR THOUGHT FOR YOU, IT TOOK YOU NINE MONTHS TO GET YOUR CHILD SUPPORT ORDER IN PLACE? IT TOOK ME FIVE YEARS BECAUSE HE WAS IN THE AIR FORCE, BUT I DONT GROUP THEM ALL TOGETHER BECAUSE HE HAPPENED TO HOLD THAT POSITION.
anonymous

Roxboro, NC

#15 Sep 25, 2008
whatever.......... you obviously know who I'm talking about since you seem to know so much about the p.d. and defend them so. I seriously don't think it took you 5 years to get your child support from someone in the military. My cousin is in the military and his was immediate. So unless you just didn't have custody or other reasons I don't believe that's true.........but there again I'm sure your ex wasn't as sorry as my ex. So in conclusion this will be my last response to you, because obviously you don't care who serves your town.
CITIZEN wrote:
ONE MORE FOOD FOR THOUGHT FOR YOU, IT TOOK YOU NINE MONTHS TO GET YOUR CHILD SUPPORT ORDER IN PLACE? IT TOOK ME FIVE YEARS BECAUSE HE WAS IN THE AIR FORCE, BUT I DONT GROUP THEM ALL TOGETHER BECAUSE HE HAPPENED TO HOLD THAT POSITION.
cosmic

Roxboro, NC

#16 Sep 25, 2008
I know this person that you are talking about and you are right. He shouldn't be in law enforcement unless he is staying out of trouble and paying his child support. He needs to grow up and take responsibility for all of his actions. Be a man and be a father and not just a sperm donor. If you help make kids you should also help raise them that's why they call it child support. Kids aren't free to raise. You aren't hurting anyone but yourself and your children.
concerned

Durham, NC

#17 Sep 25, 2008
Lady, you need to take your problem to support and not air your dirty laundry this way, its not very becoming of any women let alone a mother.
anonymous

Roxboro, NC

#18 Sep 26, 2008
concerned wrote:
Lady, you need to take your problem to support and not air your dirty laundry this way, its not very becoming of any women let alone a mother.
Just so you know I have been going thru Child Support for the last 8 years and all they do is slap him on the wrist and baby him more less.....like I have stated before nothing ever gets paid until he is about 3-4 months behind and fixing to go to jail. It's a ongoing cycle not only w/mine but the other ex-wives as well. Do you think that's fair to his children? If you do then obviously you need help. If he were a regular citizen he would of been in jail several times....I'm trying to let people what kind of person they have serving there community. If you don't like it, then don't read it!!!!!
kerrie

Roxboro, NC

#19 Oct 7, 2008
I think this person needs some serious help. Sounds to like to me he's just a con. Man up and take responsibility for your children man. Pay your child support already, they are your children!!!!!!!! You only get 1 life why do it wrong.
tweezy007

Columbus, OH

#20 Sep 13, 2010
As for the police officer maybe i can replace him i am still in the army but i am thinking about getting out i am resident of four oaks N.C. I am only 27 years old so i am still young have a wife and 2 kids 6 and 8 maybe i could put some right in his wrong.

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