Ralph D. Gilfillan, 38

Ralph D. Gilfillan, 38

There are 29 comments on the The Smithfield Herald story from Mar 24, 2007, titled Ralph D. Gilfillan, 38. In it, The Smithfield Herald reports that:

Ralph David Gilfillan, 38, of Smithfield died Friday, March 23. Born Oct. 25, 1968, in Cumberland County, he was a son of the late Harold Gilfillan.

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Pinehurst, NC

#1 Mar 31, 2007
I will always love you, and our children will always know how much you loved them. Dont forget to
save a spot for me in heaven and you know how much
I love you. I will alway see you in Travis eyes or Edwards art or the way both of them love to sing.I know you want be able to get this letter, sweetie I will never stop loving you and you are my heart.


#2 Apr 13, 2007
Days go by, nothing but sadness and tears
Losing the one i love, my deepest fear
Never been so sad, i hope she says with me
Happy only with her, forever we could be

She's the most important person in my life
I wanna marry her, for her to be my wife
My love remains for her, just like the start
I wanna take care of her, never be apart

I wish she'd take my hand, i wouldnt let go
Every single day to her my love i would show
Without her nothing is right, missing her i do
My feelings for her are nothing but true

Now with tears in my eyes wishing she was mine
Trying to hold myself together, she still shines
Just like a star in the sky on a dark cold night
I cant see without her, she's my angel also my light


#3 Apr 13, 2007
You are my best friend,
My very best friend,
You make me happy,
You share your great snacks,
You share your best toys,
So please don't take
My best friend away.

My Best Friend
Today I found a friend,
Who knew everything I felt.
HE knew my every weakness,
And the problems I've been dealt.
She understood my wonders,
And listened to my dreams.
She listened to how I felt about life and love,
And knew what it all means.

Not once did she interrupt me,
Or tell me I was wrong.
She understood what I was going through,
And promised she'd stay long

I reached out to this friend
To show her that i care
To pull her close and let her know
How much I need her there

I went to hold her hand
To pull her a bit nearer
And realized that this perfect friend I found
Was nothing but my mirror.



#4 Apr 13, 2007
David I will Always Love you more than anyone i have ever known you know u was always my heart .I will Miss u more than any thing god knows if i could changes things i would we had good times together and we will again when we meet up in Heaven so u keep ur word and save me a spot. Remember you was and always will be the LOVE OF MY LIFE and we had our secrets babe just know i miss u something terrible ill see u again one day Daveo Love you Always Hope


#5 Apr 24, 2007
david just wanted to tell u i miss you everyday and love ya see u one day,save my spot love hope

Pinehurst, NC

#6 Apr 29, 2007
you were my first love you will alway be in my hart and there will never be a day go by that i want see you, I will see you in travis eyes and the way edward sing and both of the love to have the last word just like you!!!I will always love you, you are love and most of all my Ralpie-poo!!!!!!!!!!

Pinehurst, NC

#7 Apr 29, 2007
i mean Ralphie_poo, my love. I was and I alway be your first love and you first wife!!!!!!!!!Love you Ralphie_poo
betty family


#8 Nov 28, 2007
An angel here, an angel there,
Iím surrounded by angels everywhere.
When Iím in the middle of a terrible storm
They come with their candles to keep me warm.
An angel to comfort, an angel to guide,
An angel to fill that dark hole inside.
An angel to cry on, an angel who cares,
Angels, angels, everywhere!
The angels who reach out when times are rough
Whoíll listen to all of my heartache and stuff,
In the bright sunshine and the dark of night,
The angels surround me with comforting light.
I guess God is busy and canít come on down
To give me a smile and take care of my frown,
So He sent a few angels to brighten my day,
And help to carry my burdens away.
So thank you, dear angels, more than youíll know,
For watering my happiness and making it grow!i
Remember what u tell me i try my best talk care your son we miss u and love you ,your family and friend miss u alot mom miss u so much she keep on talk about u do u remember i tell u and u tall me something ill well not forget it what u said to me david ty be my best friend and brotherlaw love betty always

Spring Lake, NC

#9 Jan 14, 2008
It has almost been a year and there is not a day that goes by that I dont think about you and I would gave any thing to hear you sign or just talk to you.I still feel like a bad dream to me and I wish to God I would have call you back on march 21, after you called, I love you and I always will, but it time for me to move on with my life, I have put my life on holded for many years hoping you would stop going to bars and may be we could fix are lifes but it wasnt to be, so this is my way of saying good bye.You will always be a big part of my life,but I have to make a new for me.Love you always!!!
no need to tell

Mooresville, NC

#10 Jan 22, 2008
but i will always care for u and i know u will always look down on me and make sure i do the right thing love yea

Spring Lake, NC

#11 Feb 16, 2008
More and more the boys are looking and doing the things you would do,Edward and Travis both sound like you.When Edward puts on your hat he looks like you, and Travis looks like you all the time, Edward is in to sing and in to playing karoke all the time.There isnt a day that goes by that I dont think about you, you will never know how much I miss you and wish to God to talk to you and to the you I love you.I cant understand why you did this.You will never get to see the boys get married or them having childern.I alway hope me and you could have worked things outand maybe get back and be there for Travis and Edward.I will always love you Ralphie poo!!!!!You better be good up there!!!!LOVE YOU!!!!!!

Spring Lake, NC

#12 Apr 5, 2008
David it has been a year and there isnt a day that goes by that I dont,think about you&me and how things use to be between us. David the boys are doing go and travis is going to the prom soon. And both of the boys have girls calling the house.i would give any thing just to talk to you and to hear you say you love me, because you know I love you with all my heart. Save a spot next to you.Love you, Ralphie poo!!!!!!!
Cris and Mark Branham

Anderson, SC

#13 Apr 21, 2008
dave we miss and love you so very much! wish you were hear to sing kareoke with us and I still have a hard time listen to "Alessya Lies" and the funniest damn thing is Marks youngest daughter had a babygurl on March 10th and named her "Alessya"...so I call her ally, to hard tp say the name right now.MIss Ya Man! See you in heaven someday then we'll sing again!!!!
robert gilfilan


#14 Apr 22, 2008
hey bro it's me robert aka bobby just want too tell u i miss u so much there isnt a day that goes by i dont think of u and wish u was here. i really miss the time's we share joking around with another and fighting with another u know just being us i wish u was here and i know i didnt get too say this much but i love you and i will see u again someday love you alot david and remember i miss u badly and wish u was here.......robert aka bobby


#15 Nov 13, 2008
I was thinking tonight
With the moon shining so bright
It was so beautiful
As if it was all powerful and mighty

But that's not where all this lies
For I was thinking on this very night
That life is so precious in every way
And not many realize
How short life is

I thought of my princess
How I love her and I needed her to know
That every moment with her
Is precious and a treasure
Shes my wife to be
And that I will never let her go
She is truly everything to me
My soul mate that is she.

I thought about my sister
And how much I love her too
Shes always there when I need her
I look up to her even now
I wanted her to know
She is my sister
The worlds best I know

I thought about my best mate
Hes there when I need a shoulder to cry on
Or protection from anyone
Hes like a brother to me
And I'm sure this he knows
I wanted to let him know
He is truly my best friend
And not my foe

I thought about my mum and dad
And how they have bought me up in this big world
It can be scary and horrible
But there hands have shown me the way
I thank them so
I love them for being there
I love them for teaching me
But I also love them for letting me go
For even I know your young are hard to let go

I thought about my Nan and my granddad
For they I love,
They do not judge me
Or tell not what to do
They chat to me like a person
And I know their love is true

All that I have said and everyone I know
They are what makes a family
And I just wanted to let them know
That everyday I treasure
And I am thankful in everything they do
someone you love alot


#16 Nov 30, 2008
Why do I love you?
Why do I love you like I do?
When did I become so strong?
When did I lose my heart to you?
Why didn't I see it coming?

You stand before me in all your glory
I feel my face go up in flames
What do I say now that you are here?
Never thought I'd be so afraid

Tell me what is love all about
How am I suppose to show I care?

I want to press my lips against your pulse
Please direct me and guide on how this is done
I'm under the influence of love
Please sober me up with your addictive kisses

Suddenly breathing seems such a hard thing to do
Whenever you are near I feel myself fall harder

Why Do I Love you so much?
When did I fall head over heels in love?
Was it the moment I said hello to you?
Or was it the day you finally saw me?

I did not even want to fall in love again
But you came along and became my moon and sun
Shine on me your brilliant light and adoration
I know now why I love you so.

You make me whole when I am torn apart
Whenever I'm sad you heal my broken heart
Now that you are here and have crawled inside me
I'll never let go, You're mine for all eternity.we miss you so much and love you
betty family


#17 Dec 23, 2008
Christmas is a time for love and fun,
A time to reshape souls and roots and skies,
A time to give your heart to everyone
Freely, like a rich and lavish sun,
Like a burning star to those whose lonely sighs
Show need of such a time for love and fun.
For children first, whose pain is never done,
Whose bright white fire of anguish never dies,
It's time to give your heart to every one,
That not one angel fall, to hatred won
For lack of ears to listen to her cries,
Or arms to carry him towards love and fun,
Or friends to care what happens on the run
To adult life, where joy or sadness lies.
It's time to give your heart to everyone,
For God loves all, and turns His back on none,
Good or twisted, ignorant or wise.
Christmas is a time for love and fun,
A time to give your heart to everyone.
we love you and miss you marry Christmas An angel here, an angel there mom said love her baby son you are my best friend and Dont forget to
save a spot for me in heaven


#18 Apr 12, 2009
hey i went said happy Easter we love u and miss u Dont forget to
save a spot for me in heaven take care your safe


#19 Apr 14, 2009


#20 Jun 3, 2009
A Prayer to my Angel

I stand before you my Angel friend and companion.
I bow before you my Angel teacher and guide.
What can I ask of you, what should I say?
You know my fear and weakness,
You know my power and strength.
I ask that you take my fear and weakness,
Hold them in the palm of you golden hands.
Blow on them with your divine breath,
Blow them away so that I am clean and free.
Turn them into flowers with golden petals.

I ask that you take my power and strength,
Hold them in you radiant hands.
Raise them up to God as an offering of
My commitment to the Light.

I stand before you my Angel,
with your sparkling golden light.
I stand before you my Love,
with your ancient wings of wisdom.

Knowing together one day we shall stand in glory
Before the dazzling throne of the Most High.
Together we shall hold hands,man and angel,
As all creation sings in praise and glory and

Victorious in our journey together,
Enriched with wisdom, power and love.
Together we shall be absorbed into the great
Heart of God,
United as one in the sweet ecstasy of Almighty
Love. we love u and miss u maybe i see i in heaven if u save a spot for your family lol

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