Too much wasted . . .
KinKStar

United States

#1 Jan 25, 2006
What's up with all the hate here in FL? As long as someone is living their life without harming yours or your family, why should you care? Why so much righeous judgement against gays or lesbians or people of any color. Damn, even fat people have to live with too much grief! They are the last sector of us where it's still acceptable to laugh and make comments in front of their faces ... NO! IT IS NOT ALRIGHT!

If they're doing something that's sinful, let their God take care of what they have done when the time comes! It's simply not anyone's business how someone CHOOSES to live their life, unless they are breaking the law ...

Too much love and energy is wasted on all the hate and trying to make someone feel shame based on your own morals. It's just wrong to be so lacking of any tolerance for any living being, people AND animals. And it says more about the person saying "all that" than the one they're running their mouth about.

It's a big world and lots of stuff happens to change how things are overnight. Wise up! Your gay next door neighbor might be the one helping you save your house from fire or water or some other disaster. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Be Nice!

Since: Dec 05

Palo Alto, CA

#4 Jan 25, 2006
JimSneak wrote:
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Okay seeing how I'm an admitted homophobic I can still live and let live as you say as long as it's not flaunted about willy-nilly like, like it has been here of late.'Brokeback Mountain' up for best picture? Give me an F'ing break already! And that damn Bravo channel with it's BS crap on it needs to clean up their sissy act bigtime. Get back in the closets and stay there, and them damn illegal 'marriages' have to go too. Sorry, that's non-negotiable. I have to admit that's the best I've ever seen what the Kinkster had to say about letting whatever God you believe in sort it all out later. I never thought about it like that. I like that. But still, bottom line they got to get their "bottom lines" back in the closet. Why? Because it sickens me to see a so-called man with 'girlish' mannerisms. And stay the hell out of our local Lake City park, and also keep away from the Lake Montgomery area...
Well obviously you can't live and let live giving your obvious hatred. Perhaps you have some deep-rooted emotional issues towards homosexuality? Maybe molested as a child? "Brokeback mountain wouldn't be getting Best Picture if people didn't like it. Bravo wouldn't be airing gay-friendly programming if it wasn't popular. That's just how a capitalist society works. Why should you care what kind of mannerisms someone expresses? Does it hurt you in any way?

I suggest you crawl back under your rock, because your ideal world only exists in your mind.

Since: Dec 05

Palo Alto, CA

#6 Jan 25, 2006
JimSneak wrote:
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My response is, "Perhaps" times two...
LOL, meaning that you're deeply disturbed? Well that much is quite clear.
KinKStar

United States

#8 Jan 26, 2006
Wow! This is exactly what I mean! Too much is spend AND WASTED on accusations and name-calling and people thinking they know the right way to be or live! I don't get it! I won't be the last one to quote someone who was running from the police and got wrongfully got (over)beat to sh*t when he was caught, but: "Can't we all just get along?"

May I kindly suggest taking that WASTED energy used to condemn your fellow man and use it to focus instead on the goodness of mankind? It too can be found and seen and appreciated! There's nothing to be gained from criticizing how the world is around us. In fact, being different is just what makes it a wonder to be seen and experienced. AND isn't it arrogant to figure the way you are living your life is the best or the one to follow?

Practice Feeling Joyful In This Life On Earth! You might be surprised to realize how much easier it is that way!
KinKStar

United States

#13 Feb 1, 2006
badbob wrote:
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wrong.
it effects & sickens me. so i am being effected. do it in front of me and i'll tear out your throat."badbob"
Here comes another hater ... "Do it in front of" you? What's up with all that? Personally, I don't care to see anyone swapping a whole lotta lovin' spit! That would include man/woman or same sex couples in public and acting like they're auditioning for a porno! Otherwise, why should anyone give a d*mn what someone does in their own privacy?
KinKStar

United States

#15 Feb 1, 2006
Pretty obvious to me it's ALL Nothing But HATE!

Any man so hung up on another man being with men is nothing but insecure about his own self and his own sexuality. Besides, don't even try to say you've never "had" a woman from behind. I'm not necessarily speaking of whether you had anal sex with her, but maybe so ... The point is the view looking over her back is the same as if it were another man! YOU are too hung up on "sissies" and I wonder what's the REAL PROBLEM ...

Nobody has answered my question YET ... What's the big deal how someone is in the privacy of their own home? How would you like someone telling you who to love, or how to live and love?

I suppose it doesn't bother you to see a man/woman making out like fools in public, huh? I'd almost betcha you'd have no objection to woman/woman doing anything, like many men ...

Jim, if you are "normal," then something is really wrong with this picture! You can't love your God and say you follow his lead, then judge others, or pick and choose who you love because of your Christian beliefs! You truly sound like an angry, bitter man. Try being nice! You'll live happier!

Since: Dec 05

Palo Alto, CA

#17 Feb 1, 2006
Let me guess...for manly men like you, its not gay as long as you don't kiss, right? Maybe back when you were 12 or 13 some bully in the grade above you popped your cherry and you've been homophobic since? Just a theory...
JimSneak wrote:
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If I'm insecure as you claim I don't know it. Maybe you're new in town? If so let me fill you in on some "gay blade" types in our area. For some strange reason there's two places they seem to like to do perversions in public. The city park restrooms right down the street from the Police Department, and the wooded area near the Lake Montgomery fishin' pier. Despite gettin' popped every now and again they keep comin' back for more all the time. What's up with that? Now who's the "crazy" one? Not this writer.

Actually that's my fav position. LoL! The real problem? Not that I believe there is one ya understand? I'm been homophobic since the age of 12 or 13 thereabouts like. You see up there in Union Lake, Michigan (a small village 30 miles NW of Detroit) there was this group of y'all stayin' in one of the neighborhood homes. Back then (1966-'67) you hardly ever heard of these types amongst us. They kept their secrets to themselves. So I feel it ought to be that way again. Anyway-- back to the "gay blades" of Union Lake. We hetro children used to really give those dudes hell. We'd egg their home all the time. Stand out in the street at night tauntin' them. We were little hooligans that ain't no lie. Anyway that's when my "comtempt" developed.

I done answered that already. No one knows what goes on behind closed doors. And that's as it should be. The problems come from when the behavior isn't behind closed doors.

Ya got that right. Wouldn't bother me a bit to see a guy and girl gettin' it in public. In fact I'd like to watch! LoL. Same with seein' girl/girl. Hey, what can I say? That's a typical "normal" male fantasy.

I never spoke of following any God. I just wrote some words I heard before. I believe in God but not necessarily the same one you may do. I know all 'bout that "judge not less ye be judged" propaganda. I may believe in it or I may not. I don't think it's anyones business but my own. Angry? Bitter? Yeah, I guess you could say that. That's why Uncle pays me every month. It's built within me, ya understand? As for bitterness. I'm not goin' for that one. Anger okay, bitterness no. I am "nice" 'til you cross me...
KinKStar

United States

#19 Feb 2, 2006
No, on the contrary, Newt, you are right on point! It is most probably exactly what happened for someone to be so obsessed with this lifestyle "diversion" and hatred for his fellow man.

You know Jim, many of the men caught regularly "cruising" such places as you mention are so-called "straight" men, who also preach to the masses how horrible homosexuality is and what all they would do to "one of them" if ever ...

Here's a question: Should gay men (and women) be entitled to willingly join and serve their country to live and die in freedom? AND should they have to "pretend," or avoid being asked to tell, in order to do their duty as they see fit for this America?
Little Sorrel

Fort Myers, FL

#23 Feb 3, 2006
newt wrote:
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Well obviously you can't live and let live giving your obvious hatred. Perhaps you have some deep-rooted emotional issues towards homosexuality? Maybe molested as a child? "Brokeback mountain wouldn't be getting Best Picture if people didn't like it. Bravo wouldn't be airing gay-friendly programming if it wasn't popular. That's just how a capitalist society works. Why should you care what kind of mannerisms someone expresses? Does it hurt you in any way?

I suggest you crawl back under your rock, because your ideal world only exists in your mind.
capitalist society? More like socialists society. I can get along with any, but don't push your beleif af guy right off on me. if you don't think about it as being un Godly think of it as just plain out unature, if it was met to be one sex god would have made it that way.

Since: Dec 05

Palo Alto, CA

#24 Feb 3, 2006
Huh? That's the worst comeback I've ever heard. People have the choice as to whether to see a movie or not. Movies get nominated for the Oscars depending on whether people like them or not. I don't see how socialism comes into the situation in any way.

How is anyone trying to push their beliefs on you? They're just trying to keep you from pushing your beliefs on them. Might want to work on your grammar by the way, its rather hard to understand your post.
Little Sorrel wrote:
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capitalist society? More like socialists society. I can get along with any, but don't push your beleif af guy right off on me. if you don't think about it as being un Godly think of it as just plain out unature, if it was met to be one sex god would have made it that way.
Fl-native

Pulaski, TN

#25 Aug 4, 2006
KinKStar wrote:
What's up with all the hate here in FL? As long as someone is living their life without harming yours or your family, why should you care? Why so much righeous judgement against gays or lesbians or people of any color. Damn, even fat people have to live with too much grief! They are the last sector of us where it's still acceptable to laugh and make comments in front of their faces ... NO! IT IS NOT ALRIGHT!
If they're doing something that's sinful, let their God take care of what they have done when the time comes! It's simply not anyone's business how someone CHOOSES to live their life, unless they are breaking the law ...
Too much love and energy is wasted on all the hate and trying to make someone feel shame based on your own morals. It's just wrong to be so lacking of any tolerance for any living being, people AND animals. And it says more about the person saying "all that" than the one they're running their mouth about.
It's a big world and lots of stuff happens to change how things are overnight. Wise up! Your gay next door neighbor might be the one helping you save your house from fire or water or some other disaster. Treat people the way you want to be treated. Be Nice!
What's wrong here is we've been over run by northeners, southeners are just nicer! trouble is we are quickly being ouy numbered. For the most part the insurgents are rude and mean.
Fl-native

Pulaski, TN

#26 Aug 4, 2006
Little Sorrel wrote:
<quoted text>
capitalist society? More like socialists society. I can get along with any, but don't push your beleif af guy right off on me. if you don't think about it as being un Godly think of it as just plain out unature, if it was met to be one sex god would have made it that way.
What the heck are you babbling? What is your point?
biblegirl fort white

High Springs, FL

#27 Nov 2, 2007
i have enough on my own plate...don't need any one else's

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