how can dad's reject their own kids f...

how can dad's reject their own kids for sombody else's kid's?

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john smith

Pleasanton, CA

#1 Mar 15, 2011
I think that its sad... they just hurting their kids... but there are some sorry sobs that think like a bunch of idiots..... treat ur kids tha same way u treat ur gfs kids....
jane smith

Shingle Springs, CA

#2 Mar 15, 2011
Well what about the guys that take off and treat the new gf/ wife better than the kids he has with the ex. I mean come on how messed up is it to ignor your kids and only be there for them when and if it is convienient for the new wife.
do your job

United States

#3 Mar 15, 2011
jane smith wrote:
Well what about the guys that take off and treat the new gf/ wife better than the kids he has with the ex. I mean come on how messed up is it to ignor your kids and only be there for them when and if it is convienient for the new wife.
maybe if u would let them see them it would help, and maybe if u did your job at home, u would not be blaming other people and looking at your self first. u no how u r.
whatever

United States

#4 Mar 15, 2011
U r stupid men r pigs
do your job

United States

#5 Mar 15, 2011
whatever wrote:
U r stupid men r pigs
When woman dont do there job at home of course the look somewhere else,-clean house, cook, pamper them, thats when we call them pigs. But when those pigs give us money we dont say nothing wants they dont give nothing they r pigs, bastards and everything else.
whatever

United States

#6 Mar 15, 2011
Dont get mad but men r pigs that is the truth.
do your job

United States

#7 Mar 15, 2011
What r woman, cant them be pigs 2. Maybe if the ex's would them see their kids, and not only that but maybe not give them so many siblings from different dads, that dont step up 2 the plate.
sweet peppers

United States

#8 Mar 16, 2011
That kind of man shouldnt be called dads. My ex is one of those pigs. He doesn't worries about his own kids but he is raising two other kids that dnt belong to him. But thank god I raised my kids of my own and never needed him. And all this because of the fat bitch that he has. Women if ur married a guy that had kids before u should know they come with a package like it or not just like he accepts ya bitches with yas package be fair. Its not the kids fault
for your info

Penn Valley, CA

#9 Mar 16, 2011
I gave his ass every chance to see the kids. Its not my fault he got involved with the woman he is involved with and got drug charges and now a drug conviction on his ass so now he has to have supervised visitation. Dont bother me none its no like he pays his child support or any thing else any way hell he is over $12,000 behind. And for your information i do take care of mine and how many other kids if any i have dont make a diffrence.
information society

United States

#10 Mar 16, 2011
Maybe the NEW wives/GF know how to take care of their man and accepts that man in general. The "EX" is there for a reason not to mention some of those EXs' don't do they jobs as parents either. It takes a REAL woman to deal with a Real man. and the kids well from what i know they regret choosing that person to start a family with. truth sux but we make misteaks and get over them like last nights bad mexican bean burritos
time

Wichita Falls, TX

#11 Mar 16, 2011
i agree with "information society". an EX is an EX. i dont think you should blame their new wife/gf. if she has any kids of her own, im pretty sure shes not out to keep him from seeing his kids. theres always females hating on what they want and cant have. and trying to make problems for their "ex" and wife/gf anyway they can. maybe he doesnt want any more problems and thats y he's distanced himself. food for thought people.
sweet pePpers

United States

#12 Mar 16, 2011
Well for yalls info my ex didn't left me for any other women. We just had our problems but he did got married after 8 yrs with this girl. He was real close to my kids. He come to see my kids all the way where we lived but just as soon as he got married she didn't wanted. Him to see my kids just because she tought that our kids will bring us back together. Believe me that wouldn't happen I dnt have nothing against her. Which am so happy for them and for her cuz she has somebody that abused me and my kids. So in my behalf no jelousy or hate towards her but she's the one. That hates my kids just because she scared that I might get him back hell no. But please guys always look for yas kids they're a blessing from god and dnt let a women come beeytween ya and yas dids
not just men

Crane, TX

#13 Mar 20, 2011
its not just men that leave their kids for thier gf/wife women do it too.... look at that fat dck sucking hoe of JOANN TARIN THE STUPID BITCH WITH BETO SALGADO SHE TOO LEFT HER SON WITH THE DAD AND HIS NEW WIFE. N I SEE THEM AROUND TOWN TOGETHER( FREDDY N HIS STEP MOM) TO BE HONEST THAT LADY IS REALLY GOOD WITH THAT BOY BETTER THAT JOANN. I FREAK OUT WITH THAT LADY CAUSE I THOUGHT HE WAS HER SON IT WASNT TILL SHE TOLD ME HE WASNT HER SON THAT I FREAKED OUT. THERE ARE POEPLE LIKE THAT THAT ARE BETTER PARENTS THAN THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS.
endless

Brentwood, CA

#14 Mar 20, 2011
If your children have a dad that rejects them, it is not the end of the world. Those kids are better off for sure. I raised my kids by myself and my ex rejected them. Now they are grown up and they know who was there for them and who wasn't. They know who cared for them, who looked after them, who took them to there sports games and ran around crazy with them. There dad might of fooled them when they were little but not now that they are grown up. His loss. Now HE wishes they were closer to him and now they make it there choice to reject him.
do your job

United States

#15 Mar 20, 2011
endless wrote:
If your children have a dad that rejects them, it is not the end of the world. Those kids are better off for sure. I raised my kids by myself and my ex rejected them. Now they are grown up and they know who was there for them and who wasn't. They know who cared for them, who looked after them, who took them to there sports games and ran around crazy with them. There dad might of fooled them when they were little but not now that they are grown up. His loss. Now HE wishes they were closer to him and now they make it there choice to reject him.
u blame him but what did u do to make him go away, we always blame the because it so much easier.
endless

United States

#16 Mar 21, 2011
Whatever I did was my doing. Kids have nothing to do with this. My kids always could get in touch with him. When they were little, he made all kinds of excuses, when they got bigger those excuses did not work. He left with another woman. He raise those kids and now he cannot tell them anything because he is not there DAD. He got what he dealt himself. Can't blame anybody or make excuses. Your child is your child.
tech

Austin, TX

#17 Mar 21, 2011
Amen to that. Endless is right. YOUR CHILD IS YOUR CHILD. In the same boat. Know what it feels like.
Laughing

Tyler, TX

#18 Mar 21, 2011
Kids remember every lie told to them every hospital visit missed and every birthday and Christmas missed those are things that you can't blame on the mom. That is the dad that got himself into that rut and made the kids not want to talk to him because they get lied to every time they do. The dad does not even ask how they are doing in school or if they need food, electricity, shoes or clothes. And why? Because he expects someone else that is not the dad to raise them. But its all good they are happy and well taken care of, did not even ask to see the dad when they had the chance. Make everyone feel sorry for you with the crap and lies you talk its so hilarious cus they run to me laughing their assess off cus they know you. The kids are much better off without the dad that has no desire to work or college. The children need good role models and have great ones all with college education and common sense!So to all you girls who cares about the dad you can do better on your own.
Tired

United States

#19 Mar 21, 2011
I am a good dad, the only thing I hate, when I want to go pick up my kids to take them out to eat or to the movies or the park my EX gets in the car too, she claims that she doesn't trust me. There is nothing on me. So I told her, that I want to spend time with my kids not with her. Then she expects for me to pay for her too. My kids know that I love them. I give them child support, What does she do with the money, she buys cowboy hats for her boyfriend. Sometimes its the women fault. I know it is not the kids fault, but women like my EX, really tires some of us. So lately I just go see them at their house take them something and leave. But I will not take her out. Feeding her is like feeding a pig.
HELLO

Odessa, TX

#20 Mar 21, 2011
do your job wrote:
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u blame him but what did u do to make him go away, we always blame the because it so much easier.
Does it matter who did what?? Being a parent takes responsibility. It's not about US anymore it's about the kids. It takes a man to be a dad HELLO havent you seen those commercials. Men are more than likely to walk out on there family just so they can have a good time & most of the time they end up regreting it. So us women make ourselfs strong & when these men come back crawling begging for forgiveness we say NO. But just cause we don't take them back doesn't mean they can't be there for the children.

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