Benefit dinner for Kynden Gillen

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wish you would shut up

Hutchinson, KS

#2 Sep 23, 2010
family friend wrote:
I am extemely confused!! Being a close friend to the family and knowing that 1)the funeral has been paid in full by daddys family, 2)momma being on healthwave for her and kynden and per Childrens Mercy what Healthwave has not covered has been written off, 3)if this is a true financial issue to the family why wasn't daddys family invited and/or involved. Something just doesn't seem right! Therefore, if lining your pockets in behalf of the death of baby Kynden is the bottom line then by all means I sure hope you can sleep peacefully at night. Just remember what goes around comes around.
Are you F****n crazy. Just want you to know that I am not related to either family, I do know both sides equally well.
First of all how dare you post something like this in the name of a little baby who passed away. You are so rude that your mother should be ashamed of you and smack you in the mouth. You obviously don't know what it is like to lose a baby. It is something that cant be described. Me and my family went through the exact same thing last year, we lost our little one at Childrens Mercy also. I can honestly say I know what this family is going through, which is why it is soooooooooo offensive that you would be such an A** and post dirty things at a time like this. If someone wants to help this family in any way who are you to gossip about it.
Second, unless you are the parent of the child you have no idea what kind of bills these poor kids have. You are running your mouth on hear say. Furthermore if you do not agree with a fundraiser, keep your RUDE A** at home that night and keep your money in your pocket, nobody is forcing anyone to give. As far as the daddy's family being invited, I do recall seeing flyers all over town. I guess all of us got the same invitation.
Third, people like you, who stir up SH*T just to hurt others should have to wear a perminate muzzle. Stupidity cannot be cured so go on being a rude idiot and hopefully someday the tables will turn and the joke will be on you.
OMG

Salt Lake City, UT

#3 Sep 23, 2010
Thank you for letting the public know about this injustice if there are no medical or funeral expences. As far as the comment from "wish you would shut up" you need to get you head out of your a**! If is benefit is to take money from other people just to use for personal gain then everyone should know about it! Why would anyone think it is ok to exploit a babys death for their own benefit??? If all bills are paid and there is no other expences then there is NO REASON TO HAVE THE FUNDRAISER!
family friend

Salt Lake City, UT

#4 Sep 23, 2010
No I am no f***n crazy. First, you need to get some things straight. I never once said that this family is not hurting over all of this. I am just saying that to have a fundraiser to help take care of the bills is a complete lie. Shame on you and them for using this babies death as a way to raise money. You obviously don't know this family as well as you think. I just think that everyone has a right to know the truth. Maybe you need to get the facts straight before running your mouth.
wish you would shut up

Hutchinson, KS

#5 Sep 23, 2010
family friend wrote:
No I am no f***n crazy. First, you need to get some things straight. I never once said that this family is not hurting over all of this. I am just saying that to have a fundraiser to help take care of the bills is a complete lie. Shame on you and them for using this babies death as a way to raise money. You obviously don't know this family as well as you think. I just think that everyone has a right to know the truth. Maybe you need to get the facts straight before running your mouth.
Shame on you for assuming you know everything and bashing this family, who by the way I really don't know that well as I do not know the dad's family that well. As I said before, I know each family equally as well.
Mom of Kynden

Pasadena, TX

#7 Sep 23, 2010
Okay correction Daddy of Kynden and I had a misunderstanding. Kyndens bills have been paid by daddys family...soooo proceeds will help them out bc all of this cost so much!! They will also still go to Childrens Mercy - West and Ronald McDonald House Charities!! I do apologize for the mix up and for making an ass of myself. The bills were sent to my house so from what I gathered thaose bills were still the balance due.
Lauren Caulfield

Fort Scott, KS

#8 Sep 23, 2010
You may be close to the family but you obvious have no respect. You cant even put your name on here. And if you just lost a child how do you think it would feel to read people talking crap on you? This is the last thing they need. So keep your opinions to yourself because you know its just going to hurt them.
Person with feelings

Fort Scott, KS

#9 Sep 23, 2010
I cannot believe the nerve of people. If you are a "close" friend of the family, why would you go on a public forum to discuss this? Why don't you just go to the parents of this lost child and speak to them? I'm sure the loss of this child is just an unbearable heartbreak, so why stir up trouble. If your a friend of the dadddy, don't you know this is going to hurt him also? Its just my opinion but haven't these people suffered enough? And if you think the funds are going to be misused, and your really are a close friend maybe you could send your donation directly to childrens mercy or the ronald mcdonald house in honor of baby Kynden. I'm not trying to be rude just respectful.
Mom of Kynden

Monterey Park, CA

#10 Sep 23, 2010
Person with feelings wrote:
I cannot believe the nerve of people. If you are a "close" friend of the family, why would you go on a public forum to discuss this? Why don't you just go to the parents of this lost child and speak to them? I'm sure the loss of this child is just an unbearable heartbreak, so why stir up trouble. If your a friend of the dadddy, don't you know this is going to hurt him also? Its just my opinion but haven't these people suffered enough? And if you think the funds are going to be misused, and your really are a close friend maybe you could send your donation directly to childrens mercy or the ronald mcdonald house in honor of baby Kynden. I'm not trying to be rude just respectful.
Thank you!! Veryyy much appreciated. <3 ;)
lmfao

Wichita, KS

#11 Sep 23, 2010
THE BILLS ARE PAID. shit....doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. Why do you think Kyleigh got to go on a trip to Cali? She is a drama queen hate to say it but so true and updates her facebook daily with "mommy misses u soooo much Baby Kynden" IT GETS OLD. She is just using the money for personal gain. and wants sympathy and attention from others. Im sorry but it hurts alot more to lose a 3 year old than a baby you spent 11 days with.
sick of it

Fort Scott, KS

#12 Sep 23, 2010
Kyliegh didnt pay for the trip to Cali Erin did. Get your facts straight!!!
Cousin of baby kynden

Fort Scott, KS

#13 Sep 23, 2010
lmfao wrote:
THE BILLS ARE PAID. shit....doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. Why do you think Kyleigh got to go on a trip to Cali? She is a drama queen hate to say it but so true and updates her facebook daily with "mommy misses u soooo much Baby Kynden" IT GETS OLD. She is just using the money for personal gain. and wants sympathy and attention from others. Im sorry but it hurts alot more to lose a 3 year old than a baby you spent 11 days with.
To everyone on here that is down grading my cousin better back off. You might say its harder to lose a 3 year old than a baby that is 11 days old, well here is something for you be a first time mom and only spend 11 days with the best blessing that has happened to you and then that lil beating heart stops. I hope you sleep well with the pain you caused my family. People like you shouldn't be able to even comment on this stuff. You say it is old hearing her say "MOMMY MISSES YOU SOOOOO MUCH BABY KYNDEN....Have you ever thought that is her way of coping with the pain. So what if the bill is paid and to let you know its none of your buisness. The money will go to something that will help others. So for further comments....If you have nothing nice to say to the family then leave your post out of this..... Love you baby Kynden....Shine bright lil man......Mommy of Kynden I know your doing the right thing hold your head high and stay strong.... These bad comments are the least of your worries just remember people who don't have lives tries to ruin others.....
Sad

Bentonville, AR

#14 Sep 24, 2010
This is sad, a child dies and you losers have nothing better to do than insult the family and make up lies. Leave people alone, this is no joke, its a tragic time in someones life, so back off.
Mom of Kynden

Monterey Park, CA

#15 Sep 24, 2010
lmfao wrote:
THE BILLS ARE PAID. shit....doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. Why do you think Kyleigh got to go on a trip to Cali? She is a drama queen hate to say it but so true and updates her facebook daily with "mommy misses u soooo much Baby Kynden" IT GETS OLD. She is just using the money for personal gain. and wants sympathy and attention from others. Im sorry but it hurts alot more to lose a 3 year old than a baby you spent 11 days with.
F*** YOU!! GET A LIFE AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE SEEING MY SH*T ON FACEBOOK DELETE ME BC YOU OBVIOUSLY AREN'T A FRIEND TO,ME ANYWAYS!!!
wish you would shut up

Hutchinson, KS

#16 Sep 24, 2010
lmfao wrote:
THE BILLS ARE PAID. shit....doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. Why do you think Kyleigh got to go on a trip to Cali? She is a drama queen hate to say it but so true and updates her facebook daily with "mommy misses u soooo much Baby Kynden" IT GETS OLD. She is just using the money for personal gain. and wants sympathy and attention from others. Im sorry but it hurts alot more to lose a 3 year old than a baby you spent 11 days with.
I lost a baby shortly after birth, and I still cry over that loss. That was 17 years ago.
Your comment is the worst thing I have seen in a long time.
Mom of Kynden

Monterey Park, CA

#17 Sep 24, 2010
lmfao wrote:
THE BILLS ARE PAID. shit....doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. Why do you think Kyleigh got to go on a trip to Cali? She is a drama queen hate to say it but so true and updates her facebook daily with "mommy misses u soooo much Baby Kynden" IT GETS OLD. She is just using the money for personal gain. and wants sympathy and attention from others. Im sorry but it hurts alot more to lose a 3 year old than a baby you spent 11 days with.
By the way you obviously know NOTHING about this situation!! I spent 9 days with my son not 11 and that was just out of the womb. I spent 9 months with my baby in the womb. And if you are referring yourself as the one who lost the 3 year old you have my sincerest apologies. If you were just using that as an example...go through what I have been and then tell me if saying I miss my son is old. Plus that has never been on my status that way so you can take the quotes off....grow up!!
HA WOW

Fort Scott, KS

#18 Sep 24, 2010
Here's my opinion...
We didn't tell Kyleigh to get knocked up at 19 years old. None of us. It was their decision. "Their" as in Kodi and Kyleigh's. i don't know either of them very well but I still don't understand why ANY of us should have to take ANY of our hardworking money out of OUR pockets to help somebody out that did something that was not OUR decision whatsoever and had absolutely NO control over. If teens would wrap their stuff these days, we wouldn't even be in this situation. This isn't the 80's, we don't have to have children at 20 anymore. Sadly, that isn't the case because now we have 15 year olds running around pregnant. Ha, what a shame. America at its finest. Anyways, I do hear the bills are paid for. I do here she went to California to get away. Understandable if her friend payed for that but my goodness, if she is using any of this "fundraiser" money to help out her personal situation, that is absolutely ridiculous. If all the bills are payed for, then it's a done deal. You're paying the dad's family back? For their help? What the hell? NO.....Just so they can use that money on the second baby coming for him? HA. The dude gets two teens knocked up in less than 3 months...that's just asking for a big bite of Karma. Come on people. Kyleigh....we are sorry for you loss. But, eventually if you want to put it in the past A LITTLE, quit posting statuses and such to get nothing but attention. AND quit blaming Seal for the loss of your baby. What a joke. Get a life...to blame anybody on the loss of your child is the most immature thing in the world. If it's anybody's fault, its yours for the things you did to Kynden while he was still in the womb. Enough said. Quit hosting fundraisers and quit posting statuses for attention and comments. It's old as hell. Kbye.
HA WOW

Fort Scott, KS

#19 Sep 24, 2010
Hear* she went to California. Excuse me.
Mom of Kynden

United States

#20 Sep 24, 2010
HA WOW wrote:
Here's my opinion...
We didn't tell Kyleigh to get knocked up at 19 years old. None of us. It was their decision. "Their" as in Kodi and Kyleigh's. i don't know either of them very well but I still don't understand why ANY of us should have to take ANY of our hardworking money out of OUR pockets to help somebody out that did something that was not OUR decision whatsoever and had absolutely NO control over. If teens would wrap their stuff these days, we wouldn't even be in this situation. This isn't the 80's, we don't have to have children at 20 anymore. Sadly, that isn't the case because now we have 15 year olds running around pregnant. Ha, what a shame. America at its finest. Anyways, I do hear the bills are paid for. I do here she went to California to get away. Understandable if her friend payed for that but my goodness, if she is using any of this "fundraiser" money to help out her personal situation, that is absolutely ridiculous. If all the bills are payed for, then it's a done deal. You're paying the dad's family back? For their help? What the hell? NO.....Just so they can use that money on the second baby coming for him? HA. The dude gets two teens knocked up in less than 3 months...that's just asking for a big bite of Karma. Come on people. Kyleigh....we are sorry for you loss. But, eventually if you want to put it in the past A LITTLE, quit posting statuses and such to get nothing but attention. AND quit blaming Seal for the loss of your baby. What a joke. Get a life...to blame anybody on the loss of your child is the most immature thing in the world. If it's anybody's fault, its yours for the things you did to Kynden while he was still in the womb. Enough said. Quit hosting fundraisers and quit posting statuses for attention and comments. It's old as hell. Kbye.
F**K YOU. HOW ABOUT GROWING UP AND TELLING ME WHO YOU ARE INSTEAD OF HIDING BEHIND A NAME. SECOND YOU OBVIOUSLY KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THE SITUATION BC I DID NOTHING TO MY CHILD WHILE HE WAS IN THE WOMB ...AND IT WAS DR SEALS FAULT...HOW ABOUT GETTING YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT BEFORE BUTTING IN WHERE YOU CLEARLY DON'T BELONG!!!!! So with that being said screw off and mind your OWN d**n business!!!!!!
HA WOW

Fort Scott, KS

#21 Sep 24, 2010
Ha, I guess all caps was necessary? Let's just blame the death on a doctor instead of understanding that God works in mysterious ways. I can't help but "butt" in when your name comes onto a community website. Can't you let the Lord heal you of your problems instead of doing this and that for the kid each and every week? All this is doing is making it worse on yourself. The less you think about him, the less you're going to hurt. You went to Cali to get away from it all yet according to your status, you couldn't stand being in the air because your were "that much closer to Kynden" ....come on now. At this rate, you aren't going to make it past the age of 25.
april stephens

United States

#22 Sep 24, 2010
Wow Kyleigh you are such a strong girl, and there is no way i could handle everything you have gone through props to you...I'm so proud of you and love you girl...Now as for HA WOW you have no right to say the kind of things you are saying and then turning around and telling her what God want for her...How dare you tell a mourning mother she is Mourning her loss the wrong way... Shame on you to even pretend to be holier than though...Don't you thing God is looking down on you and frowing with disgust...Where is the compassion and love? And lmfao...how sad of a life you must have to pick on such a sweet girl... Oh and just so you know, the condition kynden had could have been cought sooner and taken care of, How is it her fault? I personally hope to see all you evil trash talkers burn in hell, If you don't like kyleigh fine that's your choice, but how dare you say anything about her..that's not your place..judge and be judged, in the end you are the ones that are wrong and you are the ones God Himself will set straight.. I will pray for your souls and may God have mercy on your pathetic life

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