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Dlong

Chesterfield, MO

#1 Oct 29, 2010
Im a gay male who is affraid to come out to a community. I need help. All my life its been hard going threw this. I dont want to be another gay suicide. I need some advice please! Dont judge me.
noway

Wichita, KS

#2 Oct 29, 2010
where are u from
Dlong

Chesterfield, MO

#3 Oct 29, 2010
Fort Scott, Kansas. I live here.
itsok

Wichita, KS

#4 Oct 29, 2010
be yourself
. its ok
Good Lord

Lawrence, KS

#5 Oct 29, 2010
I'd talk to siblings or friends first. Depending on how old you are I'd plan on getting out of Ft Scott as soon as possible. People there wont change, it'll just be a matter of you learning to deal with them.
itsok

Wichita, KS

#6 Oct 30, 2010
how old are u
somethings never change

Overland Park, KS

#9 Nov 3, 2010
Your not the first gay guy in fort scott or the last. Look at rick and Jack that ran the Red Barn everyone loved them. Or move to a gay community were is accepted.
Good Lord

Tonkawa, OK

#10 Nov 4, 2010
somethings never change wrote:
Your not the first gay guy in fort scott or the last. Look at rick and Jack that ran the Red Barn everyone loved them. Or move to a gay community were is accepted.
What is a 'gay community'?
Obvious

Fort Scott, KS

#11 Nov 4, 2010
San Francisco
Be blunt and rude a hell

Overland Park, KS

#12 Nov 4, 2010
WestPort Area KC , Eureka Springs, Ark I now I seen alot of Jim and Jacks Bed and Breakfast
listen

United States

#13 Nov 4, 2010
Who cares if that's how you choose to live your life.. Be free and enjoy it!! Of course you are going to hear people in this town complain and talk down to you. Just remember, you have to be happy with yourself to be happy with your life. Don't let a bunch of small town folks knock you down so bad you can't get back up. Remember it is not looked down upon as much in bigger cities. Do what you gotta do here and then move away. Live your life the way you want and then all that will be left is the memory of a bunch of small town pricks thats not worth trying to impress.
2gd4u

Overland Park, KS

#14 Nov 4, 2010
Hey babe hell with what people think. We are what we are and who are they to judge. Its nobodys choice what partner or person we fall in love with. Hell im straight and am still attracted to my own sex also. Its all good.
Good Lord

Tonkawa, OK

#15 Nov 4, 2010
So then you mean to say a 'gay friendly' community. As a gay he is already a member of the gay community.
I don't think it's necessary to move to San Francisco. Although I hear it's quite beautiful, moving halfway across the country to be accepted is probably not terribly feasible for everyone.
I'd use facebook to find other people in the area that are accepting. Get enough of them together and you can go out wherever the hell you want.
loving

United States

#16 Nov 4, 2010
Sending you positive energy. Dont be ashamed of who you are. God doesn't make mistakes!
Some people

Fort Scott, KS

#17 Nov 4, 2010
Some people in this town don't care if you are gay or straight. Some people do care. No matter where you go it will be this way. So as others have said, just be happy and yourself. Those who make rude and mean comments need to mature. I am not gay nor do I agree with it. However, I am not going to treat someone differently because of it.
Cookies

Wichita, KS

#18 Dec 10, 2010
Don't be afraid to be yourself. You will face challenges no matter where you are. Even in San Fransico there are completely intolerent, ignorent people who feel the need to push their idea of life onto you. As a gay male also in Fort Scott I can tell you first hand there is going to be a challenge to it, but in the end you'll be happy to be yourself. Don't ever let anyone else run your life. We are not here to live for someone else. We are here to live for ourselves. Be yourself and let the chips fall were they may. Others can only make you stronger in life. Never just live to slide through life, live in a way that you love life and don't regret the choices you make. Can you truly say if you don't come out, that you'll never regret it? All you need is good friends and supportive people, then life will be fine.
actually

United States

#19 Dec 11, 2010
The parts don't fit. Its like that game you played when you were a toddler, the one where you match the shapes with their matching holes. Its like trying to put the square in the hole for the triangle. It just doesnt work. God gave girls twats and boys meathammers for a reason. I have nothing against gays, hell I have some very close gay friends but it still just doesn't make a lick of sense to me.
reginald

United States

#20 Dec 11, 2010
Sin is what it is. Its discussting. Keep it to yourself. it is just gross. You asked for opinions and this is mine. If you don't like it don't ask.
Good Lord

Lawrence, KS

#21 Dec 11, 2010
reginald wrote:
Sin is what it is. Its discussting. Keep it to yourself. it is just gross. You asked for opinions and this is mine. If you don't like it don't ask.
They asked for help, prick. Not your poorly spelled, hateful opinion. If you can't help, don't speak.
Positive Energy

Green Forest, AR

#22 Dec 11, 2010
loving wrote:
Sending you positive energy. Dont be ashamed of who you are. God doesn't make mistakes!
You are correct. God does not err; however, He does give us a free will and to openly embrace a 'gay lifestyle' is the wrong route to take for that free will. There are groups that can help you work through this unnatural attraction. It may not be politically correct to say homosexuality is wrong, but that does not make it any less so.

Discussions like this always seem to contain the ubiquitous 'you need to be happy' or 'do what makes you happy' or 'if it feels right do it.' These are short term solutions that dramatically affect you eternally. Peace.

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