how to get my name cleard

how to get my name cleard

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scherry lee Jacques

Minden, Canada

#1 Sep 30, 2012
Hi my name is scherrylee jacques the question i like to find out how to get my name cleard for something i did not do and it ruieding my life i got married really young and i got preqant young to married a man that was way older then me but i did it to ger out of my parents house i was getting borthed by my step brother when my parents wasnt home him coming onto my room at night and my step father was hitting us children as well with the belt into the marriage i had three childern i had no help from my family had a husbend that drank all the time. so i met this girl from school in high school got to know her family i thought i knew that family and by then my husbend went to jail for something that happend 10 years ago i didnt know about so he want to jail for a year so i got my family to baby sit my kids a couple of times will i did shoppin and paid the bill well last time i got her to baby sit she wouldnt give the kids back to me next i knew it my oldest child said he was getting sexaully abused but they got him to say it was mom and dad and the chidren aid said took the kids from me then to find out they found out it wasnt me and my husbend it was my friend parents and uncle of the family come to find out they were known sex affders i was wondering if i can still be around childern because of all this
Boo

Fort Scott, KS

#2 Sep 30, 2012
Good God I hope not!
tot

United States

#3 Sep 30, 2012

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Hi my name is scherrylee jacques the question i like to find out how to get my name "cleard "for something i did not do and it "ruieding" my life i got married really young and "i" got "preqant" young to married a man that was way older then me but i did it to ger out of my parents house i was getting "borthed" by my step brother when my parents "wasnt" home him coming onto my room at night and my step father was hitting us children as well with the belt into the marriage i had three "childern" i had no help from my family had a "husbend" that drank all the time. so i met this girl from school in high school got to know her family i thought i knew that family and by then my "husbend" went to jail for something that "happend" 10 years ago "i" "didnt" know about so he want to jail for a year so i got my family to baby sit my kids a couple of times will i did "shoppin" and paid the bill well last time i got her to baby sit she "wouldnt" give the kids back to me next i knew it my oldest child said he was getting "sexaully" abused but they got him to say it was mom and dad and the "chidren" aid said took the kids from me then to find out they found out it "wasnt" me and my "husbend "it was my friend parents and uncle of the family come to find out they were known sex "affders" i was wondering if i can still be around "childern" because of all this

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kyleigh hefner foster

United States

#4 Oct 3, 2012
they say there is a number you can call im trying to do the same thing good luck if i get the number i will let you know
Rose Pierce

Gardner, KS

#5 Oct 3, 2012
kyleigh hefner foster wrote:
they say there is a number you can call im trying to do the same thing good luck if i get the number i will let you know
What happened to you, Kyleigh? I ask that question repectfully, if you can discuss it.
kyleigh hefner foster

Saint Louis, MO

#6 Oct 7, 2012
im getting divorced and people want to say i sleep with a bunch of people and do drugs but so not true i got mine off of topixs by reporting abuse on all of the comments and it took a few days for it to come off
Shmily

United States

#7 Oct 8, 2012
Wow! Some of this might sound a bit harsh, but please believe that it is written with the best of intentions.
First of all, I would be less worried about my reputation and a little more concerned about the mental health of my children. If you were truly abused as a child, yourself Scherry, you should know that they will need a lot of serious professional help. Perhaps it would do you some good, too! Second, get out of this town. If this is where the problems are, then start over somewhere else! Third, find a support group. Fourth, leave your children with no one! I was a single mom and guess what, I took my kids everywhere with me. To run errands, to the store, etc. Teach them to behave properly in public and there is no reason to leave them with anyone else. If you do need a babysitter, get references or use professional services or find a good church. These aren't fail safe, but they are certainly better than just leaving them with anyone you know, good friend or not.
The only way to truly clear your name is lead a good life and raise your children with good morals and intentions and your life will repair your reputation. Take pride in yourself because you can be a good person, not because you want others to think you are good, but because that is the person you want to be an example for your children and for the love of God, if these people saw signs that your children were abused and you didn't, then maybe you should be paying more attention to your kids as well. You know what the signs are if you have indeed been through the abuse yourself. You are their only protection. It's time to grow up and do your job! It sucks! You got dealt a crappy hand, no doubt it, but the only choice you have is to do something about it!
Shmily

United States

#8 Oct 8, 2012
kyleigh hefner foster wrote:
im getting divorced and people want to say i sleep with a bunch of people and do drugs but so not true i got mine off of topixs by reporting abuse on all of the comments and it took a few days for it to come off
Kyleigh, I don't know you, but I hope you are able to stand up and do something about your problems, too! I know it's easier said than done, but you gotta forget about what people write on the internet. After all I think it was Abraham Lincoln that said, "Only factual statements can be found on the internet", if you get my meaning...? The internet, especially forums like this one are breeding grounds for immoral accusations from people committing immoral deeds. Forget them. Move up and on and forget what they say. It isn't worth your time or trouble.

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