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loving my family

United States

#22 Nov 21, 2011
really wrote:
Lucky in some aspects yes cause they could have died from sids or had asthma from smoking while pregnant but none of that matters they're doin great so that's good.
Women today don't realize how much of a blessing kids are. They dumb them off on anyone an everyone when its time to party then end up with more for other people to have to worry about an raise from the sideline
well I understand what you mean but I know my kids is a blessing I put my kids needs before my own needs I don't go out and party I don't even go out unless im going to the store paying bills or going to the dr when u have kids ur parting should stop but me I've never been a drinker.... And I can say my 3 yr old daughter ain't stayed with another person till I had her sister and neither one of them have been away from me since then
loving my family

United States

#23 Nov 21, 2011
And the reason that is you can not trust everyone with your kids these days and even at times you can't trust your own blood I know when they with me I don't have to worry what someone doing to my kids what they doing around my kids or even who they have around my kids
AWayfrumther

Maumelle, AR

#24 Dec 1, 2011
loving my family wrote:
I smoked cigs when I was preg with mine but does that make me a bad mother nooooo mine are just fine and healthy
Not a bad mom just a little selfish and off to a pretty ShiTTTy start tho..

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#25 Dec 17, 2011
Ok.....I have to address this. I did NOT smoke or drink or do drugs before, during or while nursing my son. In fact, I had never even experimented with any of that at that time. My son was diagnosed with ADHD at 5. He has extreme allergies that cause asthmatic attacks so severe he spent most of his early years on a nebulizer. His father followed the doctors recommendations and put him on pills against my will (we fought in court for years) FYI....I left him because I caught him cheating on me......I absolutely cannot stand people saying a woman is a bad mother because of such trivial things as smoking......I lost custody of my son because of an abusive man who knew how to work the system.....yes I now smoke and occassionally drink and I have every right. Having children does not mean that you are not allowed to enjoy life occassionally. It does not make you a bad parent....on the contrary....I believe for children to learn moderation they must be shown that you can enjoy life's pleasures and not feel guilty so long as you do not let it control you.
kids friend

United States

#26 Dec 20, 2011
Racheal MILLER '''''
know for fact before hand

United States

#27 Dec 21, 2011
really wrote:
Consider yourself lucky then. When ya kids get ear infections or diagnosed with add an adhd its from smoking around them.
well i cant agree with you on that statement. me nor my wife has ever smoked at all much less around our kids and yet all three of my kids have had to get tubes in there ears because of ear infections and our middle son has A.D.D. and before you ask or say we have done any illegal substances i can say no to that one too.
Really

United States

#28 Dec 22, 2011
know for fact before hand wrote:
<quoted text> well i cant agree with you on that statement. me nor my wife has ever smoked at all much less around our kids and yet all three of my kids have had to get tubes in there ears because of ear infections and our middle son has A.D.D. and before you ask or say we have done any illegal substances i can say no to that one too.
Smoking isnt the only thing that causes them but children who are around it are more likely to have the problems. Unfortunately there are other factors that cant be explained or avoided that also occur to children who do have good parents that dont consider their health before doing dumb shiT
know for fact before hand

United States

#29 Dec 22, 2011
Really wrote:
<quoted text>
Smoking isnt the only thing that causes them but children who are around it are more likely to have the problems. Unfortunately there are other factors that cant be explained or avoided that also occur to children who do have good parents that dont consider their health before doing dumb shiT
well that sounds better
Whodat

Cabot, AR

#30 Dec 23, 2011
kids friend wrote:
Racheal MILLER '''''
Finally some d@mn truth people. Those kids should be taken or at least run away. Sad sad ordeal
know for fact before hand

United States

#31 Dec 25, 2011
she dont have them he mom has all of them.and when her mom dont her brothers do she to worried bout where her next fix is coming from especiall sonce her hubby is locked up(ronnie midget).thought she learned last time..............
Frankeisha

United States

#32 Sep 18, 2012
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Grandparents need to stop enabling the behavior as well. It's not their responsibility to raise the kids unless it is absolutely necessary. They need to be whooping their kids asSes and teaching them how to be good parents. A person chooses to have a child they should do everything that comes along with the responsibility.
amen
Frankeisha

United States

#33 Sep 18, 2012
Amen i agree
fyi

Irving, TX

#34 Sep 18, 2012
this is one dunb forum
Howboutthatthere

Blytheville, AR

#35 Sep 21, 2012
Selene Beau Pre wrote:
Ok.....I have to address this. I did NOT smoke or drink or do drugs before, during or while nursing my son. In fact, I had never even experimented with any of that at that time. My son was diagnosed with ADHD at 5. He has extreme allergies that cause asthmatic attacks so severe he spent most of his early years on a nebulizer. His father followed the doctors recommendations and put him on pills against my will (we fought in court for years) FYI....I left him because I caught him cheating on me......I absolutely cannot stand people saying a woman is a bad mother because of such trivial things as smoking......I lost custody of my son because of an abusive man who knew how to work the system.....yes I now smoke and occassionally drink and I have every right. Having children does not mean that you are not allowed to enjoy life occassionally. It does not make you a bad parent....on the contrary....I believe for children to learn moderation they must be shown that you can enjoy life's pleasures and not feel guilty so long as you do not let it control you.
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