grown kids still mooching off of parents

grown kids still mooching off of parents

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parent of one

Marion, AR

#1 Jun 26, 2013
these so called know it all grown children leave home for a while then see how hard it is out in the old world so its easier to just move back in with mom and dad and let them support them. come back home and ack like they own it and dont get a job and make all kind of excuses why they are not working its because they are too sorry to work but why work mommy and daddy will take care of them and their habits. There are jobs out there somewhere for an income. you parents that are in this know what i am talking about. hey lay around and sleep all day and mess around all night doing who knows what. No respect.
guest

United States

#2 Jun 26, 2013
How bout the dumb parents that enable them?
guest78

Tucker, GA

#3 Jun 26, 2013
They have terms for these kids and parents...boomerang kids-kids who leave home but return. Helicopter parents- parents who hover over their kids so closely that the kid grows up to be a boomerang kid. These two terms were added to the dictionary last yr. sad but true!

Since: Oct 09

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#4 Jun 26, 2013
what if you never you never let home what is you then?
guest78

Tucker, GA

#5 Jun 26, 2013
sir jimmy wrote:
what if you never you never let home what is you then?
you is a useless leech then
Guest

West Memphis, AR

#6 Jun 26, 2013
That's the problem, parents put their kids out at 18 and the only thing they do is get out there, have babies, only have a high school diploma and they double back to the parents. The economy is not good but getting better, children may actually need a few more years at home or in college. I just refuse to allow my child to lay up at home without being in school, adequately seeking employment or working regularly at a job.
Udontknowsheit

Tyler, TX

#7 Jun 26, 2013
Sometimes the youngster is there because one or both parents are disabled and need the help. In this case I feel like the young person is putting their life on hold in order to help their parents. Besides if the parents dont mind, then what business is it of yours? You jealous? It may seem like some of these young people are mooching because you just don't know.
Udontknowsheit

Tyler, TX

#8 Jun 26, 2013
I told my son that if he would stay and help me run this place for the short time that I have left to live, that I will leave him everything that I own. He takes good care of me and I feel blessed to have him here. I think that we are helping each other. You think what you want and kiss my happy white ass.
The 69 96

United States

#9 Jun 26, 2013
sir jimmy wrote:
what if you never you never let home what is you then?
Jimbo, I know you can spell better than that. Whats wrong with you?

Since: Oct 09

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#10 Jun 27, 2013
now I am deleted?
smooch

Marion, AR

#11 Jun 27, 2013
sir jimmy wrote:
what if you never you never let home what is you then?
are you retarted or what?
Parent

United States

#12 Jun 27, 2013
Tough love people
guest

United States

#13 Jun 28, 2013
Udontknowsheit wrote:
I told my son that if he would stay and help me run this place for the short time that I have left to live, that I will leave him everything that I own. He takes good care of me and I feel blessed to have him here. I think that we are helping each other. You think what you want and kiss my happy white ass.
Why woukd any parent purposely burden their child with taking care of them?
The so called Mooch

United States

#14 Jun 29, 2013
guest wrote:
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Why woukd any parent purposely burden their child with taking care of them?
Maybe some children stand to gain property, vehicles, businesses. Perhaps its not a burden at all . it is true some children are mooching ass children but it is not so in every situation maybe you should think from a Diffrent perspective
My Opinion

United States

#15 Jun 30, 2013
I think that there are rarely two situations that are alike. Some people are just worthless because they are lazy and refuse to contribute to society. Others have the responsibility of taking care of parents or other loved ones and don't really have a choice in the matter. And then there are those that stay at home while they prepare themselves for the big bad world. As long as the "child" is contributing to the household, I see ne reason for them to leave if everyone involved is ok with the circumstances, However, if they are just lazy and dumb... Parents, put their butts in the street!
Youdontknowsheit

United States

#16 Jul 3, 2013
guest wrote:
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Why woukd any parent purposely burden their child with taking care of them?
What makes you think its a burden? Getting out there working for some a-hole taking their shit,clock to punch, living from payday to payday is a burden. I know I HAD to do it all my life. Where I leave off he will pi k up. I'm not bedridden, I help also.Its Father and Son making something and keeping it in the family. You probably are a burden to your child, and your child is probably a burden to you. That's not how it is in my household. He has a hale of a lot more to gain by working for himself than for working for a stranger. Its sad to think that you thought of your parents as a burden.
jill

Mountain Pine, AR

#17 Jul 3, 2013
sad!!
guest

Haslet, TX

#18 Jul 4, 2013
Youdontknowsheit wrote:
<quoted text>What makes you think its a burden? Getting out there working for some a-hole taking their shit,clock to punch, living from payday to payday is a burden. I know I HAD to do it all my life. Where I leave off he will pi k up. I'm not bedridden, I help also.Its Father and Son making something and keeping it in the family. You probably are a burden to your child, and your child is probably a burden to you. That's not how it is in my household. He has a hale of a lot more to gain by working for himself than for working for a stranger. Its sad to think that you thought of your parents as a burden.
So u have a family business. You didn't say that.

Next time be more clear.
Youdontknowsheit

United States

#19 Jul 4, 2013
You just jumped conclutions that I am an old broke down user as yourself. I'm not. My son has it made, but he's a worker. He knows that the work he's putting out is going in to his future, He's very smart, he's 19 his truck is paid for and his home is paid for too. He doesn't waste his money on drugs or alcohol, he saves it. I am verylucky go ha e him, he thinks about my health. I love him for it. I can't understand a parent that would throw their child out in a world like this. He's been raised well, showed a lot of love by both his mother and myself. Theres nothing we wouldn't do for him.
Youdontknowsheit

United States

#20 Jul 4, 2013
Ya, I know my spelling is not that good, please excuse that. I had to quit school and go to work when I was 15, because my father died. I have worked hard all my life. I am blessed though, I have a wife and son that loves me.

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