Why cant men be honest?

[confused and hurt]

really confused about my relationship i know i should get over it after a while but really it hurts cuz they say they love you and just need time to figure there life out and then what nothing. i know this is dumb just kinda wanted some advice about how to get over it. ive tried dating others but nothing helps i still cant be happy without him:(

[no way]

All men are DOGS gurl! I know you hurt, but has age and the more you just listen to a man, they are all the same, every last one of them. What you have is LUST, is usually last about 6 mths to a year. The only true love is one you have for your children. Honey, keep busy, free your mind, and I'm sure he is not worth the time. Go be happy.. More than likely you are better than him any way! Men even in their 70's are still dogs. Gurl its all about getting some. They will lie and tell you their wives arent sleeping with them, and not taking care of business, but the story with that is the wives have been w. them and know what they are the wives are grossed out the past affairs and scared of catching STD's. You are your own person. Waste no more time on this loser. move on...

[guest]

No way u r so telling the truth. U took the words out of my mouth. And don't believe that I love u crap. They tell all of them the same thing. Its all BS.

[Holly]

confused and hurt wrote:

really confused about my relationship i know i should get over it after a while but really it hurts cuz they say they love you and just need time to figure there life out and then what nothing. i know this is dumb just kinda wanted some advice about how to get over it. ive tried dating others but nothing helps i still cant be happy without him:(

It's not just the men honey.....women are just as bad!!!

[guest]

True holly. I know some real low life women 2.

[Paul]

confused and hurt wrote:

really confused about my relationship i know i should get over it after a while but really it hurts cuz they say they love you and just need time to figure there life out and then what nothing. i know this is dumb just kinda wanted some advice about how to get over it. ive tried dating others but nothing helps i still cant be happy without him:(

Men are more honest than women. Women just want to beleive what they wanna beleive. Women will tell men lies all the time, but dont expect the man to lie to them. its a catch 22 you win some and lose some.

[Really]

no way wrote:

All men are DOGS gurl! I know you hurt, but has age and the more you just listen to a man, they are all the same, every last one of them. What you have is LUST, is usually last about 6 mths to a year. The only true love is one you have for your children. Honey, keep busy, free your mind, and I'm sure he is not worth the time. Go be happy.. More than likely you are better than him any way! Men even in their 70's are still dogs. Gurl its all about getting some. They will lie and tell you their wives arent sleeping with them, and not taking care of business, but the story with that is the wives have been w. them and know what they are the wives are grossed out the past affairs and scared of catching STD's. You are your own person. Waste no more time on this loser. move on...

Wow! Sounds like uve been rode hard an put up wet by a man or men. U ever thought that it might me u?.........maybe you have to treat a man with respect if u expect it in return!** hint that being said, now stfu with all that bitchen!

[okay]

what if the husband is a really great husband except for the fact that he spanks it to porn while she's at work and then says he's too tired to have sex with her. And what if she has found where he has been searching craigslist for random "people" to hook up with but she is not tech savvy enough to find out what actually took place. And what if he knows she doesn't mind him watching porn but he still acts funny and tries to hide it? She doesn't want to accuse him of anything because most of the time everything is good, besides she has no proof he really did anything but hurt her feelings. It just makes her feel less than and puts a road block in the relationship.

[Truth]

It's not in their genes.

[Nicely said]

Holly wrote:

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It's not just the men honey.....women are just as bad!!!

AMEN!

[too sad]

I would rather be a Dog, than a Snake. You can live with a bite from a dog, but you die from a snake bite.

[So you ask]

Why can't men be honest? That's easy. Many men are dishonest because females have taught them to be dishonest. Females are much too easy. usually when a guy cheats on you, it's with another woman. females do it to themselves. You are too easy and willing to hurt each other. Most men do not rape women. Women give it up. Too loose. You give away the milk for free and you'll usually do it on a first date or the first time you meet him. You've taught men that they can do it with whomever, whenever and wherever. YOU are the ones with the goods. YOU hold the key. YOU own the jewel. It's your choice to be loose with it. YOU choose to give it away for free and receive NO permanent benefits. No ring, no license, no marriage, no name but your own. Why would they spend money buying the whole cow when what they want, the milk, is chilled and free whenevr they have a taste for it? You tempt them all the time. Look at how you dress, how you walk, how you talk, how willing you are to sleep with them when you know full well they have someone else. You simply do not care. This is your generation: the Y'ers. And see how you teach the younger females that all men are no good, that they are all DOGS. Well, I beg to differ, as I have an awesome, faithful man/HUSBAND. He does everything in his power to make me happy. He loves me and only me. I don't have to think it, wonder it, speculate on it or worry about it; I know it. No, not all men are DOGS. My husband isn't perfect but nor am I. But I have a fantastic man who's been with me and only me for almost four decades. No worries here, ladies. I haven't a DOG. He's always been a fantastic provider for his family. He works and pays all the biils. I work, too, but I don't have to pay bills. He's extremely clean. He likes a nice home and yard. He loves and fears God. God gave him to me and me to him, and we'll not be ripped asunder by any other man or woman. I say with strong conviction that all men are NOT DOGS. It's just that you all are attracting dogs. If you are a dog, you'll likely attract a dog. You may think you're a precious little kitty but he sees a dog, I guess. Watch what you're offering.

[Truth]

Well said. WELL SAID!

[So you ask]

Oh, and one more thing, I'm Black and so is my husband. There are some good Black men out there who love their families and take care of them. So, yes, I have a fancy BMW. (Black Man Working)

[Memphis]

Eve was messing around on Adam in the Bible. The first hoe started with Eve in the Garden. Ha ve you ever seen your man with another woman. Maybe it's you wanting to mess around on him and STD

[Mrs Right]

If you feeling down and getting angry or rapidly changing emotion. Your energry level rapid cycling, too tired to get out of bed and seeing anything good. You don't even feel love anymore and feel so along. You are BIPOLAR. It's not your man.

[Guess]

Thank you so much for that information. Yes she bipolar. Now I know how to deal with her.

[chichi]

my husband cheated the whole time we were married. he left to go live with the girlfriend while he had at least two others on the side. funny thing is she was such a bitch and thought she was the only one. i would have told her about the others but i figured she could find out like i did. and yes he just got another new girlfriend. you will never be able to make him happy.

[Guess]

The best way to deal with a bipolar bitch is to leave her along.

[MissyJR]

Now why is it when men get mad cause they are busted they want to call women carzy, obsessed, bipolar etc..? Someone tried pulling that crap with me, but guess what...I am not and can back myself up 110& with medical records to prove it! Now unless someone has had a diagnosis of it, then don't call people that cause you are lying stack of sh!t!