I cannot stand black men

[ilovebeingalawye r]

I am a black woman who works as a corporate lawyer. my friends as well as I all agree that black men are just the worst decision when it comes to dating. I fortunately have only dated one black man and quickly got the hint (that I was not attracted to black men) a few months into the relationship. I am now dating a very loving man who gives me what I want and need. But when I see a black woman with a black man I just don’t understand why she would lower herself to his standards. I think that if white women are willing to take them off our hands why don’t we let them. The black woman population has so much going for us why don’t we just leave black men to do what they do best fail.

[inbred Genius]

Corporate lawyer? Thats a good one....is there any diversity involved,or did they hire you because you finished at the top of your class at Harvard/Yale? Morehouse/Morris Brown/Spellman/AU don't count. I did notice your spelling, punctuation and sentence structure was good, except maybe you need a comma between the last two words.

[carmella]

inbred Genius wrote:

Corporate lawyer? Thats a good one....is there any diversity involved,or did they hire you because you finished at the top of your class at Harvard/Yale? Morehouse/Morris Brown/Spellman/AU don't count. I did notice your spelling, punctuation and sentence structure was good, except maybe you need a comma between the last two words.

wow you are really hostile. if you are a black man then i can see why none of us strong sisters want you

[inbred Genius]

There is nothing on this planet scarier than a strong sister, specially the big strong sisters, and some of them are real big.

[Erin]

ilovebeingalawyer wrote:

I am a black woman who works as a corporate lawyer. my friends as well as I all agree that black men are just the worst decision when it comes to dating. I fortunately have only dated one black man and quickly got the hint (that I was not attracted to black men) a few months into the relationship. I am now dating a very loving man who gives me what I want and need. But when I see a black woman with a black man I just don’t understand why she would lower herself to his standards. I think that if white women are willing to take them off our hands why don’t we let them. The black woman population has so much going for us why don’t we just leave black men to do what they do best fail.

I guess your mom, grandma and aunts have all lowered their standards by dating black men? If you aren't attracted to black men thats one thing but to call all of them beneath you is disgusting. I hear members of the KKK will secretly have sex with black women, maybe you need to date one.

[loving my husband]

This is completely stupid. I highly doubt if this poster even exists. I am a black female who has dated Black men of all shapes, shades and sizes. I have never been mistreated, and have always been taken care of. Now that I am married to a wonderful black man, I am more than satisfied. I too am an attorney, graduated from an Ivy League university, and a top tier Law School. I passed the hardest BAR in the country on the first time, and have always dated educated, smart, Black men!

This woman is just bitter because she is probably fat or ugly. Men don't want you if you are ugly or fat no matter what credentials you have behind your name. Adding bitterness and flaunting your credentials in your man's face doesn't help.

So, she and all her fat ugly friends can have all the other men willing to settle for her. I'll take my beautiful Black man who makes even more than I do in salary!

[Ilovebeingalawye r]

loving my husband wrote:

This is completely stupid. I highly doubt if this poster even exists. I am a black female who has dated Black men of all shapes, shades and sizes. I have never been mistreated, and have always been taken care of. Now that I am married to a wonderful black man, I am more than satisfied. I too am an attorney, graduated from an Ivy League university, and a top tier Law School. I passed the hardest BAR in the country on the first time, and have always dated educated, smart, Black men!
This woman is just bitter because she is probably fat or ugly. Men don't want you if you are ugly or fat no matter what credentials you have behind your name. Adding bitterness and flaunting your credentials in your man's face doesn't help.
So, she and all her fat ugly friends can have all the other men willing to settle for her. I'll take my beautiful Black man who makes even more than I do in salary!

I seriously doubt you are a lawyer by the simple fact that the format as to which you write seems a bit off kilter for a lawyer. and which ivy league school did you graduate from. I did my undergrad at Princeton and received a law degree from Yale ,and spent most of my time sitting in front of sterling conversing with my peers who agree with me whole heartedly on this same exact conversational topic.but you wouldn't know anything about that since you seem like a big fat liar. plus I'm not fat, actually I'm probably skinnier and, i know for a fact that i am brighter so you miss " lawyer" can take your imaginary husband and get a real life.

[about time]

i have been waiting for a black woman to voice the concerns that i also have with black men.Im a educated black woman who sees black men as useless and a waste of time. it is aout time someone spoke up. much respect Ilovebeingalawyer!

[somewhatrru]

I'm not going to say that I hate all black me but some do make my skin crawl all they care about is who has the biggest butt and trying to get in your pocket how I know this to be true I have killer curves and the only time I'm approached by one is when I'm wearing something form fitting I've been asked by men for money ha

[Well]

You are coming from a Don Immus point of view...only with black men this time. Okay.
There are shades of the truth in your remarks. However, no one is perfect, not even you. That's why judging folks (versus removing yourself from their sphere of influence) is never a very fulfilling past time.
I have found ALL races and genders of people revolting, on some occasion.. Then, again, I am an ardent misanthrope and I believe that mankind is comprised of a bunch of apes dancing around the obelisk of their own distruction.. Excluding me,of course, since I am definitely not a joiner.
But, what's YOUR point?
I could care less about black men,and fortunately, they have gotten the point and have left me the hell alone. At the risk of sounding like a bobble-headed, defensive, bimbo... I am a pretty good looking woman. I simply had to state this since some "throw back" will invariably make the timeless remark: "Ugh...You no look good. Man no want you for his joy stick."
YOU... have actively dated black men... You are obviously angry because you can't turn a sow's ear into a silk purse.
Do you now want "black men" to slip into the shadows and wither away from self loathing, based upon your criticisms? Do you want them to stop hooking up with black women? DING, DING, DING! They could care less about you, as you have wisely surmised.
You need to build a rocket ship and chart a course to an alternate universe where these disgusting black men don't exist and where the purple gargoyles then become your focus of malcontent. Black males will continue to thrive (or fail),love (or shoot someone up) according to their own DNA druthers, not your own.
Leave the black males alone. Date someone more to your liking. And, let what will be BE.

[Well]

destruction vs distruction

Oh.. Happy New Year's everyone! Especially those black men..

[One Iam]

about time wrote:

i have been waiting for a black woman to voice the concerns that i also have with black men.Im a educated black woman who sees black men as useless and a waste of time. it is aout time someone spoke up. much respect Ilovebeingalawyer!

Come on now ladies. They didn't mean it, they'll give you back your money. They really love you.

[roflmao]

This thread is hilarious! Mostly because of the angry responses to an obviously fake post. It says she dated only one black man in her life, which wouldn't exactly make her Afrocentric would it? Then she bands with her black sisters and is okay with white women "taking them off our hands." And I love the classism thrown in by including the irrelevant claim of being a corporate lawyer. A corporate lawyer!! Comedy gold!

[Lyn1]

Ilovebeingalawyer wrote:

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I seriously doubt you are a lawyer by the simple fact that the format as to which you write seems a bit off kilter for a lawyer. and which ivy league school did you graduate from. I did my undergrad at Princeton and received a law degree from Yale ,and spent most of my time sitting in front of sterling conversing with my peers who agree with me whole heartedly on this same exact conversational topic.but you wouldn't know anything about that since you seem like a big fat liar. plus I'm not fat, actually I'm probably skinnier and, i know for a fact that i am brighter so you miss " lawyer" can take your imaginary husband and get a real life.

While you are so busy hating all Black men, you need to spend more time learning to write correctly. I know LOT of educated Black men who would see something typed like what you have submitted here and would probably feel the same way you do. You almost border line illiteracy, or maybe you just don't know how to puntuate. So what kind of man DO you approve of?
I truly find it difficult to believe that your feet or your mind GOT ANYWHERE CLOSE to Harvard OR Princeton!!! Before you have the nerve to critique anyone else's format, you NEED TO CHECK YOURS FIRST. Because yours is definitely raggety!

[Oh Yeah]

I guess she must hate her father too.

[Lyn1]

Well, now that's a good thought! AND a worthwhile possibility.

[truestory]

ilovebeingalawyer wrote:

I am a black woman who works as a corporate lawyer. my friends as well as I all agree that black men are just the worst decision when it comes to dating. I fortunately have only dated one black man and quickly got the hint (that I was not attracted to black men) a few months into the relationship. I am now dating a very loving man who gives me what I want and need. But when I see a black woman with a black man I just don’t understand why she would lower herself to his standards. I think that if white women are willing to take them off our hands why don’t we let them. The black woman population has so much going for us why don’t we just leave black men to do what they do best fail.

I am so sorry that you feel that way.. but don't do that honey, you are taking our people back 100 years.. Just because the one you dating was terrible dosen't mean that they all are.. Now your opinion is just that but i will tell you this and this a truestory not all black me fail... I only hope that you realize no matter how great your job, how nice your car, or how successful you become, you will always be in society eyes black.. love your self, love your culture, love your people.

[truestory]

Ilovebeingalawyer wrote:

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I seriously doubt you are a lawyer by the simple fact that the format as to which you write seems a bit off kilter for a lawyer. and which ivy league school did you graduate from. I did my undergrad at Princeton and received a law degree from Yale ,and spent most of my time sitting in front of sterling conversing with my peers who agree with me whole heartedly on this same exact conversational topic.but you wouldn't know anything about that since you seem like a big fat liar. plus I'm not fat, actually I'm probably skinnier and, i know for a fact that i am brighter so you miss " lawyer" can take your imaginary husband and get a real life.

At the end of the day guess what you are still black... love yourself and your heritage.... sister plz this is garbage.. to each his own...

[cal]

truestory wrote:

<quoted text> At the end of the day guess what you are still black... love yourself and your heritage.... sister plz this is garbage.. to each his own...

Hi True!!!

[Ironic]

Lyn1 wrote:

<quoted text>While you are so busy hating all Black men, you need to spend more time learning to write correctly. I know LOT of educated Black men who would see something typed like what you have submitted here and would probably feel the same way you do. You almost border line illiteracy, or maybe you just don't know how to puntuate. So what kind of man DO you approve of?
I truly find it difficult to believe that your feet or your mind GOT ANYWHERE CLOSE to Harvard OR Princeton!!! Before you have the nerve to critique anyone else's format, you NEED TO CHECK YOURS FIRST. Because yours is definitely raggety!

I find it ironic that you are pointing out her punctuation yet yours is garbage. dont knock the sister for her opinions. she is allowed to have one. God