Lmao

Mount Clemens, MI

#22 Nov 15, 2011
jennifer I have witnessed steve call you when he had your number. You never gave him the chance to speek or see her. I am glad she has had a dad for give years. You must let that guy be one. I have known steve for a few years. I have never known him to hit anyone. The karen stuff I wasn't around for. But I know for a fact he has always talked about his child and you. He has never spoke a bad word of you except keeping him from his daughter. So as you sit on your thrown lookin down remember your not perfect.

Jennifer

Bullhead City, AZ

#23 Nov 25, 2011
Lmao wrote:
jennifer I have witnessed steve call you when he had your number. You never gave him the chance to speek or see her. I am glad she has had a dad for give years. You must let that guy be one. I have known steve for a few years. I have never known him to hit anyone. The karen stuff I wasn't around for. But I know for a fact he has always talked about his child and you. He has never spoke a bad word of you except keeping him from his daughter. So as you sit on your thrown lookin down remember your not perfect.
He would not have to call her if he would have come out here and been a family like the plan was. He's the one that never showed up after a ticket was bought and paid for, for him. He called a few times, but by that point, Madison had no clue who he was. That was by his own doings. He wanted to stay in Kentucky and party and do what ever he wanted. He got what he wanted.

He is an unstable person. He can't keep a job, he can't stay out of the court system and apparently jail. He hasn't even sent his daughter so much as a birthday card, Christmas card, a present, a letter. NOTHING.

He's had addresses and phone numbers. We even went and paid for a PO box and gave him that address if he wanted to send things. After two years and not receiving one thing from him, we closed it.

He has had every chance in the world to be a parent, but has chosen to do other things with his life. This was not by my decision, but his. i tried to make things work with him after everything we had been through, but he is the one that never showed up.

As much as Karen and I may not see eye to eye, apparently she had to have surgery on her face after a night out with this guy. That's a lot of damage in my opinion, and I'm pretty sure, even though I don't know her, that's she's not crazy enough to cause that much damage to herself.

You can say he's never put his hands on anyone, but I still have pictures to prove it. You can call one person crazy and say he's never put his hands on anyone before, but when multiple people have proof of his violent and stalking ways, you should really start to think about the type of guy you are defending.
I am not perfect by any means, but I am damn sure a better parent and person than he will ever be. I grew up, he never did.

You can blame his problems on me or Karen or any other ex all you want, but all you do is push the blame for his actions off on other people, when the blame should lie solely on him. He's an adult, and it's time for him to grow up, straighten his life up, and start taking responsibility for the things he has done, and things he didn't do, that he should have.

He was given several chances and did not take them. So, why is it all on me to give him yet another chance? Why can't he take responsibility for himself and his actions, and do things for himself? Oh yeah, that's right. Because the blame has always been pushed off on someone else when he gets into trouble. It's everyone else, not him right? So don't tell me he deserves another chance, when he was given several. I'm not dropping my life and everything that we have to give this guy a chance anymore. If he wants a chance, he needs to create it for himself because no one here is going to give him anything that he doesn't work for or deserve.

Daddy is a name that is earned. Dave has earned it and worked hard for it, where Steve has not even come close, and wont even try for himself.
Lmao

Calumet City, IL

#24 Nov 26, 2011
Didnt you and steve live with one of his girlfriends tiffany right. He never hit her and yes that is weird why would you have lived like that miss perfect. And yes karen is crazy . Dave probably has earned to be her daddy and thats wonderful. But steve is her father no mattter what you do. His many faults and all helped create her so he cant be to bad. He does need to grow up and if he never sent her anything he is an ass but he does love her. Maybe you could find it in your heart t to let her send him a letter givee him the oopportunity to respond. Maybe he has grown up in jail. I just feel every kid has a right to know their father.my step dad is a way better dad than my real dad could ever be but still nice to know him.

“Judging your customer service ”

Since: Jan 11

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#25 Nov 26, 2011
A few months of growing up in jail does not make him capable of being the father that Jen's child deserves. Why should she make her child write a letter or draw pictures to a man who that child doesn't even know? I'm pretty sure he has lost all rights to that baby anyways, due to his failure to answer registered letters and mail. So before you know the whole truth, don't put your two sense in.

Jen is not perfecct and has never pretended to be. The difference is, she learned from her mistakes and moved on, grew up, started a good life with good people, which is what was best for that child. Do you research and compare criminal records. She doesn't have one! She's not a drug dealer, user, alcoholic, none of the things that can be used to describe this man you want to call a "father".
Before you attack her and start calling her things she has never claimed to be, and acting like she is th one with the problem, I think you should look at the facts and realize she has done everything possible to give M a great life, and that's exactly what she has.

“Judging your customer service ”

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#26 Nov 26, 2011
She did what she could to ensure a good life for M, her priorities are quite a bit more in check than that guy's are. That's all that should matter right? She cares about that girl much more than she cares about stevens happiness and that's the way it should be.
Who are you to tell her she is wrong?
Why should she care about that guy or his feelings when he has rarely tried to do anything for that kid?
And she is correct, no one thing was ever sent to M by him. None of his family has tried to contact her. Not one thing.
Why should she try to make these people a part of M's life, when they wont even try themselves?

I fully agree with her decisions made on Ms part. It was what is best for the child, period!
Get a Clue

Bullhead City, AZ

#27 Nov 29, 2011
Lmao wrote:
jennifer I have witnessed steve call you when he had your number. You never gave him the chance to speek or see her. I am glad she has had a dad for give years. You must let that guy be one. I have known steve for a few years. I have never known him to hit anyone. The karen stuff I wasn't around for. But I know for a fact he has always talked about his child and you. He has never spoke a bad word of you except keeping him from his daughter. So as you sit on your thrown lookin down remember your not perfect.
Steve NEVER called for his daughter, he had a chance to live with her and chose not too. He talked to Madi 3 times and it always ended with put your mom on the phone, and when mom wouldnt talk no more he NEVER called but 1 time drunk, he was told not to ever call my house drunk and never call for Jen and if he wanted to talk to Madi do it while he was sober. He was never kept from her, she had his picture on her wall because I put it there. She ask to take it down. Think what you want but I know the truth and have for 7 yrs. NO ONE WILL EVER HURT THIS BABY AND IF THEY THINK THEY WILL THEY WILL HAVE TO GO THROUGH ME TO DO THAT.
Get a Clue

Bullhead City, AZ

#28 Nov 29, 2011
Lmao wrote:
Didnt you and steve live with one of his girlfriends tiffany right. He never hit her and yes that is weird why would you have lived like that miss perfect. And yes karen is crazy . Dave probably has earned to be her daddy and thats wonderful. But steve is her father no mattter what you do. His many faults and all helped create her so he cant be to bad. He does need to grow up and if he never sent her anything he is an ass but he does love her. Maybe you could find it in your heart t to let her send him a letter givee him the oopportunity to respond. Maybe he has grown up in jail. I just feel every kid has a right to know their father.my step dad is a way better dad than my real dad could ever be but still nice to know him.
Madi did send him letter and they came back return to sender. I sent them from my mail box from my home so dont try that one. He wouldnt even open the door to be served for court here. I have the letter from the Boone co sherrif that went there. Madi knows who her father is and what he is, but her daddy is who she has and who she loves.
Lmao

United States

#29 Nov 30, 2011
What ever like I said before god can judge him. Not jen friends and family. And you people are her friends and family so dont pretend to be god.
Get a Clue

Bullhead City, AZ

#30 Dec 5, 2011
No one said we were god you fool. But until you know the truth, stfu. That easy. Your so concerned why dont you tell the man what a shi&& dad he is? That girl deserved better and she has better. So dont act like you give a crap about her life and stay out of it.
curious

El Monte, CA

#31 Dec 19, 2011
I feel so sorry for this little girl. Her mother broadcasts how pathetic she is on the internet for all to see. I'm guessing she will read this one day and be humiliated and horrified. Instead of airing your dirty laundry on topix, try Jerry Springer.
really

Florence, KY

#32 Dec 20, 2011
i dont have a dog in this fight... but its sounds to me like this steve guy has along rode ahead of him.... sounds to me like the guy didnt want to be a dad until the cops came looking to serve his ass with child support papers.... ya know i see single mothers everywhere quick to point the finger at the "dead beat dad." these girls made poor choices and laid on there backs for these losers... maybe if girls had more self respect and didnt lay down unprotected so sudden maybe they could take the time to learn what someones really all about before they run the risk of getting "knocked up" if the mom had taken the time to get to know the dad she woulodve seen he was a pos to begin with.. i blame mothers for dead beat dads just as much as i blame dead beat dads for being losers end of story.... on the same note as long as government offer social service handouts to single mothers they are never gonna make good choices.. the incentives are in place for girls to get knocked up { college apartments cell phones and auto allowances.. hell with those kinda incentives instead of consequences theres always gonna be a troll with an open hole.

“Judging your customer service ”

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#33 Jan 1, 2012
curious wrote:
I feel so sorry for this little girl. Her mother broadcasts how pathetic she is on the internet for all to see. I'm guessing she will read this one day and be humiliated and horrified. Instead of airing your dirty laundry on topix, try Jerry Springer.
Her mother did not write this. I DID! She simply came in here a few times to defend her actions of moving away from NKY, doing what was best for her child at the time, and moving on with her life.

I personally know Steve and Jenn both, very well. Out of the two of them, if anyone is pathetic, it's the one sitting in prison for abusing a woman and selling drugs.

“Judging your customer service ”

Since: Jan 11

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#34 Jan 1, 2012
really wrote:
i dont have a dog in this fight... but its sounds to me like this steve guy has along rode ahead of him.... sounds to me like the guy didnt want to be a dad until the cops came looking to serve his ass with child support papers.... ya know i see single mothers everywhere quick to point the finger at the "dead beat dad." these girls made poor choices and laid on there backs for these losers... maybe if girls had more self respect and didnt lay down unprotected so sudden maybe they could take the time to learn what someones really all about before they run the risk of getting "knocked up" if the mom had taken the time to get to know the dad she woulodve seen he was a pos to begin with.. i blame mothers for dead beat dads just as much as i blame dead beat dads for being losers end of story.... on the same note as long as government offer social service handouts to single mothers they are never gonna make good choices.. the incentives are in place for girls to get knocked up { college apartments cell phones and auto allowances.. hell with those kinda incentives instead of consequences theres always gonna be a troll with an open hole.
A guy is a dead beat dad when he turns in to a violent, drug addicted pos after he has a kid, and then does nothing to help take care of that child. Yes she is guilty of being young and dumb at that point in her life but at least she manned up and did right by that child.
HAHA

Covington, KY

#35 Mar 14, 2012
https://jailtracker.com/jtclientweb/ (S(l5zrpy45cqsz4di4yloec0fb))/ jailtracker/index/Grant_County _Ky
just me

Bullhead City, AZ

#36 Mar 17, 2012
HAHA wrote:
https://jailtracker.com/jtclie ntweb/(S(l5zrpy45cqsz4di4yloec 0fb))/jailtracker/index/Grant_ County_Ky
i cant get the page to come up, did he get hit again

“Judging your customer service ”

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#37 Sep 28, 2012
Steve is out of jail and currently harassing people in Jennifer's family including Jennifer. Someone find out who his probation officer is and report him.
Corey

Fredericksburg, VA

#38 Sep 29, 2012
Why don't you report him chicken shit. Seems like you know more about him than anyone else. You seem to worry about him an awful lot.. probably some bitch he wouldn't have anything to do with.
Superman

Lexington, KY

#39 Oct 9, 2012
I have not harassed anyone. I tried to talk to Jennifer a couple times about my daughter when I had the chance. She has unfortunatly made it impossible to get in contact with her. And yes I am out of jail and doing really well other than the fact that no one will give me any information on my daughter. I understand it has been quite awhile since I have been in her life and I am not going to try to sit here and make up some kind of excuse. I am trying to do what I can. My criminal record has nothing to do with how much I love my daughter and want to be a good father. Yes I admit that I am not perfect nor will I ever be but who is anyone to judge me? I hate how everyone has something to say about things they know nothing about. I never hit Karen. I left her for someone else and she pressed charges on me 27 days after the last time I saw her. She was mad and trying to get back at me. I dont hold a grudge towards her though. I dont hold grudges at all. Life is too short to hate. As far as the drugs went I did that I am not here to lie to anyone. Its a mistake I made and I have and will continue to pay for it for the rest of my life. It wasn't a pleasant experience and I would never glorify it or want to do it again but it was a great learning experience. I have completely changed my lifestyle and the way I was living. I have been clean for over 2 years. I have a stable life and have worked very hard to try to be a model citizen. If you dont believe me thats your problem not mine anymore. All I want is to be a dad. I know my daughter might not understand everything and why things are the way they are and I am not going to try to push anything on her. I want to let her get to know me before anything else and explain to her one day that I made a few mistakes when the time is right. I dont want to hide anything from her. She deserves the truth and when she is ready she will know it. I have never said a bad word about her mother nor would I ever. Actually everynight I thank God for Jen. I know she is a good mom and that I am blessed to have her as M's mom. I see these stories everyday of abusive or drug addict mothers that cant take care of their children and dont even care to. I really hate that this internet is the only way I can explain anything but its the only way I have for now. I dont think that anybody's personal life should be just open to the public especially when it pertains to my daughter. On that note I hope everyone has a great day and hope that one day they realize just how pathetic people are.
Superman

Lexington, KY

#40 Oct 9, 2012
Corey wrote:
Why don't you report him chicken shit. Seems like you know more about him than anyone else. You seem to worry about him an awful lot.. probably some bitch he wouldn't have anything to do with.
I dont know you but thanks. She would report me if she could trust me. I believe that it is my daughter's mothers mom. She would do anything she could to hurt me but she knows she has nothing to report on me because well I haven't done anything. Thanks again.
bastard son

Van Nuys, CA

#41 Oct 9, 2012
Smithers wrote:
I'm not sure where he is in Northern Kentucky Stephen "Big Steve" Habermehl is a dead beat dad. Last time I checked, he hasn't seen his child in almost six years. The child will be seven in May. He doesn't send presents or even cards. He was given an address multiple times. But, NOTHING.
He only calls to talk to his child's mother even though he knows she is not at the number he is calling and that the child's mother wants nothing to do with him other than for him to man up and be a dad. The child only knows another man as daddy for over 5 1/2 years.
He sure is missing out on such a smart and beautiful child. He would rather drink and party than be involved and that's okay, because a child doesn't need someone like that in their life.
STEPHEN HABERMEHL is a DEAD BEAT PIECE OF CRAP!
(I can upload mugshots if anyone would like to see what he looks like. He also has a habit of hitting women, so I would just stay away from him if you're female)
if he is such a snake then why are you putting his name out there like that.my old man never done anything for me and i never once heard my mom say a bad word about him til i was about 21 and that is only after i told her of my feelings toward him.we lived without any utilities most of the time and once even lived in a car for about a week but i never heard her complain about anything or anyone.i have had many people in my life that i considered role models and even dreamed of having them of a dad but what i was NOT raised with has made me a better person and a better dad.leave the dudes name out of your mouth and i guarantee you his ghosts will catch up to him long before you ever will.

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