Depressed

United States

#1 Sep 9, 2012
My father cheated on my mother, so mom filed for divorce (years ago).
My dad seldom visits or calls me, and rarely spends any money on me or on my sister (his other daughter). Now he has a live in girlfriend and she has daughters, he buys for them, takes them places and spends time with them, now my grandmaw (dad's mom) calls them her grandchildren. What wrong have I done, why do I get ignored, I am in tears most of the time, and what makes it worse is his new girlfriend and her children treat me and my sis bad when we call or want to visit.

Since: Feb 12

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#2 Sep 9, 2012
Depressed wrote:
My father cheated on my mother, so mom filed for divorce (years ago).
My dad seldom visits or calls me, and rarely spends any money on me or on my sister (his other daughter). Now he has a live in girlfriend and she has daughters, he buys for them, takes them places and spends time with them, now my grandmaw (dad's mom) calls them her grandchildren. What wrong have I done, why do I get ignored, I am in tears most of the time, and what makes it worse is his new girlfriend and her children treat me and my sis bad when we call or want to visit.
this is on your dad and his family. I'm sorry you are Hurt. I don't know the details but live your life and be happy
Don't let adult relationships hurt you it's not your fault.
Depressed

United States

#3 Sep 10, 2012
My dad had moved in a married woman and her daughters into his house.... A Married Woman!!!! But now the woman is single as her husband sued her for divorce. My dad says that her daughters need a father and a roll model, but so did I. He spends time with them and money on them, but not for me. When, and if I (we) visit my (our) dad itís not his or our house anymore itís theirs, and they treat me (us) terrible as though I (we) have no rights in the house. My grandmaw is doing the same, telling everyone thatís her grandchildren, they have fathers and grandparents of their own. I donít trust that woman, what kind of woman leaves a husband and moves in with a single father!!! I know from what my mom and family and dad has said that he had cheated on mom and committed adultery before, now he did it to another man, a he is doing it to me...
sad

Greensburg, PA

#4 Sep 10, 2012
Your going to grow up and move on. Let your father be happy. Find happiness in yourself and stop holding a grudge that your perfect life has went away. This is the real world honey. Just be happy for him and move on.
Am Sorry

Broken Arrow, OK

#5 Sep 10, 2012
That is what you call a deadbeat, worthless father. Seems like he is trying to impress his new GF by doing things with her children, and trying to forget the pain and suffering that her caused against you and your mother. But as you wrote the woman left one relationship with her children, so I would trust or believe a woman like that at all.
You're better off, he can only put on this act for so long, its easier to be a weekend dad, than a full time dad.

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