#41 Aug 27, 2011
the poor kid is his bf's neice. She lost her mother recently and is having to adjust to a new life in Mass. He and his bf have been kissing up to her because they want a baby and she was one! They have become overinvolved with all the kids in the family, and yet the three kids that they have taken in over the years are no longer on speaking terms with them.
MR. Lynch went into court and told the judge he was the young girl's guardian. Of course the judge wanted to know what court had named him. Social Services said the girl had to return to her father and he went online and began making false accusations to the step-mother because he is upset taht social services found out his record. So, now he is threatening the family to make some false allegations just so he won't look bad. It is his way of making himself feel like a MAN.
#42 Aug 27, 2011
So, you and your boyfriend are both X-Cons that are trying to take legal custody of some druggies child?
And your running for the Mayor of Fitchburg! Only in the Burg....
#43 Aug 27, 2011
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Screen me for having a minor in my care? Let me tell you that I have had all your boyfriends kids in my care and have made sure that every last one of them went to school, sought out employment and assisted them and directed them all into doing positive things in life. How dare you! You are mad because you went for Full custody yesterday and I blocked it! I wasn't denied by any judge as I didn't put in for any motion. We were handed custody of the 17 yr. old girl by the Gardner police as being a SAFE home for her to stay which was requested for by YOU!
Social Services didn't take any child out of my care, EVER! We have set up a meeting for Tuesday. My only role in this is to offer a safe home for a child.
For you to exploit this situation on here is horrible! You stood there in court and labeled her mom who just passed two months ago, shame on you! This girl is still grieving.
Maybe it is time that you started to pay attention to your own daughter instead of all lthe negative relationships that you continue to bring home!
You bring up my CORI. This CORI is from over 20yrs ago. I stand by what I have done with my life over the last twenty years. I am proud of what I have accomplished and I am proud of the many people that I have been able to help.
And lets talk about my CORI! What is on it Debbie? There is nothing on it that even hints at any poor judgment concerning women nor children! So explain your inuendo?
And explain to everyone about this current ituation concerning the FPD!
Wait who is this LYNCH FOR MAYOR or Debbie Gravel Please use one screen name
#44 Aug 27, 2011
Perviously you said you were informed by the DEP (not by a public safety employee.) Just following the trail of logic.
#45 Aug 27, 2011
Debbie, you are making blatent lies!
"They have become overinvolved with all the kids in the family, and yet the three kids that they have taken in over the years are no longer on speaking terms with them."
We speak to all three kids as they are great kids! How does someone get "over involved"? So now Lynch is "overinvolved"?
Tell everyone out here about Lynch having custody of these three kids? What did these kids achieve while in his custody? Did they go to school? Did they hold employment? Did Kevin Lynch give them very good advice and direction? Kevin Lynch will continue to assist all these kids when he can. Unfortunatelly financially it has been tough on Mr. Lynch in being able to assist these kids further but he always encourages them to be positive!
Debbie, Kevin was never attempting to obtain custody of a baby! Kevin Lynch will continue to offer assistance to the 17yr old. In all these incidents which you mentioned Kevin Lynch did an honorable thing as a human being!
You continue to state "his boyfriend" and it is all an attempt to make himself feel like a man". Really?? So what is your innuendo here?? What are you attempting to say? What is your purpose?
So, Kevin Lynch is involving himself in many different children's life in order to assist them in obtaining an education and a pursuit of the positive things in life? He is discouraging them away from drug use?
If you ask me, these are the qualities that social services wants in finding homes for children.
Debbie, you seem to have vindictive wants here! What exactly did Kevin Lynch do wrong?? You are the one who recommended Kevin's home for the girl to stay at to the Gardner police!
So you sent the girl to Kevin Lynch's house through the Gardner police department?? And the girl wanted to stay at Kevin Lynch's house? So what is the problem?
Why, after supporting Kevin Lynch are you now being maliciously vindictive?? Did you not get what you wanted in court? Didn't you always seek Kevin Lynch out to talk out your problems with him?
So Kevin Lynch was a good listener and he gave you the best positive advice and now you turn on him with vindictiveness? So, Mr. Lynch has always offered you his best advice? And he has always offered positive guidance to children that are not his?
So what is your point??
#46 Aug 27, 2011
Here you go Debbie; this is your results out here! This is how negative people react and this is a nice comment!
So Kevin Lynch assist kids and young adults to seek an education and offers them positive advice to stay away from drugs and alcohol?
Since: Feb 10
#47 Aug 27, 2011
You can't make this stuff up. There's not a medical book in the world that can educate anyone better than watching a "real life" con artist first hand perfecting his craft. This is the stuff that phycologists dissect to reach diagnosis. Lynch, you are clearly one mentally disturbed puppy who has mastered (in your own mind) the art of manipulation. But what you fail to understand though Lynch, is that your victims (like "Debbie" who you've now named) are all onto your con game. Any attempts you make now to manipulate her for exposing you is a futile effort and just shines light on who you truly are, a con artist.
#48 Aug 27, 2011
And this guy hopes to be mayor? Yeah, good luck with that.
#49 Aug 27, 2011
DG is his boyfriend. Must have been a lovers quarrel
#50 Aug 27, 2011
The Gardner Police do not give out custody to people. Are you really that ignorant?! And it was not enough that you used a public forum to accuse me of using drugs,now you are saying their father did. Does maliciously lying about other people boost your ego? Does it turn you into a man?
Social Services called us at 5 p.m. yesterday and said they just got off the phone with YOUR boyfriend and told him that his neice needed to be returned to her father because of your criminal records. Are you now calling licsensed social worker's liars???
Why are the three kids you took in before NO LONGER SPEAKING TO YOU?
From the time T and the baby came to live with us, you have set up a room just waiting to take her in. YOu have told her over and over to come pick out her room colors.
Your boyfriend's nephew stole from me and I filed a police reprt. T got upset. You offered to take her for the night so things could cool down.
Now you are claiming that the police appointed you guardians? How come you did not tell the judge that one?
Why did you tell the judge you owned your own home? Why did you lie about my income to the judge? IF you were so concerned about my lack of income, why have you owed me $3,000 for the last three years?
You are making allegations that I am destroying your mayoral race? Is that a joke? The arguements on this forum date back to at least March. Since at least then, people have been pulling up your criminal record. Someone did so in the last day or so, and you blamed that on me? YOU ARE CRAZY!
and as for your nephew who stole from me, and your boyfriend saying that they are getting me fired from my job...I have only gone on facebook on lunch break. I have to sign in and out on the computer. Any IT expert could go over my computer with a fine tooth comb and see that I have only gone on during the time I am signed out.
I do not know why you have to be so jealous of my job. IT is what fine upstanding people do. they work for a living and they pay taxes/
#51 Aug 27, 2011
I was friends with Dave and Kevin for years. I have helped them out when they were down.
Social Services told them yesterday that T was in her father's legal custody and that she could not go to them because of their criminal records.
They have since declared war on me and claimed I lied to social services. T's father and I had to go through CORIs. That is what social services does when you have custody of a child. They are unahppy with the fact that their bad CORI came up to haunt them; so they are online making numerous accusations of drug use. THAT IS SLANDER!!!!
#52 Aug 27, 2011
There are no drugs being used in my home. I am a social worker and a citizen of good standing in the community. Social Services has placed children in my custody, but not in Mr. Lynch's. He has responded by making up stories.
For the first time I am seeing him for what he really is. I have listened to him for years. I defended him on these forums believing he was beaten by the police and treated unfairly.
Now I am on the receiving end of his rants. Now I see how far he will go to try to make himself look good. He has a criminal record. That much is clear. But to make himself feel better, he goes on line and pours out false accusations against innnocent people so they cant clearly see what he is.
#53 Aug 27, 2011
Only in Fitchburg can a Gay Murderer think he could be elected Mayor, on top of that he appears to be very unbalanced. What a mess....
“I'm a Fitchburger and Proud ”
Since: Jan 08
Fitchburg ( of course)
#54 Aug 27, 2011
Since when are they allowing Tea Bagger Cultist sponsorship of any event of any kind... What with the fact that they are blatant racists and led by a porn star (scott brown). I would think that those (TB'S) that are going to be in attendance will do anything they can to malign and denigrate Democratics while trying to push their own extreme, treasonous right wing fascist agenda. Just say no to the Tea Bagger Cult. I would also urge the candidates to wait for a Debate with legitimate sponsorship.
#55 Aug 27, 2011
No one cares about you or your rants Sonny. A mayoral candidate is having a full blown meltdown online and we've all got front row seats.
Your game is played out Sonny. No one cares.
#56 Aug 27, 2011
Debbie, swear on your kids that you didn't smoke pot with Johnny! Swear on your kids that you didn"t know that Johnny smoked pot and drank with his kids!
Hold on about your fine upstanding people comment! I never stated anything about your job, not once! You actually have a simple job. And the job before that you told me that you slept and went online all day at your job! Then remember they took your computer rights away?
Debbie you recieved over 60,000 in grant money for your house. You have racked up well over 60,000 in debt! You think that you live beyond your means?? New car for you, new car for your daughter, new car for your ex, a motorcycle ,a camper, plasma screens even after you caught him with a 19 yr. old man.
You state that I owe you $3,000? I don't owe you a dime and you know it!!
Debbie, you state that we asked her to pick her room colors out! You were there for these conversations! You have her sleeping on the couch with her baby and boyfriend! You knew that we had a room for her!
What is wrong with you Debbie? Talking crazy as if we were looking to take Ts baby! Are you OK? They are both welcomed here if they need a place to live! What is this transfiction about a baby with you? Then you talk of conversations that you had with others regarding carrying a baby for a person; well let's clear it up, that person wasn't me! And from what I know of this conversation you were encouraging this conversation and it wasn't a conversation that entailed artificle insemination! You carried the conversation!
I am really starting to see how looney you are! Let's talk about these three kids. When did they stop talking to us? Debbie, you think that you can buy people with your line of credit. For one I never stated to the judge that I owned a house! These kids are real and they have feelings and they have lifes. So what bad things are you going to bring up about these kids? Everyone knows how you enjoy talking about everyone behind their backs.
So what is your financial point? You have $40,000 in credit cards! Unlimited borrowing of tens of thousands off your parents? So this gives you the means to live WAY past yours!
I don't go to Springfield because I cannot afford the gas to go. I do not go on vacations ever because I do not have the means to go! I owe a total of $1,500 in credit! I do not spend on new cars because I cannot afford one! I don't own any toys because I cannot afford them! I don't live beyond my menas! This makes me less than?? You go everywhere all the time, hey enjoy yourself! But don't complain to me because you have tens of thousands in debt because you are older than I and you should live within your means!
You buy motorcycles, vans, cars, trips, vacations constantly, cars for other people, campers and many other toys! You have been living way past your means and you point a finger of jealousy towards me? I don't even go out to eat, I don't even take day trips! I don't smoke cigerettes, I don't drink, I don't drug and I never waste money; NEVER!
So now what? Bankruptcy? So you claim over $70,000 in cash debt and don't have to pay back a dime! So maybe I should live past my means so I can claim bankruptcy and clear the slate! I do without Debbie! I spend my money on others as I am not a materialistic person! I sold two trucks in order to downsize and to pay down some debt as I couldn't afford to put gas into a big 8 cylender!
#57 Aug 27, 2011
There are drugs in your home being used and you are fully aware of it! It will all come out on september 6th. You state that I have not had kids placed in my custody! Last I heard in court on Friday the judge refused to give you custody which you still do not have!
Debbie you came out here with your rants! You are not telling the truth! Debbie, enough with your social service worker BS! On tuesday they will know of every decision that you made at the expense of your kids! How many letters did you write to the parole board for and against, for and against, for and against till they had it with you! How many restraining orders have you put out against others?
And another thing, as you mentioned over the years I have had these other nephew and nieces living with me and ask any of them if we tolerated drugs or alcohol use? Ask everyone of them if we did not assist them and ancourage them to pursue educations which they all proudly achieved through their hard work and persistence. Sometimes it wasn't easy for them as I encouraged them to seek out additional tutoring and I talked to their teachers and every teacher was very proud regarding the respect and politeness that each kid presented themselves with! I am proud of everyone of those kids and they are all welcomed to stay at my home whenever they choose. They are all older with kids of their own now!
I didn't have the money to afford bigger places for them to live, some times I had to sleep on the couch for years which I did not have a problem with at all! I will not allow you nor anyone on this forum to slander me through lies!
What was I to gain by obtaining custody of T? She is 18 in March and we have talked at length regarding her decision to move to New York! We have talked about school availability out there and setting it up before she actually makes the move out there, we talked about making us part of her decision in reference to allowing us to assist her with the move and coordination of the move! She came back from New York willingly in order to stay with her daughter; that is a good mother!! You don't go to take away her parental rights because you are attached to the baby! When I sen that baby glow when she was in her mother's arms and talking to her smiling and giggling face; then that is what a social worker sees and wants to see take place! The baby recieves $300 a month; this money should be used while T is there so that she can see what things cost and what is needed to purchase! I feel that she is a very good mother! Young and learning, YES! As is every first time mother. Te bonding is there between them and it is healthy!
#58 Aug 27, 2011
I swear on the HOLY Bible that i have NEVER smoked marijuana in this house, with Johnny or with any kids.
I have never filed bankruptcy and will not. Why? Because I take full responsibility for my actions. You are lying about the amout of the debt.
You took total advantage of me. YOu were sick and could not work. I used my credit cards to pay off your furniture at Aarons. I paid utility bills for you. I paid $2500 for the transmission for your boyfriend's car. You promised me that you were going to give me one lump sum that December when your parents sold their home. I got nothing. It has been three years and you stilowe me nearly $3,000. In fact, the $100 you gave me last month was the first payment in nearly a year and a half./
You drove my Monte, did not make all the payments as promised and returned it a mess. It came back with sky high mileage and seriously scratched up. It looked like you put your tool box on the roof when you got in and out of the car. Because of you, i had to sell it at a tremendous loss. You want to talk about debt, You were a big cause of it. You claim you only owe $1500 in credit. What about the money you owe me? constant vacations Kevin? I have not been on a vacation since 1999. You don't waste money. Every time i see you, you have the latest in electronic gadgets...yet can't pay me.
You have no mortgage, because your mother owns the hosue outright. You work under the table in addition to your social security and it has been like pulling teeth to get you to repay me what you owe me. You should be absolutely ashamed.
And speaking of the car. Dave removed all my cds and the ones belonging to my daughter and refused to return them. He took the kicker out of the trunk and sold it to Josh. It was not his to sell I PAID FOR THAT!
AND YOUR boyfriend asked me to be a surrogate, I never encouraged any such converstation. He asked J as well. And when she terminated a pregnancy, he kept screaming at her and calling her a murderer because she did not give birth and hand the baby over to him. Nice UNCLE.
#59 Aug 27, 2011
Are you denying that you did time for murder? You seriously think you can sue someone for defamation of charactger when they are making true statements. Bring on the white suits!
#60 Aug 27, 2011
and the fact that you coninually say this online using my name is just CRIMINAL!
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