Lori

United States

#1 Aug 14, 2012
Ok I've been with this guy for a year and a half. For a year he has brought up marriage. I would love to marry him but he has never proposed and plans are never made such as a date or anything. So is he playing me? Or just scared to go the next step? How long do I wait? I'm in this to get married. I'm not the type to date for 6 yrs then marry. I know some people enjoy that but we live 45 mins away from each other and we won't move In together till we are married. I don't really care for the long distance thing and seeing each other every other week or a few times a week. Any advice?
happy

Moncure, NC

#2 Jan 4, 2013
When he utters marriage again jump om him saying yes then keep saying when and lets set a date. I was like your man and this happened to me 36 years ago. We have been happy in our marriage with few rocks thrown. well it worked for us but only you can know the truth of your relationship
Bing

Chicago, IL

#3 Jan 4, 2013
Lori wrote:
Ok I've been with this guy for a year and a half. For a year he has brought up marriage. I would love to marry him but he has never proposed and plans are never made such as a date or anything. So is he playing me? Or just scared to go the next step? How long do I wait? I'm in this to get married. I'm not the type to date for 6 yrs then marry. I know some people enjoy that but we live 45 mins away from each other and we won't move In together till we are married. I don't really care for the long distance thing and seeing each other every other week or a few times a week. Any advice?
The big question is: Do you or him work in a strip club or bar? If so, it's futile, end the relationship.

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