why are some husbands such douche bags? anyone have an answer to tthis?

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Since: Jan 12

Park Hills, MO

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Apr 24, 2012
 
Why do they think they can control their wives?
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Apr 24, 2012
 

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Because they wear their ovaries on the outside. It only takes 8 pounds of force to remove a testicle.
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Apr 25, 2012
 
Nope....men are controlling and abusive because...these are the guys that women CHOOSE!!! Face it...women often CHOOSE losers, CHOOSE to stay with them, and often even CHOOSE to make kids with them! Meanwhile, they have probably have passed up a hundred decent guys to get with the loser to begin with!! CHOICES have consequences!!
just someone

Lake Saint Louis, MO

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#4
Apr 25, 2012
 
Yeap I chose a loser, an abusive man had kids with him but I chose to lose his abusive douche bag ass 11 years ago after 6 years of his ignorance ! And no I don't regret the kids but I regret him !
I'm now married to a wonderful man who doesn't even think of trying to control me !

Since: Jan 12

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Apr 25, 2012
 
Mine was awesome at first then he just started turning into an ass.
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Foristell, MO

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Apr 25, 2012
 
Sorry to hear that, I have been married to this guy for almost seven years but together almost eleven & he has never been a douche.
He knows better I guess !
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#7
Apr 25, 2012
 
Because most women are f u ck ing stupid a s s b itches.
summers eve

Farmington, MO

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Apr 25, 2012
 
Well...douche bags are used by douchers to keep them nasty stank holes from emitting noxious odors!
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Farmington, MO

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Apr 27, 2012
 
Marriage is primal, men are primeval, but women are only controlled if they want to be. You don't like the way you're living? Change it.

Since: Jan 12

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Apr 30, 2012
 
He just started all this ignorant shit like a month ago. Idk wtf his issues r but he's gonna deal w them on his own cuz this bitch is out
crzyness

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Apr 30, 2012
 
proudmomma25 wrote:
Why do they think they can control their wives?
I do feel that men think they own u once they marry you!!! It's like they are mr perfect until they have you then they change and think you will stick around no matter what! I know many relationships that the husband was very sweet in the beginning then stopped and started being an ass! I know men don't want to hear this but please keep showing the love of your life how much you love them, never let your love die and always make her feel special and wanted! It's worth it in the end

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May 1, 2012
 
Amen to that. Its like they think just cuz I share their last name they own u n that ain't even how its suppose to b. If u ask me they need to man up n learn how to treat the woman they married.
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May 4, 2012
 
crzyness wrote:
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I do feel that men think they own u once they marry you!!! It's like they are mr perfect until they have you then they change and think you will stick around no matter what! I know many relationships that the husband was very sweet in the beginning then stopped and started being an ass! I know men don't want to hear this but please keep showing the love of your life how much you love them, never let your love die and always make her feel special and wanted! It's worth it in the end
In most relationships men have to turn into jerks because girls get bored with the nice guys and end up leaving them for a bad boy. Just saying.
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May 4, 2012
 
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<quoted text>In most relationships men have to turn into jerks because girls get bored with the nice guys and end up leaving them for a bad boy. Just saying.
I have to disagree :) just try not to let it get boring :) like have date night at least once a week or spice up the intimacy big time!!!! Let her know you want and need her and leave notes or random text with how much u love her, flowers every one in awhile, jus be romantic and never let ur love for each other die! I used to dream of the kind of relationships I see in the movies and my ex husband would always tell me that there's no such thing as that kind of love but it's out there, I know it!! Any man wanna know how a woman wants to be loved? Watch the notebook! It's says it all!!!!

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May 6, 2012
 
Yeah its like they nice switch gets turned off as soon as ur theirs n they think well I got what I want I can b an our ignorant selves now. Ugh, that is so not how its suppose to work.
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May 6, 2012
 
proudmomma25 wrote:
Yeah its like they nice switch gets turned off as soon as ur theirs n they think well I got what I want I can b an our ignorant selves now. Ugh, that is so not how its suppose to work.
I missed alot when I was married!!! Never felt complete! Alot was missing in our relationship! When I talked he turned up the tv!!! It was terrible

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May 7, 2012
 
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I missed alot when I was married!!! Never felt complete! Alot was missing in our relationship! When I talked he turned up the tv!!! It was terrible
That's exactly how mine is. N if I try to talk to him bout the problems, he gives me a stupid look n pats me on my head like im a dog. N its even worse if I dont do something his way or n his words "the right way". N he's a city boy n im from the country. He even had the nerve to tell me that I need to get rid of my country back ground cuz that's n the past. Well country is who I am n I told him that when I first met him. I'm not changing who I am for anyone
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May 7, 2012
 
proudmomma25 wrote:
<quoted text>That's exactly how mine is. N if I try to talk to him bout the problems, he gives me a stupid look n pats me on my head like im a dog. N its even worse if I dont do something his way or n his words "the right way". N he's a city boy n im from the country. He even had the nerve to tell me that I need to get rid of my country back ground cuz that's n the past. Well country is who I am n I told him that when I first met him. I'm not changing who I am for anyone
Yeah sounds like my ex too!!!! He hated it if I didn't listen to him or do things EXACTLY how he wanted me to!!! He never did anything with me either! And yes u should not change lol and the country girl has to b who he fell n love with

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May 8, 2012
 
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Yeah sounds like my ex too!!!! He hated it if I didn't listen to him or do things EXACTLY how he wanted me to!!! He never did anything with me either! And yes u should not change lol and the country girl has to b who he fell n love with
I'm not changing for anybody. I think he just like to control me so he thinks he can change my personality too.
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May 10, 2012
 
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<quoted text>I have to disagree :) just try not to let it get boring :) like have date night at least once a week or spice up the intimacy big time!!!! Let her know you want and need her and leave notes or random text with how much u love her, flowers every one in awhile, jus be romantic and never let ur love for each other die! I used to dream of the kind of relationships I see in the movies and my ex husband would always tell me that there's no such thing as that kind of love but it's out there, I know it!! Any man wanna know how a woman wants to be loved? Watch the notebook! It's says it all!!!!
HELL YA GIRL! It's like they turn into the girls of the relationship after a while! "I'm tired", "I have a headache". Blah blah blah. Men are NOT the only ones who like sex! And it's not even just about the sex in general, it's about that time your spending together and the intimacy during sex. You men act like sex is just sex, when in reality, it's not.(not to us females anyway) We enjoy that one on one time when your focused on JUST us. You guys think that we're spending time together just because we in the same room, that ain't how shit works! Quit being dickheads and LOVE your woman. Give her your full blown ATTENTION as much as you can. Focus on HER wants and needs instead of always gettin what you want an bein done with her! You men Make us feel like you get bored with us. Why can't you treat her like it's the first time, every time?? And call us what you want to, stupid ass bitches, hahaha. Who cooks your dinner douchebag? Who does your laundry so you have clean clothes to wear everyday? With your attitude I'm pretty sure you ain't doin a damn thing for yourself! Your lucky to have a woman that would allow you to talk about her/to her that way, Over my dead body and my daddies .44 ain't no man EVER gonna talk to me that way. You would've had your ass beat and been lucky to still be walkin you stupid ass lil boy.

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