any updates on destiny weaver story?
mom of four


#27 Mar 17, 2008
i am a single mother of four and going to school right now and i am using jody as an example.......oh my poor jody she was not right in the mind but its okay what you did the state will spend tax payers money and raise your other kids and Destiny is in a better place..... Jody you can live your life now the state has taken care of it all...... 9,000 for bond its okay mom will pay it ...... oh wait did i say mom mmmmm cause mothers will do what ever they have to do to protect their children......fathers do too....and as a single mom i have had flus' and colds and bumps and bruises i own shares in tylenol and bandages..... but never have i ever heard a sick and twisted story as this one... i hope there is no copy cats out there cause jody is getting off very easy.....our community is an old community and now she is drinking and driving on our roads and she is willing to take my daughters from me from behind the wheel as they are on these roads... and there is nothing i can do about it hummmmmmmmmmmm ex if your still out there don't give up cause we all need your support

United States

#28 Mar 30, 2008
New Court date set for April 3rd, with the results of Jamestown evaluation as to her mental capacity. 1:15pm in front of Judge Clapp in Grand Forks County courthouse. Open to all who want to be there. Clarence's next date is May 8th at 9am at the Grand Forks County court house. One child is living in Montana with her father and the twin boy is in foster care in Grand Forks, third home already. Family continues to visit him whenever they are allowed. No word from the 3 year old since she moved back with her father in Montana, as social services had recommended continued contact with her family in Grand Forks and the surrounding area. Father of her had nothing to do with her before all of this happened. Never even saw a picture and just got to whisk her away because he is her biological father. How sad!!!! She must be scared to death. I can tell you that her family is divided in what should be done. My feelings are that she should be locked away for a very long time. I even heard she abuses animals as well. keep you all updated as much as possible. close friend of a relative

United States

#29 Mar 30, 2008
check out my response to update you. Court date for Jody on April 3rd in Grand Forks at 1:15pm with the results of her jamestown eval. If it is not continued for a billionth time.
mom of four


#30 Mar 31, 2008
Thany you for the update 20and48....It seems that this has gone on long enough....I will be at the court house on April 3rd...please keep me up dated. IF you have anymore information please post it

Roseau, MN

#31 Apr 3, 2008
Unfortunately I haven't been able to check for updates until today!! So I of course wasn't there. What happened?? 20and48, I agree - she needs to be locked up, look what she has done, not only to Destiny, but to the rest of her kids and family. I can hardly wait to hear her evaluation results, can it be anything but EVIL!!??
EX boyfriend

Greenbush, MN

#32 Apr 3, 2008
Jody and I lived together from 1995 to 2002 and that was a mess.
mom of four


#33 Apr 4, 2008
Just found out in todays Grand Forks Harold Jody and her boyfriend have court dates set on May 8th.........So one more month....Check out todays harold..........

Stanton, NE

#34 Apr 8, 2008
I seem to think that Jody is a drunk and a drug user.....Does this make it okay for what she has done. mmmmmmm Ex boyfriend do you have any contact with her now? I don't know you ppl but i am very shocked at what has gone on...Wishing i could find more information on this story recently...It seems really hard to follow when everyone is forgetting what Jody has done....Does anyone know if her boyfriend was with her the entire time Destiny was dead...Why did it take them so long to do anything??????

Roseau, MN

#35 Apr 8, 2008
helpless - As far as we know the boyfriend wasn't with her all the time, sounds like she just wanted help disposing of the body. I also noted that now on the news they are saying "they" phoned it in to police, when at first it was said that Clarence was the one that reported it.
It does seem society blames all these things on drugs, drunkeness, or insanity, but the plain truth of it is there are alot of people out there doing the same substances, or are mentally ill, that still have enough sense to call the doctor when their child is sick, or the coroner, or a friend or family member ANYONE!!! when a person dies.

If you read earlier comments from The Ex (clarence's), Jody wanted the body to decompose so there would be no way of knowing what the poor child died of. Maybe the Ex Boyfriend could enlighten us about her personality, or thought pattern when they were together.

Ex boyfriend?? what do you think??
iron maiden

Shanghai, China

#36 Apr 9, 2008
it took them a long time to do anything because Jody was smoking the brown cigar and the ex boyfriend was doodling with a crayon on parchment (if you knoe what I mean). I mean really., if she wasn't in that screamo band with Jim none of this would have happened. Being ill with no notion of medication just tends to enlighten everyone else of your condition. So I say stoy the stogies and box up your crayolas, take a aspirin next time and go to church!
her big sis

Devils Lake, ND

#38 May 20, 2008
wut is happening. noone in my family will tell me wut happend.

Roseau, MN

#40 Jun 12, 2008
Hmmmmmmmm - still wondering??? I'm not going to forget!!
Minnesota Mom

United States

#41 Jun 20, 2008
Clarence Smith is my ex son-in-law so I heard all about he and Jody Weaver. Wondering when they will be tried for what happened to Destiny. It is so unfair that little Destiny had to suffer because our court system is ham-strung from removing children from less than adequate homes.

Brunswick, GA

#42 Jun 29, 2008
stories like this make my blood boil!!!! Poor little Destiny sure did not deserve to die because of two parents who obviously did not love her nor care about her well being. I hope that they all fry for what they did.

The juvenile court system and department of children's services around this country is a joke. They will remove children from homes where they are loved and well cared for but leave those in danger to suffer over and over again.

I have a good friend who is a foster mother and has been for 20+ years. The children she gets are kids who have been allowed through the cracks in the system that wind up severely disabled for life before anyone helps them.

Children who are beaten and raped by mom's boyfriend, children left in cars to freeze to death, children who's mothers cannot get off the bottle long enough to give a damn, you name it.

Many bad decisions are made daily by defacs workers yet nothing seems to be done to straighten the issues out and get the system working like it should.
cries of a child


#43 Aug 4, 2008
I have been following this far as clarence he was not even there until the day he reported the death. He had no idea what he was walking in on. As far as I know Jodi was home alone with her children for those 2 weeks !?!@

Crookston, MN

#44 Aug 14, 2008
I wonder what goes thru the mind of helpless, innocent children who are neglected and abused like that? Honestly, they must think they've been so bad to deserve treatment like that. How must her siblings feel, with thier dead sister in the home? Which of them is next???
Women who treat children like paychecks deserve to lose their parental rights...and for all I care, they should be sentenced to live with an abusive man for the rest of their life for the way they treat those poor babies....I cant imagine growing up in a home where I didnt know I was a loved and valued member.

Warroad, MN

#46 Aug 26, 2008
Hey Jane Doe, Clarence does need prayers, but let me ask why is he still her boyfriend? If he feels so bad, why would he support her after all of this?? Since you know him, can you ask him if he thinks Jody did something to hurt Destiny? I have heard she does have a violent streak - what does Clarence say? Is that why you think she did something and covered it up by letting the body decompose?? I have a hard time feeling sorry for someone who has no sympathy for a dying child let alone when it's her own flesh and blood. Sorry!!!

Warroad, MN

#49 Oct 23, 2008
Good for you the Ex!!!- the truth hurts doesn't it Clarence?? I will give him credit for having the brains to turn it in, but he was thinking with the other head when it comes to Jody!! Last I heard he was sharing her with someone else. Well I hope he has to share her with a whole prison full of butchy women in maximum security! Does anyone know when the sentencing will be - I thought it was supposed to be soon??

Warroad, MN

#51 Nov 3, 2008
Sorry ex, how did he talk you into that??

Devils Lake, ND

#52 Mar 1, 2010
Devin was adopted

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