so unhappy

United States

#1 Dec 9, 2012
Ive been married for 10 yrs and im so unhappy with this man I so call my husband. Ive have loved him unconditionally till about 4 mnths ago. I dont know how to get out of my marriage he says he will kill me if I walk out he used to be abusive before so im afraid he will snap and harm me if I leave. Hes always acussing me of cheating when he knows Damn well I dont hes with me 24/7 im not even allowed to drop my son off at school bymyself. I dnt know what to Do!! Please I need help . And no I cant call the cops I did once and all they did was take a report and flashed behind the house real quick and they left he didnt hit me but he broke all my tvs the mirrors in the bath room and threatened me Like always. Im tired my kids seeing all this. I dont want them growing up talking this is the way to treat a woman. Please can anybody give me some advice!:'(
lol

United States

#2 Dec 10, 2012
Well love you need to leave when he ain't looking slowly pack what you need important documentation and your kids .have someone take them for you when they visit you so its Easy to leave with out having to much to carry...or knock igim the hell out and go you seam scared..I would leave and let him try to do something..don't be week your stronger than that...
so unhappy

United States

#3 Dec 10, 2012
I meant im tired of my kids seeing all this and that I dont want them thinking this is the way to treat a woman. And yes I am very scared. And my kids arent allowed to leave with anybody family or friends so if I was to ask someone to take them he would know. I know soon people are gonna get on and bash me for this but let me tell you he was the perfect boy friend a very gentleman always respectful showed me so much love and patience their wasnt a moment that he didnt make me feel special he didnt start hitting me till we had been married for 2 yrs it went on for about 4 mnths and he stopped but hes always complaining about one thing or another. The only thing im allowed to do is get on topix and even at that he says I get on here just to meet men. Hes very unsecure. And "lol" I thank you for trying to help me I feels good knowing someone cares I thank you from the bottom of my heart. I know theres something I can do cant figure it out just yet.
helpful

Dallas, TX

#4 Dec 10, 2012
Just pick up your kids one day afterschool and be ready packed and drive yourself to the woman shelter in Corpus Christi. It may seem hard but you can do it, pray to the Dear Lord to help you leave him its the best thing for you and your kids. Call ahead of time and they will be waiting for you. Also save some money without him knowing. May God Bless you and keep you and your kids safe.
so unhappy

Ballwin, MO

#5 Dec 10, 2012
But hes in control of all the money. He buys us what we need. Hes not working right now but has enough money saved to be with out work for like 4 yrs he said. And I cant pick my kids up from school by myself he goes with me. Just a while ago he told me that I better think twice about leaving him its like he knows. I feel so dead inside :'(. Im not even allowed to cry cuz he gets furious. Thank you "helpful" for trying to help me.
no hope

Alice, TX

#6 Dec 10, 2012
My advice to you is to just go with it sounds like a really pyscho if you leave you will probably end up on the news JUST SAYING
Re Run

Alice, TX

#7 Dec 10, 2012
If he reads this site, he will know what is up. Strange that he "allows" you to do this. Do you have relatives here that can help you get word to somebody to help you? Please do not end up like Erica.
so unhappy

Ballwin, MO

#8 Dec 10, 2012
He lets me get on this website cuz I tell him im always stuck at home and he say get on topix your not missing anything. But I erase my history when I can so he doesnt always know what I get on. And sometimes he does get mad at me for getting on here. The reason im still replying is cuz my father is here visiting and he spend his time with him my father n law god Bless him trys to talk to him but he just tells him to mind his own business. I.have family but I dont want to put them in the middle im afraid he would hurt them as well. Maybe " No Hope" is right im gonna have to stick it out. He wont hurt me as long as i dont leave him.
lol

United States

#9 Dec 10, 2012
You can fo this .and your kids don't need to see that and the cops can escort you out of your home you need to send him some where and get out...the shelter Will help you get back on your feet..pray love lots of prayers for you ..if this is not what you waNt you need to tell him ...wr are abult and he is big enough to care for him self.....never be scared to leave especially for the ones who don't deserve to see mom treated like that I feel you ..
sad

United States

#10 Dec 10, 2012
good nite
sad

United States

#11 Dec 10, 2012
ntttte
sad

United States

#12 Dec 10, 2012
nite nite
Sorry but

United States

#13 Dec 11, 2012
I'm not bashing you, but I'm not feeling sorry for you either. Suck it up and leave for goodness sake! Just leave. Call 911 and have an officer stay there while you pack ur stuff and leave. Quit whining about it and be a mother to your kids. He can only control him if you let him. Grow the hell up and do WHAT'S BEST FOR YOUR KIDS!
once in your shoes

Houston, TX

#14 Dec 11, 2012
Girl I was married for 16 yrs happily for most of it but 2 yrs ago I decided enough is enough he never hit me but the verbal abuse .I would of rather taking a hit that goes away .but the verbal never does my children were hearing everything one day I told my kid call the cops and he did gladly that's what opened my eyes my kids were miserable also that gave me courage and no longer afraid I've been divorced for a yr in a half and happy very happy my kids also .plz get courage do it for you and your kids and yalls peace of mind .hope I was helpful godbless
Been there

El Monte, CA

#15 Dec 11, 2012
The more you prolong it the worst it's gonna get and harder for you to seperate since he's already on to you,he's not stupid cuz even if you erase your tracks he probably has someone watching you under a fake name.. Remember Your keeping a voilent atmosphere for your kids making them think its ok to conduct themselves as he does for he is the example(depending on thier age and gender)in your household.. the best thing you can do is shut up and do it quietly,quit spreading your plans on a site wich EVERYBODY knows and talks about.
rrg

El Monte, CA

#16 Dec 11, 2012
Run girl, and don't look back. Call cops make restraining order and get family to take u to womans shelter from there keep running. Don't get suckered in. The longer u wait the more ur kids suffer. Its going to be hard but ur kids will never forget the strength it took for u to save them. Speeking from experience. Thank u mom
Lmao

Houston, TX

#17 Dec 12, 2012
Look what I could tell u is to call the police and have them be there while u pack ur stuff and leave with ur kids!! Tell them ur scared for ur life and if the could assist u while u get out of that house.. It's the best thin for u to do get ur kids out of that household.. Before one day he snaps an god for bid he kills all of u.. The police will help u leave and help u get to. A woman's shelter safely.. Be safe and god bless u.. I will have u and ur children in my prayer..
Princess unicorn

United States

#18 Dec 12, 2012
Don't call the cops you'll be wasting their time. Call the constable he is the one that helps in matters like this

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