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More teens accuse cheerleading coach of sexual abuse

There are 259 comments on the Charleston Daily Mail story from Dec 3, 2012, titled More teens accuse cheerleading coach of sexual abuse. In it, Charleston Daily Mail reports that:

Two more teenage boys have come forward claiming that a former Marion County cheerleading coach had sexual relations with them.

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truth

Orange, VA

#63 Dec 5, 2012
Blame The Victim wrote:
<quoted text>Right that is a stupid excuse, not science... http://hrweb.mit.edu/worklife/youngadult/brai... ... An excerpt--According to recent findings, the human brain does not reach full maturity until at least the mid-20s.(See J. Giedd in References.) The specific changes that follow young adulthood are not yet well studied, but it is known that they involve increased myelination and continued adding and pruning of neurons. As a number of researchers have put it, "the rental car companies have it right." The brain isn't fully mature at 16, when we are allowed to drive, or at 18, when we are allowed to vote, or at 21, when we are allowed to drink, but closer to 25, when we are allowed to rent a car.
Let's go ahead and excuse the 16-25 year olds of any crimes that are committed because we are all to stupid to make decision. Cant believe everything that's on the Internet. People lie to make money. The teacher was wrong and should pay for what she did but open up your eyes look at the world we are living in!!! When I was on high school sex drugs and smoking is normal even with adults. Is it right no but quit covering up for teenagers who I know right from wrong. I am still considered a teenager and I know the difference and always. These study's just try to cover up bad parenting
wow

Fairmont, WV

#64 Dec 5, 2012
Booster Beavis wrote:
Gimme a J
Gimme an A
Gimme an I
Gimme an L
What's that spell?
What's that spell?
Hahahaha!!! Oh thats a good one!!
truth

Orange, VA

#65 Dec 5, 2012
Blame The Victim wrote:
<quoted text>You are sick.
If you want to say I'm sick that's fine. You obviously not aware of kids today. I am one so let's arrest my boyfriend because I was 17 and he was 23. If you are a Christian then you know not to judge. I'm glad she's being Punished for what she has done but remember innocent until proven guilty. She never plead to these new accusation. If its true then she needs to go to jail. But quit pretending that these boys are not capable to know the difference between right and wrong. And that they had no idea on what's going on. Let's get real. I still have friends in nmh that know what happened and know what these boys have said.
Victim shmictum

United States

#66 Dec 5, 2012
truth wrote:
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Let's go ahead and excuse the 16-25 year olds of any crimes that are committed because we are all to stupid to make decision. Cant believe everything that's on the Internet. People lie to make money. The teacher was wrong and should pay for what she did but open up your eyes look at the world we are living in!!! When I was on high school sex drugs and smoking is normal even with adults. Is it right no but quit covering up for teenagers who I know right from wrong. I am still considered a teenager and I know the difference and always. These study's just try to cover up bad parenting
On point!!
silly

Fairmont, WV

#67 Dec 5, 2012
truth wrote:
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If you want to say I'm sick that's fine. You obviously not aware of kids today. I am one so let's arrest my boyfriend because I was 17 and he was 23. If you are a Christian then you know not to judge. I'm glad she's being Punished for what she has done but remember innocent until proven guilty. She never plead to these new accusation. If its true then she needs to go to jail. But quit pretending that these boys are not capable to know the difference between right and wrong. And that they had no idea on what's going on. Let's get real. I still have friends in nmh that know what happened and know what these boys have said.
Exactly, you are a kid. When you get to be about 25 you will understand. A 23 being with a 17 year old is a loser, and someone that can't be trusted with children. It is gross. You think that you are all grown up. It is a shame that you think you know it all. You should realize that a 23 year old being with you is like you being with an 11 year old. Grow up.

“what are you talking about you”

Since: Mar 11

schlappington, by god

#68 Dec 5, 2012
Booster Beavis wrote:
Gimme a J
Gimme an A
Gimme an I
Gimme an L
What's that spell?
What's that spell?

frig my lifes!
truth

Ardsley, NY

#69 Dec 6, 2012
silly wrote:
<quoted text>Exactly, you are a kid. When you get to be about 25 you will understand. A 23 being with a 17 year old is a loser, and someone that can't be trusted with children. It is gross. You think that you are all grown up. It is a shame that you think you know it all. You should realize that a 23 year old being with you is like you being with an 11 year old. Grow up.
So your trying to tell me I don't know right from wrong so I can make up any excuse to get away with anything I want to. You all can keep making up excuses for teenagers now days but lets try raising our kids right and quit telling them it's not ur fault you don't know what your doing. The coach was in the wrong but these boys were not stupid ask any guy what they did at that age and they would be doing the same thing. Like i said before she should be punished. I do have 2 kid of my own and I know how to take care of them and provide them what they need. I'm young but I'm not using the excuse that I can't raise my kids because I'm young and not capable to do this myself.
yup

Fairview, WV

#70 Dec 6, 2012
hmmn wrote:
<quoted text> why do u care ..u have responded almost immediately after anyone responds to u...great employee u r! making all that money one would think ur life would be busier! I know I love it when my girls spend the day on their cell instead of answering calls..they get written up for that. Thats what breaks are for! Go earn all that money u claim to make
First, I'm your girl or any girl, I'm a man and second I can pay people to do my work for me! Not to bright are ya?
Becky S

Shinnston, WV

#71 Dec 6, 2012
truth wrote:
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If you want to say I'm sick that's fine. You obviously not aware of kids today. I am one so let's arrest my boyfriend because I was 17 and he was 23. If you are a Christian then you know not to judge. I'm glad she's being Punished for what she has done but remember innocent until proven guilty. She never plead to these new accusation. If its true then she needs to go to jail. But quit pretending that these boys are not capable to know the difference between right and wrong. And that they had no idea on what's going on. Let's get real. I still have friends in nmh that know what happened and know what these boys have said.
17 and 23 is a little more u understandable than 33 and 15. Mandi is old enough to be these boys' mother. SHE should have known better that is the problem.
Deja Vu

Grantsville, WV

#72 Dec 6, 2012
Whether the boys know right from wrong is beside the point. There is a law for a reason and SHE crossed the line. Just because a CHILD wants something doesn't mean they should get it and she is an adult and should realize that. She is at that age where she wants to hang onto her youth. That was completely the wrong way to go about it. Those boys penis' shouldn't have been mistaken for the fountain of youth. Her compulsive nature is a sign of a real problem. The fact that Josh is "standing behind her" makes me wonder what their personal life was really like. What other secrets are they keeping. Most couples have a problem with infidelity with someone of the same age, let alone where it's actually a crime.
wow

Kite, GA

#73 Dec 6, 2012
this is nuts suspended with pay. This woman needs to be in jail not out having a good time with our childrens education money. The barkers got to be the hornest family in wv praying upon children!!!!
Get it right

United States

#74 Dec 6, 2012
Becky S wrote:
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17 and 23 is a little more u understandable than 33 and 15. Mandi is old enough to be these boys' mother. SHE should have known better that is the problem.
She was 30, he was 16 at the time this supposedly happened. Not quite old enough to be his mother.
Get it right

United States

#75 Dec 6, 2012
wow wrote:
this is nuts suspended with pay. This woman needs to be in jail not out having a good time with our childrens education money. The barkers got to be the hornest family in wv praying upon children!!!!
She was suspended WITHOUT pay, then fired. Old news, where do they find you people?
LOL

Smithfield, WV

#76 Dec 6, 2012
Get it right wrote:
<quoted text>
She was 30, he was 16 at the time this supposedly happened. Not quite old enough to be his mother.
I've actually heard of 14 year olds' having babies recently, so yea she is actually old enough to be his mother. GET IT RIGHT!
So Sad

Fairmont, WV

#77 Dec 6, 2012
truth wrote:
<quoted text>
So your trying to tell me I don't know right from wrong so I can make up any excuse to get away with anything I want to. You all can keep making up excuses for teenagers now days but lets try raising our kids right and quit telling them it's not ur fault you don't know what your doing. The coach was in the wrong but these boys were not stupid ask any guy what they did at that age and they would be doing the same thing. Like i said before she should be punished. I do have 2 kid of my own and I know how to take care of them and provide them what they need. I'm young but I'm not using the excuse that I can't raise my kids because I'm young and not capable to do this myself.
You're 17 with two kids. That is not an ideal situation. You missed out on your childhood. I had the most fun between 18 and 20. You shouldn't wish that on those boys. They thought they wanted it the same way you did. They thought they could make these decisions but they didn't think of the consequences. Now they have to live with the fact that their actions helped put a woman in jail. I'm sure that when it was happening the boys thought it was great. Now look at the damage this woman has caused everyone. These boys have to feel guilt. Their families feel sick about their kids being preyed upon by a 30 year old woman. The only one in the situation that probably thought about the consequences of her actions. These boys shouldn't have been doing this with a 30 year old woman. She knew that. They weren't thinking about the long term effects.
So Sad

Fairmont, WV

#78 Dec 6, 2012
yup wrote:
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First, I'm your girl or any girl, I'm a man and second I can pay people to do my work for me! Not to bright are ya?
A man that have others work for him and all you do is sit on this forum for what? If someone's not so bright that is you. Everyone can see right through your BS and know you are not anything. Let alone someone who is the boss. Grow up!!!
Get it right

United States

#79 Dec 6, 2012
LOL wrote:
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I've actually heard of 14 year olds' having babies recently, so yea she is actually old enough to be his mother. GET IT RIGHT!
Not necessarily!
LOL

Smithfield, WV

#80 Dec 6, 2012
Get it right wrote:
<quoted text>
Not necessarily!
If there are 14 year olds' having children, how do you figure that she is "not necessarily" old enough to be his mother?

At what age IN YOUR OPINION is a woman old enough to be someone elses mother?

Not that it really matters. That is not the point here. The point is, she had "sexual relations" with BOYS (not just one) who were under the age of 18, which is against the law.

Which is why she was arrested.

It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks that is posting here. Whether he consented, or "he liked it.. he went back for more" which is all bullsh*t anyway, the fact remains, she was an adult and he was underage.

No Judge is going to rule that - oh well he liked it so its ok, and throw the case out. The law is the law.

Had she not been able to make bail, she would sitting in jail. And once she stands trial, she will be!
Let it go

Clarksburg, WV

#81 Dec 6, 2012
LOL wrote:
<quoted text>
If there are 14 year olds' having children, how do you figure that she is "not necessarily" old enough to be his mother?
At what age IN YOUR OPINION is a woman old enough to be someone elses mother?
Not that it really matters. That is not the point here. The point is, she had "sexual relations" with BOYS (not just one) who were under the age of 18, which is against the law.
Which is why she was arrested.
It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks that is posting here. Whether he consented, or "he liked it.. he went back for more" which is all bullsh*t anyway, the fact remains, she was an adult and he was underage.
No Judge is going to rule that - oh well he liked it so its ok, and throw the case out. The law is the law.
Had she not been able to make bail, she would sitting in jail. And once she stands trial, she will be!
You're stating facts that everyone already knows, you have since day one. Anyone can see you're the one with such a hatred for her, if you're not the boys mother, father or sibling, why does this consume and bother you so much?? Its all already been said, let the court take it from here. You say you feel for the victims, but running your pie hole on here's not just hurting Mandi. It affects both sides. For Gods sake give your fingers a break and let the law do its job!!
LOL

Smithfield, WV

#82 Dec 6, 2012
Let it go wrote:
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You're stating facts that everyone already knows, you have since day one. Anyone can see you're the one with such a hatred for her, if you're not the boys mother, father or sibling, why does this consume and bother you so much?? Its all already been said, let the court take it from here. You say you feel for the victims, but running your pie hole on here's not just hurting Mandi. It affects both sides. For Gods sake give your fingers a break and let the law do its job!!
You must be referring to someone else. I haven't posted in this thread before. So, if someone else had used "LOL" as their name, it wasnt me.

This does not consume or bother me so much, because as I stated I haven't posted on this thread before. However, it does sicken me as it would anyone else who heard about this on the news. Had this happened in Ohio and I read about it, it would sicken me just the same.

The things you are saying "you say you feel for the victims" sorry that wasn't me either (not that I don't).

And anyone can see I'm the one with hatred for her?? I DONT EVEN KNOW HER. I hadn't even heard her name until this all came about. So quit ASSuming sh*t, because you know what they say!

I will run my pie hole as I please, thank you very much!

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