Jobs for Sex Offenders?? Are they out there??

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ButlerCounty

Middletown, OH

#1 May 7, 2011
I know that the title in and of itself sounds horrible but you know these people are employed.. The question is.. where? I have lived in Butler County for years and you hardly hear of anyone speak of this subject. Its almost taboo. But they need work too. So, if anyone has leads for these people... If you hope to rehabilitate and for them to start new lives... Make it a little easier for them to find gainful employment.
mammabear

Mansfield, OH

#2 May 9, 2011
Yeah right. They will always be sex offenders I read they can not be rehabilitated. They will do it again. I would not give them a job. They need to be locked up forever.
Our children are the most precious things on this earth and a sex offender is the lowest life form. I would never give them a job.

Anyone who is interested can get information on sex offenders from the sheriff dept. I get updated if any move near me or my grandchildren. I want to know if perverts move near me. Thank GOD and the sheriff dept., for the information.
Disgusted by mammabear

Middletown, OH

#3 May 9, 2011
You are an idiot. You just stereotyped every sex offender as a pedophile. Not every sex offender has molested a child. It could simple be a crime that someone dated a 17 year old and they were four years older. Or two minors were dating who were four years apart. Also there are alot of females who lie about what actually happened out of anger. There are actually woman being prosecuted for lying. Melinda Dehnam of Hamilton, Ohio said her exboyfriend raped her. She pressed charges then she backed out and told them that she made it up because she was angry at him. She is now serving time. There are plenty of girls who do it. They don't care about the consequences, they are just out for revenge, sometimes out of rejection. You need to do a little more research. There are also alot of teens who look older, say they are older, and have fake ids, so there is no way to tell the difference. This post was about jobs for sex offenders, not a discussion about what you think about them. Keep your mouth closed unless it is directly related to the topic at hand. You are a f-ing idiot. It's good that you look out for your grandchildern, but not every sex offender is going to desire them. Stay off this thread, it has nothing to do with you.
mammabear

Mansfield, OH

#4 May 10, 2011
mammabear wrote:
Yeah right. They will always be sex offenders I read they can not be rehabilitated. They will do it again. I would not give them a job. They need to be locked up forever.
Our children are the most precious things on this earth and a sex offender is the lowest life form. I would never give them a job.
Anyone who is interested can get information on sex offenders from the sheriff dept. I get updated if any move near me or my grandchildren. I want to know if perverts move near me. Thank GOD and the sheriff dept., for the information.
Again, I stand by what I said and do not dare think you can tell me or anyone else what to post or where to post it. Most men would be smart enough to know a girl is not of age. She is someones little girl. Defend offenders all you like but they are the scum of the earth and a waste of air. How is that for you. Continue your search for the offender and defend all you like. I would never hire one.
I will not post again as this subject makes me sick. You can shove your attitude towards me. Many people feel the same. This is the real world. A sex offender does not deserve any rights and I am glad the sheriff lets us know who they are. I had a sheriff come to my door to inform me one was moving in near me. Thank GOD the pervert moved quickly I only hope they also notified the sheriff they moved. We do not need to live in fear of spineless child sex offenders. It does not matter if you like how I feel but it is how I feel and I would say so anywhere.
Married for 10 years

Dayton, OH

#5 May 11, 2011
mammabear wrote:
<quoted text>Again, I stand by what I said and do not dare think you can tell me or anyone else what to post or where to post it. Most men would be smart enough to know a girl is not of age. She is someones little girl. Defend offenders all you like but they are the scum of the earth and a waste of air. How is that for you. Continue your search for the offender and defend all you like. I would never hire one.
I will not post again as this subject makes me sick. You can shove your attitude towards me. Many people feel the same. This is the real world. A sex offender does not deserve any rights and I am glad the sheriff lets us know who they are. I had a sheriff come to my door to inform me one was moving in near me. Thank GOD the pervert moved quickly I only hope they also notified the sheriff they moved. We do not need to live in fear of spineless child sex offenders. It does not matter if you like how I feel but it is how I feel and I would say so anywhere.
I could have carried the label "sex offender." When I was 19, I met a girl at the mall that I thought was 16 years old. She told me she was 16 years old, her mom told me she was 16 years old, and I didn't live in the same city as her, so really other than small things that I started to notice, I had no reason to believe she was any other age than what she and HER MOM!, told me. When I found out she was 14 years old and about to turn 15, I walked out the door, intending it to be for good. Well, 1 month later she found out she was pregnant and I did the right thing. I came back, knowing I could presumably go to prison and be labeled a sex offender because of her age. The child I had created was more important to me than that and we now would be a part of each others lives forever because of this child. Zoom ahead almost 14 years and in November we will be married 10 years and together for 14. That child we created, has developed into an almost 13 year old honor roll student, baseball all-star, and an angel of a child. We also have a 9 year old son, own our own house, and intend to be together till the day we die, just like both of my grandparents have been. By the way, both of my sets of grandparents are 5 years apart, at 82 and 77 and 81 and 76. They both met at 20 and 15 and married at 22 and 17. Today both of my grandfathers, one a retired high school teacher and high school hall of fame basketball coach, and the other an employee of the same company for 44 years till he retired could possibly be labeled sex offenders with the 4 years law. So labeling all people with the "sex offender" tag as pedophiles is plain ignorant.
mammabear

Mansfield, OH

#6 May 12, 2011
Married for 10 years wrote:
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I could have carried the label "sex offender." When I was 19, I met a girl at the mall that I thought was 16 years old. She told me she was 16 years old, her mom told me she was 16 years old, and I didn't live in the same city as her, so really other than small things that I started to notice, I had no reason to believe she was any other age than what she and HER MOM!, told me. When I found out she was 14 years old and about to turn 15, I walked out the door, intending it to be for good. Well, 1 month later she found out she was pregnant and I did the right thing. I came back, knowing I could presumably go to prison and be labeled a sex offender because of her age. The child I had created was more important to me than that and we now would be a part of each others lives forever because of this child. Zoom ahead almost 14 years and in November we will be married 10 years and together for 14. That child we created, has developed into an almost 13 year old honor roll student, baseball all-star, and an angel of a child. We also have a 9 year old son, own our own house, and intend to be together till the day we die, just like both of my grandparents have been. By the way, both of my sets of grandparents are 5 years apart, at 82 and 77 and 81 and 76. They both met at 20 and 15 and married at 22 and 17. Today both of my grandfathers, one a retired high school teacher and high school hall of fame basketball coach, and the other an employee of the same company for 44 years till he retired could possibly be labeled sex offenders with the 4 years law. So labeling all people with the "sex offender" tag as pedophiles is plain ignorant.
I hear what you are saying but as a mother I would not allow my 14 year old to date a 19 year old. In most cases it does not work. By your own reasoning you have a child who will soon be 14 are you ready to marry them off ? Would you want the same life for your child ? I would not. At 14 a girl has barely reached puberty and is a child that is not fully grown. In our grandparents day and time things were very different compared to today. Maybe you would choose this for your child but I would not. We have laws to help protect our children. Most men would prefer a woman to a child who is 14 years old.
At age 14 a girl would be in about the 8th grade and she would miss school proms, dances, roller skating, sleepovers with her friends,graduation, going to college, living a independent life, the list goes on and on. Allow our children to live life as a 14 year old child not become a mother because someone had unprotected sex with a child. Let them grow up and live a little or at least graduate from high school first.
digusted at mammabear

Middletown, OH

#7 May 20, 2011
mammabear wrote:
<quoted text>I hear what you are saying but as a mother I would not allow my 14 year old to date a 19 year old. In most cases it does not work. By your own reasoning you have a child who will soon be 14 are you ready to marry them off ? Would you want the same life for your child ? I would not. At 14 a girl has barely reached puberty and is a child that is not fully grown. In our grandparents day and time things were very different compared to today. Maybe you would choose this for your child but I would not. We have laws to help protect our children. Most men would prefer a woman to a child who is 14 years old.
At age 14 a girl would be in about the 8th grade and she would miss school proms, dances, roller skating, sleepovers with her friends,graduation, going to college, living a independent life, the list goes on and on. Allow our children to live life as a 14 year old child not become a mother because someone had unprotected sex with a child. Let them grow up and live a little or at least graduate from high school first.
not everybody can tell age difference. there are ppl out there who just turn 18 and were dating girls who said they were older. anymore, you just cannot tell. they smoke, dress like skanks, drink, do drugs, so you cannot tell me every 14 yr old is innocent and looks like a child. its hard to tell. some guys never would have gotten with a girl if they would have known the real age. i agree with the guy above. sometimes parents lie or okay it. i know a guy who was 19 and was dating a 14 yr old...its gross for real. but someone who literally just turned 18 and has been talking to someone for 2 yrs who is 14, i can understand. no one is perfect and ppl make mistakes. you cannot label every sex offender as a pedofile. look up definition of a pedofile, look up the different types of sex offenders, not everyone involves raping or molesting a small child. these teen girls are seducing these young men who were never told how serious of a crime this is, they are lying to get what they want. its the parents of the young girls (and even boys) who need to talk to their children and tell them the seriousness of dating an older person and how much trouble the older one can get into. if they really cared they wouldn't do it knowing that they older one could get in trouble. its called morals. they need to start teaching them in school, educate them on the seriousness. they can educate them on how to use a condom and how a menstrual period works, but can't tell them that having sex with an older/younger person can ruin their lives, haunt them for the rest of their life, do prison time, have to register, have trouble finding a person who will look past the mistake you made when you turned 18/19, have a regular life, struggle to find a job. you just don't understand. you never will. people make mistakes, it's not like all sex offenders hunted after the "victims", sometimes they are the victims, and they pay for it for the rest of their lives. they don't always take something from the younger ones, sometimes the younger ones go after someone because they didnt give them what they wanted and dont care that it will affect them for the rest of their lives, they just think its funny. can you say you lived a perfect life and never made a mistake? do you want to be judged for something you did over ten years ago? do you want it to follow you your entire life? i bet it's NO. you need to step back and look at different situations, judge by the individual, not a whole, look at the other side of the story...there are always two sides of the story, how do you know the "victim" is telling the truth, just cuz they are a minor? yeah, teenagers never lie...bullshit.
Rope

Cincinnati, OH

#8 May 21, 2011
so mammabear, a guy approaches a girl, and if she wants to, she can claim sexual harassment. he is now a sex offender. the poor man has this label, your telling me he shouldnt be allowed to get a job?
mammabear

Mansfield, OH

#9 May 21, 2011
Rope wrote:
so mammabear, a guy approaches a girl, and if she wants to, she can claim sexual harassment. he is now a sex offender. the poor man has this label, your telling me he shouldnt be allowed to get a job?
If she is a minor, she is jail bait. Or he could suffer the consequences of a mad father. If the shoe fits. The choices we make in life have consequences. I am not saying he should not get a job but I would not hire him. That is just me. Maybe a man should choose a woman of age and not a child, problem solved.
mammabear

Mansfield, OH

#10 May 21, 2011
digusted at mammabear wrote:
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not everybody can tell age difference. there are ppl out there who just turn 18 and were dating girls who said they were older. anymore, you just cannot tell. they smoke, dress like skanks, drink, do drugs, so you cannot tell me every 14 yr old is innocent and looks like a child. its hard to tell. some guys never would have gotten with a girl if they would have known the real age. i agree with the guy above. sometimes parents lie or okay it. i know a guy who was 19 and was dating a 14 yr old...its gross for real. but someone who literally just turned 18 and has been talking to someone for 2 yrs who is 14, i can understand. no one is perfect and ppl make mistakes. you cannot label every sex offender as a pedofile. look up definition of a pedofile, look up the different types of sex offenders, not everyone involves raping or molesting a small child. these teen girls are seducing these young men who were never told how serious of a crime this is, they are lying to get what they want. its the parents of the young girls (and even boys) who need to talk to their children and tell them the seriousness of dating an older person and how much trouble the older one can get into. if they really cared they wouldn't do it knowing that they older one could get in trouble. its called morals. they need to start teaching them in school, educate them on the seriousness. they can educate them on how to use a condom and how a menstrual period works, but can't tell them that having sex with an older/younger person can ruin their lives, haunt them for the rest of their life, do prison time, have to register, have trouble finding a person who will look past the mistake you made when you turned 18/19, have a regular life, struggle to find a job. you just don't understand. you never will. people make mistakes, it's not like all sex offenders hunted after the "victims", sometimes they are the victims, and they pay for it for the rest of their lives. they don't always take something from the younger ones, sometimes the younger ones go after someone because they didnt give them what they wanted and dont care that it will affect them for the rest of their lives, they just think its funny. can you say you lived a perfect life and never made a mistake? do you want to be judged for something you did over ten years ago? do you want it to follow you your entire life? i bet it's NO. you need to step back and look at different situations, judge by the individual, not a whole, look at the other side of the story...there are always two sides of the story, how do you know the "victim" is telling the truth, just cuz they are a minor? yeah, teenagers never lie...bullshit.
You can be disgusted all you want. Any adult messing with a minor disgust me. The adult should have morals and be able to tell a child from an adult. It is called jail bait. It is not up to a child or the school to address the results of a minor being seduced by a adult. The adult should know better and if not he or she will suffer the consequences. That is life. Let our children be children. Many girls have not even reached puberty at 14 . They have been teens for 2 years. Yes, some of them do lie. That is why it is up to the adult to have morals and know right from wrong. If the adult does not then they have to live with the results of their actions. That may be better than dealing with a angry parent.
I have made mistakes in my life but I can tell a child from an adult. The laws are in place to help prevent adults from doing this again. Let babies be babies and grow up do not rob them of their life experiences. They have not even lived life at 14.
Let our children be children and look for a woman at least of age.
Rope

Cincinnati, OH

#11 May 21, 2011
mammabear wrote:
<quoted text> If she is a minor, she is jail bait. Or he could suffer the consequences of a mad father. If the shoe fits. The choices we make in life have consequences. I am not saying he should not get a job but I would not hire him. That is just me. Maybe a man should choose a woman of age and not a child, problem solved.
Well moron, I think it should be legal for a 20 year old to date a 16 year old. The LAW is wrong! When will idiots like you realize this.

I think it is messed up that a 50 year old is allowed to date an 18 year old but a 20 year old can't date a 16 year old. And 16 year old girls can give consent you moron.
mammabear

Mansfield, OH

#12 May 21, 2011
To rope....You are a idiot. They are called children under the age of 18. That is the way it has always been. It is the law regardless if you like it or not.
Yes a 16 year old may agree to your advances but that does not mean it is right, and if you are 18 or over jail may be in your future for taking advantage of a child. It is called jail bait moron.
Leave the children alone. They are not adults. What do you not understand about that?
Disgusted by mammabear

Middletown, OH

#13 May 22, 2011
mammabear wrote:
To rope....You are a idiot. They are called children under the age of 18. That is the way it has always been. It is the law regardless if you like it or not.
Yes a 16 year old may agree to your advances but that does not mean it is right, and if you are 18 or over jail may be in your future for taking advantage of a child. It is called jail bait moron.
Leave the children alone. They are not adults. What do you not understand about that?
Mammabear, you are the idiot. You ignore anything that you refuse to look at that is correct that argues against your view point. You are a closed minded bitch and you will go to hell for judging people (it is a sin). It has not always been the law. A long time ago, it was normal for a 12 year old to marry a well older man. In other countries, it is still legal. Just because you and other people think what you think, it is now illegal. I do agree that mentally MANY teens are not ready for a real relationship, but there are a few that are responsible and already act like an adult. Almost every teenager and some children are out there having sex with people their own age and getting knocked up and neither of them can take care of the child...but that is ok? I don't care what you say...you cannot tell all 14 year olds and 20 year olds apart. I am 25 and I still look 16. You think that I can't have a relationship with someone because I look like a teenager? I have an ID to prove my age and three kids, but I have even had a cop ask me after they ran my social and looked at my ID ask me if I was sure I was over 18. It's the same in reverse. Teens get fake IDs, look older, and act older. You are dumb if you think all teens look like children because reality (and discussed between almost every adult in the USA) it is almost impossible to tell age anymore. You are a closed minded idiot.
mammabear

Mansfield, OH

#14 May 23, 2011
Disgusted by mammabear wrote:
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Mammabear, you are the idiot. You ignore anything that you refuse to look at that is correct that argues against your view point. You are a closed minded bitch and you will go to hell for judging people (it is a sin). It has not always been the law. A long time ago, it was normal for a 12 year old to marry a well older man. In other countries, it is still legal. Just because you and other people think what you think, it is now illegal. I do agree that mentally MANY teens are not ready for a real relationship, but there are a few that are responsible and already act like an adult. Almost every teenager and some children are out there having sex with people their own age and getting knocked up and neither of them can take care of the child...but that is ok? I don't care what you say...you cannot tell all 14 year olds and 20 year olds apart. I am 25 and I still look 16. You think that I can't have a relationship with someone because I look like a teenager? I have an ID to prove my age and three kids, but I have even had a cop ask me after they ran my social and looked at my ID ask me if I was sure I was over 18. It's the same in reverse. Teens get fake IDs, look older, and act older. You are dumb if you think all teens look like children because reality (and discussed between almost every adult in the USA) it is almost impossible to tell age anymore. You are a closed minded idiot.
No. In reply to your last sentence:
I am not a closed minded idiot, I am a mother. I can tell a child when I see one even if they try to look older. It is illegal and has been for a very long time in the USA. It really does not matter what you think by law you are wrong. That is what counts.
sex offender

Woodridge, IL

#15 May 26, 2011
mommabear I will not call you an idiot, but you are the reason rehabilitation does not exist and you promote fear. You have absolute zero knowledge on the subject. Everything you say is media fear driven. You could meet a sex offender and not know it and think he/she is a wonderful person then come to find out there RSO's. It makes me sick that people like you continue to spread fear and false knowledge. The recidivism rate for Sex Offenders is actually lower then DUI, Theft, Murder, Drug Charges, and many more. its a fact that 95% of all sex crimes are committed by someone NOT on the registry. Its a fact that treatment works. Also its a fact that 98% of children who are molested have it done by someone they know I.E. a family member, family friend or parents. Seriously its not the RSO's you have to be worried about its your friends and family members. Are you going to stop socializing with your friends and family and husband now because of these facts? Its a DAMN shame that people hurt kids, sexualy and violently, emotionaly etc. its also a DAMN shame that people murder other people, but how do you know your neighb or didnt just get out of prison for murder? your more ok with that then living next to an RSO who was arrested for lets say/...Child Porn. a non hands on offence. Look I have done the research and I am an activist in the fight to stop people from making more unconstitutional laws, spreading more fear and false knowledge, and lumping every RSO in the same catigory. RSO's are a modern day Scarlet Letter, and its unconstitutional to force laws like these on a group of people for something they did in the past. Please keep in mind that the Sex Offenders that you think they all are, The child rapists, the kidnappers, the guys who make and sell child porn, not posses it, are actually in prison for life. The RSO's living in your neighborhood are not the dangerous guys. but its people like you who perpetuate the sterotype and spread false fear. you can feel the way you want, racists can be racists, and we can all disagree. But FACT is FACT and your spreading lies. please do some research, and look into the situation before speeking that way. You would change your mind if one day your son was arrested because he had a few picures on his computer of a 15yo naked and now was called a sex offender. things like that happen. Put yourself in the shoes of the mother who has to watch her son be treated the way you treat sex offenders all because he had 5 pictures, or at 18 had sex with a 16 or 17 year old, or peed outside. Point is not every RSO is out to have sex with kids.
disgusted at mammabear

Middletown, OH

#16 May 27, 2011
sex offender wrote:
mommabear I will not call you an idiot, but you are the reason rehabilitation does not exist and you promote fear. You have absolute zero knowledge on the subject. Everything you say is media fear driven. You could meet a sex offender and not know it and think he/she is a wonderful person then come to find out there RSO's. It makes me sick that people like you continue to spread fear and false knowledge. The recidivism rate for Sex Offenders is actually lower then DUI, Theft, Murder, Drug Charges, and many more. its a fact that 95% of all sex crimes are committed by someone NOT on the registry. Its a fact that treatment works. Also its a fact that 98% of children who are molested have it done by someone they know I.E. a family member, family friend or parents. Seriously its not the RSO's you have to be worried about its your friends and family members. Are you going to stop socializing with your friends and family and husband now because of these facts? Its a DAMN shame that people hurt kids, sexualy and violently, emotionaly etc. its also a DAMN shame that people murder other people, but how do you know your neighb or didnt just get out of prison for murder? your more ok with that then living next to an RSO who was arrested for lets say/...Child Porn. a non hands on offence. Look I have done the research and I am an activist in the fight to stop people from making more unconstitutional laws, spreading more fear and false knowledge, and lumping every RSO in the same catigory. RSO's are a modern day Scarlet Letter, and its unconstitutional to force laws like these on a group of people for something they did in the past. Please keep in mind that the Sex Offenders that you think they all are, The child rapists, the kidnappers, the guys who make and sell child porn, not posses it, are actually in prison for life. The RSO's living in your neighborhood are not the dangerous guys. but its people like you who perpetuate the sterotype and spread false fear. you can feel the way you want, racists can be racists, and we can all disagree. But FACT is FACT and your spreading lies. please do some research, and look into the situation before speeking that way. You would change your mind if one day your son was arrested because he had a few picures on his computer of a 15yo naked and now was called a sex offender. things like that happen. Put yourself in the shoes of the mother who has to watch her son be treated the way you treat sex offenders all because he had 5 pictures, or at 18 had sex with a 16 or 17 year old, or peed outside. Point is not every RSO is out to have sex with kids.
You worded it really well. I have been trying to get this point across, but some people will never change their opinion. She ignores any point that goes against what she is saying. She acts like I don't care about children, but I do. I have three wonderful children and an incredible husband. I think it is closeminded to judge a group of people the same. It's like if you eat a piece of watermelon out of a container that you were going to buy and you forgot your money, you will be arrested for theft in some stores (I have a friend who ate a piece out of a container that her friend was carrying. Her friend is the one who had no intentions on paying, but my friend did not know that and she didn't know the girl had put it down. She was arrested for theft.) Also if you are with someone who steals and you didnt even know it but you walk out with them, you will be arrested for theft. Are you doing to classify that person with the people who rob houses or use a gun and rob a person? It's still technically theft. She is full of shit to think that she can tell all children from adults. I would love for her to meet some of my family members who are under 18 but look 25+ or me and some of my family members who are 25+ and look 16 or so...
disgusted at mammabear

Middletown, OH

#17 May 27, 2011
...So beware (in her world) every person who looks like a child MUST be a child and every person who looks like an adult IS an adult and she is perfect and tell us all apart. Not everyone can and I know for a fact she CANNOT! Okay...here is a TRUE scenario. 18yr old male has talked to a 14yr old for 2yrs. wen he turnd 18 he was arrested for importuning (and since im guessin mammabear doesnt do research its basically soliciting sex to a minor). previously he has a friend's little sister trying to get with him. he did the right thing and ignored her calls (she got his number from the 18 yr old sister). she left a voicemail saying, "I'll get you back for ignoring me." (while we recently found out a friend of this girl and the girl who will be later mentioned has a recording of this girl saying he never did it) When he was arrested and shown on the news on crime stoppers, this girl and her friend made up some stupid story about him which was impossible on the location. he was scared so instead of going to court and fighting the lies and facing more time for the charges he DIDN'T do, he took a plea bargin. He did his time, got out. He met a girl (who he went to school with and knew about his background), the girl decided to get to know him first and judge him as an individual because after all he was only 18 (by a couple of days) when he was arrested. The male (who is now 21) and the 19 yr old girl end up getting married. now lets reverse time...while they were dating there was a 14 yr old girl who was stalking the man. she met him through her sister from before he went to jail the first time. he never gave the little girl the time of the day. she would come to his work and would refuse to leave. the owner of the business told her to quit coming, she wouldn't. the man and his girlfriend (now wife) moved away and he quit his job, quit talking to people from that area, and changed cell phone numbers. he was doing everything right trying to get the girl away from him. this girl thought that he would be an easy person to have sex with cuz he was a sex offender. but no, he was trying to move on and live his life. right after they got married, this girl filed charges against him after seeing the married couple in a local store. she said they had sex 6 times and knew every detail (even what she was wearing and how the sex started). she claimed it happened the previous year, but knows every little tiny detail? she goes to court with a mohawk and jeans. she (during the trial) was in jdc for attempting to murder her own mother. she knew every detail, but sounded coached. let's not forget the detective who was involved is the same detective who has arrested this man for his previous crime and has other sex offenders claiming he stated to them that he will arrest them over and over whether they did it or not. So the jury makes their decision. lets remember the phrase, innocent until proven guilty. the jury finds the man NOT GUILTY. hmm, so which is it mammabear, he has to be guilty cuz he's already a sex offender? or the law is right and the jury (which you should be on their side since you are all about the legal system) is wrong? Let's look at the girls history which is listed publically online since she is in her 20s now, shes been arrested for theft, assault, and domestic violence. she gets warrants constantly cuz she doesn't report to her probation officer. and for someone who is a "victim" why is she returning to this man's work 4 yrs later trying to catch up with him and trying to get her GIRLFRIEND a job with him, knowing he's the manager? these little girls have a habit of lying when they don't get what they want and don't care about the consequences. I am against the sick sex offenders, but i'm not going to be against some1 who had consentual sex or talked to a minor wen they turnd 18...thats jus wrong. ppl do change whether mammabear believes it or not. she is closeminded&will never change, which makes her worse of a person.
mammabear

Mansfield, OH

#18 May 30, 2011
It does not matter what you say if you are on a list there is a reason why. You can try to justify why all you want to , to yourself. A sex offender is self explanatory to any parent. I did not bother reading the long long post you wrote.
You live in the USA and it is not legal or right to date a child and many parents would handle it in their own way. I assure you it would be tougher than a courtroom. Say what you will in your own defense. A child molester is just what it says, no less. Any normal adult can tell a child no matter how they may try to act or dress. Get real and quick trying to make it sound like I am the bad person. I am not on a list and I do not have to notify anyone when and where I move. Can you say that? I highly doubt it.
I have a daughter so I know how teens can be but I also know how sex offenders can be and apparently so do you. I am thankful you do not live in my neighborhood. One less offender to worry about.
The idea you try to defend offenders sickens me to no end. There is no justification for a child molester no matter what you say. They are sick and need to be locked up and if that means you, oh well, so be it. I will not read your post any longer. People like you make me sick. Anyone who would take advantage of a child makes me sick. They are children for God's sake. Don't you get it ?
mammabear

Middletown, OH

#19 May 31, 2011
dumb bitch reread my post, I'm not a sex offender. It is not molestation if it is consentual. Your daughter most likely is not a virgin, that's reality. Don't you get it? You ignore anything that proves you wrong...like I said before get off this discussion, it was about jobs, not your views about sex offenders.
Depressed

Portland, OR

#20 May 31, 2011
Wow....Well thanks mammadouchebear for making this thread an utter waste of time. You should be so proud of yourself. Making the world a more ignorant place with every post..........

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