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Since: Aug 12

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#52 Jan 25, 2013
spartan wrote:
<quoted text>Indeed.Went and woke my little man up this morning and spent about ten minutes on his bed talking with him about various things.Not much of anything more comforting than that I don't believe.Either way,congratulations on your productive day,your new beau,and the time to cuddle with your kiddo.
Yes it's wonderful spending quality time with ur kids! But for once,, it's also quite amazing to find a man that I can spend time with and have fun with and love to be around and it not have to feel pressuring on certain things.... I mean, that's always a good thing when u get it,, but it's also refreshing to just spend time and actually get to know one another and that not get in the way of actual feelings. It just complicates things if its too early in the relationship ya know? It can make u blind to what ur heart actually feels about someone in the long run
callasisee

Mount Washington, KY

#53 Jan 25, 2013
spartan wrote:
<quoted text>Good evening callasisee.How was your day? "Was" without doubt a little on the nippy side,,,but it had some moments when it was rather lovely.Anyway,I gotta be honest,I probably don't deserve it,,,but I'm very thankful for your verbal support against my constant accuser.Indicates that you're still my friend in spite of the talk,,,and I'm quite comfortable with that.Just to put it out there though,a lot of the things that are being said about me,,,are "strong" dramatizations of the truth.And in some cases,,,straight up lies.Not claiming to be an angel,,,far from it.Only saying that I'm not the monster that I'm being made out to be.Enough about me though,,,whats been goin' on your life??? Laughs,love,and blessing I hope.
Hello and good evening my forum friend. My day was great and I hope yours was as well. Yes chilly is a good way to speak of the day but that is only on the outside. Nice and warm, thank God on the inside. BTW, just because sometimes we may have a different opinion on a topic or two, or three, lol just kidding, does not mean that I should bash you like you are an enemy or something other than a human being with an opinion and a mind that lets you express it. Also, who on God's green earth can claim the title of Angel? No one in my circle, not even my earthly rock husband that I adore and am greatful he stayed with me through my stupid years. May God bless and direct you through all your days. Have a warm and fuzzy evening my dear friend.

Since: Dec 12

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#54 Jan 25, 2013
spartan wrote:
<quoted text>Indeed.Went and woke my little man up this morning and spent about ten minutes on his bed talking with him about various things.Not much of anything more comforting than that I don't believe.Either way,congratulations on your productive day,your new beau,and the time to cuddle with your kiddo.
Nothing like a Lil man...I miss his youth so much it hurts...my favorite party of the day was waking him up with tickles every morning, the disability from the wreck afforded me to spend every minute of my time with him, that's why I keep a positive attitude about it. I can say he filled my life, completely he's 20 now so I've had to adjust since he graduated and went to college. We have the best relationship he took alot of garbage for that in high school (I home schooled him up till then) but those precious moments were just like yesterday but also at times seams like ions ago. He still will make time for me over anything when I go up to Louisville for appts and such. Still hugs me doesn't care who is around, he never was embarrassed to do so, ever. If ever I was given one wish, it would be for him to be little again.
Princess, I don't know what its like to have raised a precious Lil girl, I can only smile and imagine...if only... But that's another reason I try to stay in Gods graces despite everything, so I can see her again one day :) that old song.. the last kiss by J Frank Wilson..... it may be before your time but I'm sure Spartan has heard it. This isn't a downer post, just saying, enjoy every single moment, the fun ones and tough ones you can't get time back oh and take pictures lol that reminds my Son of things he has forgotten, NOW.he enjoys looking at them
Spartan, I have a ” secret” I will tell when the time is right, about mean people ;/
spartan

Ft Mitchell, KY

#55 Jan 25, 2013
_princess1_ wrote:
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Yes it's wonderful spending quality time with ur kids! But for once,, it's also quite amazing to find a man that I can spend time with and have fun with and love to be around and it not have to feel pressuring on certain things.... I mean, that's always a good thing when u get it,, but it's also refreshing to just spend time and actually get to know one another and that not get in the way of actual feelings. It just complicates things if its too early in the relationship ya know? It can make u blind to what ur heart actually feels about someone in the long run
It's always good to take it slow and learn each other as much as you can while giving as little commitment early on as the relationship will actually allow without crumbling to pressure.After all,he doesn't only have to be accepting of you,,,he has to feel all that just as strong for your little one,,,in order for your relationship to have any kind of hope.Take it slow though,gauge how he handles her,how he handles you,what his intentions truly are,,,and you pretty much know the rest.I wish the best of luck to you,your daughter,and your boyfriend though.The odds are against you statistically,,,but realistically,it's gonna be what the two of you make it.All that aside,you said that you're left-handed,,,so I wanted to ask you a question and see if it matches up with something I read.Anyway,if you fell strongly in love with a rich guy,,,would the first thought to come in your mind be to wish that you were rich,,,or wish that he was poor???
tri

Mount Washington, KY

#56 Jan 25, 2013
Honey Bee 1st wrote:
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Nothing like a Lil man...I miss his youth so much it hurts...my favorite party of the day was waking him up with tickles every morning, the disability from the wreck afforded me to spend every minute of my time with him, that's why I keep a positive attitude about it. I can say he filled my life, completely he's 20 now so I've had to adjust since he graduated and went to college. We have the best relationship he took alot of garbage for that in high school (I home schooled him up till then) but those precious moments were just like yesterday but also at times seams like ions ago. He still will make time for me over anything when I go up to Louisville for appts and such. Still hugs me doesn't care who is around, he never was embarrassed to do so, ever. If ever I was given one wish, it would be for him to be little again.
Princess, I don't know what its like to have raised a precious Lil girl, I can only smile and imagine...if only... But that's another reason I try to stay in Gods graces despite everything, so I can see her again one day :) that old song.. the last kiss by J Frank Wilson..... it may be before your time but I'm sure Spartan has heard it. This isn't a downer post, just saying, enjoy every single moment, the fun ones and tough ones you can't get time back oh and take pictures lol that reminds my Son of things he has forgotten, NOW.he enjoys looking at them
Spartan, I have a ” secret” I will tell when the time is right, about mean people ;/
I want to know too!
spartan

Ft Mitchell, KY

#57 Jan 25, 2013
callasisee wrote:
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Hello and good evening my forum friend. My day was great and I hope yours was as well. Yes chilly is a good way to speak of the day but that is only on the outside. Nice and warm, thank God on the inside. BTW, just because sometimes we may have a different opinion on a topic or two, or three, lol just kidding, does not mean that I should bash you like you are an enemy or something other than a human being with an opinion and a mind that lets you express it. Also, who on God's green earth can claim the title of Angel? No one in my circle, not even my earthly rock husband that I adore and am greatful he stayed with me through my stupid years. May God bless and direct you through all your days. Have a warm and fuzzy evening my dear friend.
Having friends to accept your imperfections is nearly as rewarding as being an "angel",,,I believe.And I'll tell you something about our little disagreements on a topic or two or three,,,lol,,,"you currently have a pretty good track record of spinning my thoughts into a more realistic direction when I start getting silly as it is",so if you presented more disagreements in more posts with your easy and likable yet disagreeable nature,,,you may just find that you can reach a point where you can just tell me what you want me to think,and I'll just run with that lol.Either way,have a good night forum friend,,,and stay warm.

“life is what you make of it.”

Since: Aug 12

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#58 Jan 25, 2013
spartan wrote:
<quoted text>It's always good to take it slow and learn each other as much as you can while giving as little commitment early on as the relationship will actually allow without crumbling to pressure.After all,he doesn't only have to be accepting of you,,,he has to feel all that just as strong for your little one,,,in order for your relationship to have any kind of hope.Take it slow though,gauge how he handles her,how he handles you,what his intentions truly are,,,and you pretty much know the rest.I wish the best of luck to you,your daughter,and your boyfriend though.The odds are against you statistically,,,but realistically,it's gonna be what the two of you make it.All that aside,you said that you're left-handed,,,so I wanted to ask you a question and see if it matches up with something I read.Anyway,if you fell strongly in love with a rich guy,,,would the first thought to come in your mind be to wish that you were rich,,,or wish that he was poor???
I wouldn't care either way honestly. Money doesn't really affect my feelings for someone. If I fell in love with a rich man, it wouldn't be for the money, I've never been one to depend on a guy to take care of me. I've always been the independent type and took care of myself. So I guess I'd wish he was as broke as me. That way he would know that my love for him was true and not because he had money.

Since: Dec 12

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#59 Jan 25, 2013
Spartan, have I done something that I'm not aware of? I've been posting and you told me to keep posting, but I've posted to you a couple of times, past couple of days. kinda feel like you don't want to answer me, its rather just ask then have to wonder.
Princess, I wouldn't have expected any other answer than that from you,:)(about money)
spartan

Ft Mitchell, KY

#60 Jan 25, 2013
Honey Bee 1st wrote:
<quoted text>
Nothing like a Lil man...I miss his youth so much it hurts...my favorite party of the day was waking him up with tickles every morning, the disability from the wreck afforded me to spend every minute of my time with him, that's why I keep a positive attitude about it. I can say he filled my life, completely he's 20 now so I've had to adjust since he graduated and went to college. We have the best relationship he took alot of garbage for that in high school (I home schooled him up till then) but those precious moments were just like yesterday but also at times seams like ions ago. He still will make time for me over anything when I go up to Louisville for appts and such. Still hugs me doesn't care who is around, he never was embarrassed to do so, ever. If ever I was given one wish, it would be for him to be little again.
Princess, I don't know what its like to have raised a precious Lil girl, I can only smile and imagine...if only... But that's another reason I try to stay in Gods graces despite everything, so I can see her again one day :) that old song.. the last kiss by J Frank Wilson..... it may be before your time but I'm sure Spartan has heard it. This isn't a downer post, just saying, enjoy every single moment, the fun ones and tough ones you can't get time back oh and take pictures lol that reminds my Son of things he has forgotten, NOW.he enjoys looking at them
Spartan, I have a ” secret” I will tell when the time is right, about mean people ;/
My little man's actually a little bit bigger than me,,,but still my baby.Usually when I come in,he's just left,and when I get time available,he has friends and other aspects of life going on that make it only foul up everything when I want to hang out with him.This morning was truly a blessing for me,since the timing don't always work out for me like that.I've noticed lately that just about every time I turn around,,,he's grown a little bit bigger,and further away from that baby that used to lay on his back at the Bernheim park while eating fries with me and explaining life to me as he seen it,,,and into a man who's understanding and explaining life more clearly to me now than I was seeing it then.Very exhilarating,,,yet twice as disappointing.Or do you suppose perhaps that that's a selfish way to think about it??? If you do,,,I completely understand.Either way,,,good night Honeybee.
callasisee

Mount Washington, KY

#62 Jan 25, 2013
spartan wrote:
<quoted text>Having friends to accept your imperfections is nearly as rewarding as being an "angel",,,I believe.And I'll tell you something about our little disagreements on a topic or two or three,,,lol,,,"you currently have a pretty good track record of spinning my thoughts into a more realistic direction when I start getting silly as it is",so if you presented more disagreements in more posts with your easy and likable yet disagreeable nature,,,you may just find that you can reach a point where you can just tell me what you want me to think,and I'll just run with that lol.Either way,have a good night forum friend,,,and stay warm.
Who can argue with a post such as this? I mean who? Good night forum friend. I actually think it would be cool meeting you. Who knows, we may already know each other as we post on a lot of the same topics/names. lol Till tomorrow my forum friend and you and yours stay warm as well. I know I will be warm. My hubby is like my portable heater that never gets cold. I really feel lucky that we are where we are in life after the journey we have had. Smiles to you friend
spartan

Ft Mitchell, KY

#63 Jan 25, 2013
Honey Bee 1st wrote:
Spartan, have I done something that I'm not aware of? I've been posting and you told me to keep posting, but I've posted to you a couple of times, past couple of days. kinda feel like you don't want to answer me, its rather just ask then have to wonder.
Princess, I wouldn't have expected any other answer than that from you,:)(about money)
No hun.Was actually responding to you when you posted this one.And no,,,you haven't offended me in any way.Been aiming on posting to you most of the night,,,but due to volume,,,kept getting sidetracked.Really sorry about that.As a matter of fact,I'm really hoping that we can continue to be friends Ms. Bee.Fact is,I like your spiritual side,your playful side,and even like your temper a little bit.Honestly,it was neither lack of respect nor lack of interest that sidetracked me.It's honestly amazing how quickly time goes by when you get comfortable posting.

Since: Dec 12

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#64 Jan 25, 2013
Glad I asked... I and I can say... DITTO MY FRIEND :).have to go to bed now but will catch up in the morning. I believe there will be no reason for the temper now
Have a great night!
My love

Newport, KY

#67 Jan 26, 2013
Why me wrote:
Why don't people always lie to other people just to hurt someone and try to mess up the only thing good they have going for them. Sorry but life sucks right now and I had nothing to do with it
I love you baby and nobody will mess up what we have. We are soul mates and I am always here for you
Not yours

Chicago, IL

#69 Jan 26, 2013
knows wrote:
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I sir am single just found out my boy friend whom started the thread had a girl friend the whole time we were together had a girlfriend.. Aside from that I like hanging out with ladies!!! And I have not ever posted on your behalf till now but will have your back from here on out. Mr Spartan you have made a friend in me!
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