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Anonymous

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#1
Oct 2, 2012
 
......some of us came here because we wanted a Middletown forum.

MPG, Vandy......

What's going on?

I wouldn't post here if all I saw was me, dive and straw posting.

People are reading, 20 or more at a time, but no one is participting.

If no one else gives a hoot about having a local forum then what am I doing here?
vandy

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Oct 2, 2012
 
7vens wrote:
......some of us came here because we wanted a Middletown forum.
MPG, Vandy......
What's going on?
I wouldn't post here if all I saw was me, dive and straw posting.
People are reading, 20 or more at a time, but no one is participting.
If no one else gives a hoot about having a local forum then what am I doing here?
getting slapped around by someone who thinks he has the right to do that gets tired and warped- every post gets some back handed comments from one or another of the people who pollute the forum- there are places where that doesn't happen and you can actually enjoy posting whether or not you agree with other posters- you can discuss even argue without being demeaned- I'm not into the power struggle or the king of the mountain needs of some here- getting taunted into posting does not work for me-
Anonymous

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Oct 3, 2012
 
Really vandy? I noticed you are still posting on NJO with straw and dive. Is that the wonderful place that you are speaking of?

So you don't post here because you got slapped around, by me I assume.

Obviously you are talking about our exchange about your kid not having enough chairs in his/her room where you stopped answering questions but continued to insult the administrators claiming that you did everything you could but wouldn't say what you did.

Whatever vandy, you are the one that always claims that your father taught you to slap back. You could have slapped back with some facts but instead you acted like a wounded bird and threatened to call your lawyer and sue me for slander.

It's okay for you to slap around the administrators with insults behind their backs but when someone slaps you back in their defense, you say you are being demeaned. Weren't you demeaning them?

Is that what you mean? You found a place where you can slap people around and no one challenges you? Enjoy.
vandy

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Oct 3, 2012
 
7vens wrote:
Really vandy? I noticed you are still posting on NJO with straw and dive. Is that the wonderful place that you are speaking of?
So you don't post here because you got slapped around, by me I assume.
Obviously you are talking about our exchange about your kid not having enough chairs in his/her room where you stopped answering questions but continued to insult the administrators claiming that you did everything you could but wouldn't say what you did.
Whatever vandy, you are the one that always claims that your father taught you to slap back. You could have slapped back with some facts but instead you acted like a wounded bird and threatened to call your lawyer and sue me for slander.
It's okay for you to slap around the administrators with insults behind their backs but when someone slaps you back in their defense, you say you are being demeaned. Weren't you demeaning them?
Is that what you mean? You found a place where you can slap people around and no one challenges you? Enjoy.
Oh grow up. I was actually talking about the other 2 who are even more relentless than you but I guess you felt the shoe fit you, too. Why is it that you feel that my posting on any forum at all is your business? Are you in charge of other people? No, pal, you are not, you just want to rule the roost and pretend you are always right. And on that too, the answer is no, you are not always right. You don't always know what you are talking about so face it. If I put a post on another forum to see what reasonable discussion I could elicit, that bothers you? Why???? When it proves fruitless, I don't respond, so why do you care? Arent' you posting there all the time? And why do you think you are not getting warm and fuzzy responses on this forum?? Gee, why is that?
As for me, I always post what I know to be true to the best of my ability. If you don't agree with it, you make accusations that you want me to defend and I don't have to do that. I don't have to convince you of anything at all. Truth is not demeaning; lies, name calling and slander are the issues.
As to slapping back, are you kidding me?? After all the nastiness hurled at me, I am not supposed to slap back?? Like I said, grow up. If you can't take it, don't slap in the first place but don't expect me to take anyone's crap as repeatedly as it is hurled here.
I wonder what gives some posters the gall to think I get up in the morning and think, oh, I'll go on the forum today so what's his face can slap me around?? Really? Nah, It isn't my thing. I'm no wounded bird, pal, I'm just sick and tired of the attacks you continue to this very day. I don't need to post to you, or beat you, or prove anything to you. I quit when I want to, when talking to you or the others is no longer a discussion but a beat down that I'm not interested in. Like how you repeatedly draw my revered Dad into your taunts like a lowlife taunter. And, fyi, my friend the lawyer is very interested in the slander, so put up all you want, especially after you now talked about it and are fully aware of the issue. Wounded bird, 777's?? You'll be surprised!
Too bad the following here got polluted by the cast of other forums. But it is just as easy to ignore nastiness here as it is there.
7vens

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Oct 3, 2012
 
I guess I was confused. If you were talking about straw and dive, why would you post on NJO where they are the only people left?
I get a kick out of people who become indignant when I repeat something they told me. You are the one who mentioned what your father taught you. But if I repeat what you said I am out of line.

You know what vandy? Call your lawyer friend and sue me for slander or libel or trespassing, what a joke.

Let me know how that works out when you try to determine the damage done to your screen name.

How pathetic to threaten someone with a lawsuit because they said you were being dishonest on a forum.

And the fact is that you stopped talking when you couldn't answer my questions and your story fell apart

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Oct 3, 2012
 
God you two get along so well together and your happiness here is eshewed in each and every post. May you have many happy years together discussing your two favorite local issues.....yourselves!

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Oct 3, 2012
 
I am posting this here for two reasons:(1) it fits this thread like a glove (here I can preserve it for future reference and use.

35189.
Vandy,time to reflect and ponder!
by dastraw, 10/03/12 7:01 AM
And there is no need you to respond!

Do you do you remember your "live and let post" thread that you put up recently? I trust you do and that you also know Dive and me share that very same philosophy. Essentially we welcome all posters and all posts. Of course we reserve the right to bust chops from time to time (nitwit, volt, lass) but its all in good natured fun.(Apparently, in your posts here, you disagree - oh well) Bottom line, you know you are free to do as you wish here (NJO) and you wouldn't come here if you weren't enjoying yourself, right?

On the other hand, you have a poster beckoning you to leave this place for another forum where he wishes to control you and who can post there and what they can post. And instead of good natured fun, he likes to "nail your bacon to the wall" with his incessant desire to play " can you top this". If you ignore him he complains, if you don't post in his forum he complains and if you post here he complains. He cares not about you vandy, all he wants to do is ruin this forum for everyone because he doesn't like what Dive and me choose to post and he's obsessed with it. Ignoring him is like putting salt on a slug.

So vandy, I think you should post what you want and wherever you want . Kinda "go where you wanna go, do what you wanna do" like the Mama and Poppas!
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#8
Oct 3, 2012
 
Vandy, not posting here because straw and dive are "slapping you around" makes no sense. If you notice, no one responds to straw or dive here. Some of us are here just to get away from them on NJO and we do not engage them whatsoever. MPG made the point, and I concur, that engaging them will turn this forum into NJO which is a wasteland because of them, as you have said vandy.

And I don't post to them on NJO. The only thing I post there is a link to this forum. I am done with both of them and sooner or later they will get the picture and move on. The fact that straw is here is just pitiable. He claims that he ignores people on NJO then he follows those same people here, a la joebish, for the sole purpose of harassing them, it is sad that there are people who would do that. He and dive have rendered themselves irrelevant.

I am going to continue to promote this forum in other places. And I am going to continue to encourage people to ignore dive and straw. It is disappointing to see straw's name soiling alost every thread.
vandy

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Oct 3, 2012
 
7vens wrote:
I guess I was confused. If you were talking about straw and dive, why would you post on NJO where they are the only people left?
I get a kick out of people who become indignant when I repeat something they told me. You are the one who mentioned what your father taught you. But if I repeat what you said I am out of line.
You know what vandy? Call your lawyer friend and sue me for slander or libel or trespassing, what a joke.
Let me know how that works out when you try to determine the damage done to your screen name.
How pathetic to threaten someone with a lawsuit because they said you were being dishonest on a forum.
And the fact is that you stopped talking when you couldn't answer my questions and your story fell apart
Why are you doing this nonsense dance 777's?? you are truly an enigma, a conundrum of grand scale! One true thing you said is you are confused! Correct!

I post wherever I chose, whether it confuses you or not. Lots of people read there and maybe one day, one of them might think it is safe to come back and write a post without being slapped around. I post for that day, 777's, not to truamatize you!

Now you accuse me of threatening you?? Now THAT is pathetic and another of your lies. There are lots of new internet matters happening now. Time will tell internet laws are changing.

My story never fell apart but as time goes on, the sad situation that still exists will identify my child and you will not under any circumstances, taunt me into any of your corners that will cause my family harm. That's what you want to do. Why would you do that? We all know why.

Talking about my family is my right,not yours, and your mockery of my Dad is for your snide satisfaction at getting in a dig at me and is evil and demonic. I'll be tuning you out again soon because you are so unpleasant and a waste of time to talk with. You continually mock me, but when I go, who will you have left?
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Oct 3, 2012
 
I said I was confused because you said that you weren't talking about me slapping you around as being the reason for you not posting here. I was confused because you go to NJO and post to the people you claim to be avoiding here, so I naturally assumed you were talking about me, since obviously you are not opposed to posting to them.

I did not mock your dad, I repeated what you told me about your dad. If you don't want people to repeat things you say, don't say them. If I mocked your father by repeating what you said, then you mocked your father.

I do not want to cause harm to your family, that is just baseless and stupid.

Why would I want to do that? Because of something you said on a forum? Get real, I'm not the one who threatened to sue over words on a forum, you are. I would never entertain such a ridiculous notion.

I posted the instructions for communicating with administrators so that you could properly handle the situation and get some satisfaction. Directions, which by the way, you did not follow. Instead you got your satisfaction by insulting public employees on a forum.

No one is going to find out who your child is. If this situation is so sad, as you say, then there must be the parents of 34 students complaining. The uncaring administrators must be ignoring at least 34 parents, right? I have no way of finding out who your child is, even if I wanted to know, which I don't.

You did threaten me by saying you talked to a lawyer about suing me for slander.

Man, that post of yours was one of most factually deficient posts I have read in a long time.

And that statement just qualified me for the PC Statement of the Year Award, thank you, thank you very much.

But I will admit I am an enigma, to you.
vandy

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Oct 3, 2012
 
7vens wrote:
I said I was confused because you said that you weren't talking about me slapping you around as being the reason for you not posting here. I was confused because you go to NJO and post to the people you claim to be avoiding here, so I naturally assumed you were talking about me, since obviously you are not opposed to posting to them.
I did not mock your dad, I repeated what you told me about your dad. If you don't want people to repeat things you say, don't say them. If I mocked your father by repeating what you said, then you mocked your father.
I do not want to cause harm to your family, that is just baseless and stupid.
Why would I want to do that? Because of something you said on a forum? Get real, I'm not the one who threatened to sue over words on a forum, you are. I would never entertain such a ridiculous notion.
I posted the instructions for communicating with administrators so that you could properly handle the situation and get some satisfaction. Directions, which by the way, you did not follow. Instead you got your satisfaction by insulting public employees on a forum.
No one is going to find out who your child is. If this situation is so sad, as you say, then there must be the parents of 34 students complaining. The uncaring administrators must be ignoring at least 34 parents, right? I have no way of finding out who your child is, even if I wanted to know, which I don't.
You did threaten me by saying you talked to a lawyer about suing me for slander.
Man, that post of yours was one of most factually deficient posts I have read in a long time.
And that statement just qualified me for the PC Statement of the Year Award, thank you, thank you very much.
But I will admit I am an enigma, to you.
What a total drag you are, man! how can anyone stand to talk to you? I can't. You are a warped manipulator and an evil minded maneuvering clod. Did I say enigma?? my bad, a simple typo for sure, I guess! I meant enema. Go twist that around if you can. I'll be out getting some fresh air, away from your stinkin thinkin.

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Oct 3, 2012
 
Ya just gotta wonder what a new comer to Middletown and to this forum would be thinking in reading this thread....LOL!
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#13
Oct 3, 2012
 
Way to take the high road vandy.

Pardon me for actually discussing the things you brought up.

Had I known it was simply a name calling session I would have let you have it with both barrels. You want to sue for slander??....I'll show you slander you…..you……you….NINNY!!!!!!

Oh Yeah!! That's right!!!!



Look out.

I'm the Mohammad Ali of slander!!!!

I put the "Land" in slander, I'm so good at it.

And you are Joe Frazier.

But not like in the first fight, just the second two fights, you are like that Joe Frazier, or a really old Joe Frazier that can't fight. You know, something like that.
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#14
Oct 3, 2012
 
Well look at that. I just dropped in on NJO and OTJ has been following us here and commenting about it on NJO. What a sweet guy, I'm humbled. Now if we only knew who the rest of the readers but not posters are. I think I will put vandy's lawyer on the case.

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Oct 3, 2012
 
You are "just plain nutz" lad!

One twisted SOB just like your buddy from delphi!

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#16
Oct 3, 2012
 
I am so happy that whatadick was able to bring his 'winning friends' personality here and not skip a beat.

He attacked Vandy, straw, dive and otj in one thread.

I am almost certain that will help solidify this forum as NOT being toxic and 7vens not wanting to be THE forum drama. Wow.
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#17
Oct 4, 2012
 
"I've kept to my word to stay off the only other Middletown forum I belonged to, and I will keep to my word. But the more that people that moved here continue to engage with the people that drove them to this forum, whether it be here or there, slowly but surely, this place will die too. These 3 ruined 2 other forums, even though they claim to own both of those forums. I thought this place had potential, but the only potential I see it having is failure if people that came here looking for a fresh start continue to engage them."

MaryPatsGuy, September 26, 2012

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