Signs Your Boy Friend is a Loser
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#1 Aug 17, 2011
How to Tell if a Boyfriend is a Loser
What's wrong with me? Why didn't I see it before? These are the cries of a woman who realizes she's fallen for the tricks of a dog, a loser, or a deadbeat. It may be asking to much to expect a relationship resume from the men you date to make sure they're not losers, but you can educate yourself on the warning signs
End the relationship immediately if you start to notice signs of physical or emotional abuse. A loser will try to break down your self esteem so you feel like he is the only guy that will ever love you.
Spend time away from your boyfriend and see what he does. If he calls you compulsively, he is insecure. A loser is not comfortable when his girlfriend has her own life. He will check up on you all the time to make sure you still care about him.
Evaluate his behavior. Run if he tells you he loves you after a few weeks of dating. When a guy tells you he loves you so quickly it may seem romantic, but it should set off alarms in your head. A guy who attaches himself to people quickly will detach just as quickly.
Listen for comments that encourage you to distance yourself from your friends and family. A loser does this so he has more control over you by cutting off your . This guarantees that you won't have any outside input about his behavior.
Conversational Warning Signs
Overt sexual innuendos On his t-shirt, bumper sticker, online profile, with his eyes or out his mouth, overt sexual innuendos suggests an immature and/or ugly person.
Bad work history Inquire about his work history and ask plenty of questions. His resume will tell you how dependable and responsible he is, what hes interested in, and even how he deals with conflict. You can see if he has a clue where he wants to be in life, how far he is (or isnt) on his journey toward goals, and information on his financial stability.
Behavior Warning Signs
Entitlement If he goes about his days like the world owes him something. That is a mojor character flaw.
Never wants to go anywhere If your guy is a home-body, youve got to wonder why. Is he a video game junkie? Is he depressed and uninterested in life? Maybe hes afraid of seeing the other women hes dating, or maybe hes just plain lazy.
No license or no car Unless he lives in an area where using public transportation is the thing to do, you can bet that bad life choices are the reason your man doesnt have any wheels. If its no license, be aware that it takes a lot of naughtiness to get your license revoked or even suspended.
Warning Signs On The Homefront
Allows you to overextend yourself If you offer to wash dishes after dinner and he thanks you, but plops down on the couch with a beer instead of helping, run, girl, run! If he lets you pay for everything and then hints toward a foot massage, hes a selfish loser.
Financial Warning Signs
Over-due bills By the time a guy is in his early 20s, he should have learned to be responsible with his bills.
Bills in someone elses name This can only mean one of two things: Its an ex who isnt out of the picture (even if he says she is) or a more responsible person is the account holder because the company refused to open an account in your dates name. Either way, ouch!
Often-Overlooked Warning Signs
Their profiles are trashy Foul language, songs about pimps and ho's, and anything demeaning to women is a sign hes trashy and not worth your time.
Criminal history and/or multiple driving infractions Careless speeding once is understandable, but multiple tickets? Not good. Criminal history is of course a big red flag, so make sure your guy has a clean slate. If you know your guy has a history, you may want to take some time to get more information.
Bad reputation Bad reps speak for themselves. Listen to what his exes have to say. Dont dismiss suspicious comments by his friends and family. They are big clues to what hes really like. If they dont trust him, neither should you.
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