independent

United States

#1 Nov 20, 2012
Why is it that an independent woman cannot find a faithful independent man?
Gdubya

Rockford, IL

#2 Nov 20, 2012
independent wrote:
Why is it that an independent woman cannot find a faithful independent man?
Because you wont let them in enough to be apart of your life. If it is not your way or not in charge of the relationshop you break it apart. Your so independent you you hold too many secrets and you want a man on a shef and pull him out when needed. You wont let anyone love you. So be independent and alone . You will have your way but you will be alone. He loved you but you couldn't.

Since: Nov 12

United States

#4 Nov 20, 2012
Gdubya wrote:
<quoted text>Because you wont let them in enough to be apart of your life. If it is not your way or not in charge of the relationshop you break it apart. Your so independent you you hold too many secrets and you want a man on a shef and pull him out when needed. You wont let anyone love you. So be independent and alone . You will have your way but you will be alone. He loved you but you couldn't.
NOT really, I haven't found a man that can't stay out the streets nor is faithful that's all. I'm open when I want a man, nothing holding back... really I just want a man wit priorities and respects a woman that puts her $ first
Gdubya

Rockford, IL

#5 Nov 20, 2012
fyi wrote:
What a crock of sh!t
nice way to argue your point. You can take the woman out of the bar but you can't take the bar out of the woman. That's why your 40 and single.
Gdubya

Rockford, IL

#6 Nov 20, 2012
Never been to jail. Never did a drug. Drink socially. Take care of my kids. Don't smoke. Bills paid and work everyday. Treat a woman with respect . Still wasn't enough.
Gdubya

Rockford, IL

#7 Nov 20, 2012
I will stay single and watch the same cycle continue in the women I have dated lives. Good luck Independent women.
tru

Carol Stream, IL

#8 Nov 20, 2012
Women dont understand when man come into the life with them they need to do certain things. The bigger problem is these women saying men aint like this. That is because these women like little BOYS.
Gdubya

Lexington, KY

#10 Nov 21, 2012
fyi wrote:
An independent woman is a woman without a pimp
wow when did this go ghetto?
menu

Evansville, IN

#11 Nov 21, 2012
I'm an independant & faithful man and I can't seem to find the same in a woman.
Git wit it

United States

#12 Nov 21, 2012
independent wrote:
Why is it that an independent woman cannot find a faithful independent man?
Where can I find you at? Most women claim to be independent, but they're not. Most rely on some type of assistance. If you on sec8, receive food stamps, then you're not independent. If you use your kids child support to get keep your hair and your nails done, then you're not independent.
possible

Henderson, KY

#13 Nov 21, 2012
IndependentBoo wrote:
<quoted text>
NOT really, I haven't found a man that can't stay out the streets nor is faithful that's all. I'm open when I want a man, nothing holding back... really I just want a man wit priorities and respects a woman that puts her $ first
the fact that you put your $ first is probably the issue. face it, men are needy, and you obviously have something that you put in front of everything else, and it isnt your man.. problem solved.. as long as you are after your $$ then your man will know he is not the point of your interest or love. happy spending you lonely nag

Since: Nov 12

United States

#14 Nov 21, 2012
possible wrote:
<quoted text>the fact that you put your $ first is probably the issue. face it, men are needy, and you obviously have something that you put in front of everything else, and it isnt your man.. problem solved.. as long as you are after your $$ then your man will know he is not the point of your interest or love. happy spending you lonely nag
Just because I choose to have my future prepared does not mean I am a lonely nag. What it is, is that I have priorities and goals financially. Hhhmmm... what you broke and chase folks for their ends? Can't stand on your own two feet without someone helping you? It is hard to find a man that can stand on his own two feet and won't get jealous when a woman prefers ovetime over just chilling in the crib. Yea men are needy, but why? I have needs too but I am not a fool. I know the difference between need and desire so please go get your ends up!

Since: Nov 12

United States

#15 Nov 21, 2012
Gdubya wrote:
I will stay single and watch the same cycle continue in the women I have dated lives. Good luck Independent women.
Well not every woman is the same so get you a broke chick, maybe it will make you feel better about the commitment

Since: Nov 12

United States

#16 Nov 21, 2012
Git wit it wrote:
<quoted text>
Where can I find you at? Most women claim to be independent, but they're not. Most rely on some type of assistance. If you on sec8, receive food stamps, then you're not independent. If you use your kids child support to get keep your hair and your nails done, then you're not independent.
No assistance from the government nor from the father of my only child... Where you at if you so independent?
possible

Henderson, KY

#17 Nov 21, 2012
nope, i grossed 100k this and last year, and ill be damned if i put it before the woman i love. you worship at the throne of the $$ and you will continue to get what you have now.. good luck with that.. you asked a question, and i gave you an answer.. you dont like the answer, and all i see is attacks and excuses.. make your decision and go with it.. stop complaining.. if you want your money, then have your money.. if you want a man, then.... im sure you can figure it out, babe.. just gotta realize that life isnt cake and ice cream.. your choices have consequences, figure out which you are truely chasing

Since: Nov 12

United States

#18 Nov 21, 2012
Thanks for your opinion, I make time n have little sleep to make time right. Yea I'm sticking wit the $!
Hope you meet that female that is truly independent yet not dedicated to the making her own!!
git wit it

Chicago, IL

#19 Nov 22, 2012
IndependentBoo wrote:
<quoted text>
No assistance from the government nor from the father of my only child... Where you at if you so independent?
I was not directly referring to u. Just a general assumption based on the so called independent women around here. I'm very independent in evansville waiting for that right one to come my way. She doesn't have to be independent, because I'm a real man and will take care of my family. We shall be independent together. I like your work ethic, kind of sounds like me. It's hard to say no to overtime, when I still have a 30yr mortgage and I don't own my car out right. It would be great to be financially independent, but I want to depend on my woman and not her salary.

Since: Nov 12

Chicago, IL

#20 Nov 22, 2012
git wit it wrote:
<quoted text>
I was not directly referring to u. Just a general assumption based on the so called independent women around here. I'm very independent in evansville waiting for that right one to come my way. She doesn't have to be independent, because I'm a real man and will take care of my family. We shall be independent together. I like your work ethic, kind of sounds like me. It's hard to say no to overtime, when I still have a 30yr mortgage and I don't own my car out right. It would be great to be financially independent, but I want to depend on my woman and not her salary.
Yea I know that's right, I don't care if a man makes a lot or a little money, long as he makes an honest living because I don't need police at my door for anything!! I take care of my own because u don't want to depend on a man besides his love and understanding!!
tru

Buffalo Grove, IL

#21 Nov 22, 2012
Independant or not get in the kitchen.

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