get over my ex boyfriend

get over my ex boyfriend

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feelinblu

Indianapolis, IN

#1 Dec 19, 2012
we split up over a year ago. he started seeing someone else while we were together. i have dated guys since then and it doesn't help to distract me. i need to figure out how to get over him. help!
mith

Evansville, IN

#2 Dec 19, 2012
I have the same problem. It's like I am cursed! Doesn't matter what I do he is always on my mind and I don't want him there. Sucks :(
Bootyjuice

United States

#3 Dec 19, 2012
First off ther are no men here. But u gotta get out ther n let loose it heal w tym move away from here dey all lockd up here
ladySoSa

United States

#4 Dec 19, 2012
I thought da same thing it took me bout a yr but I found the one that know Wht he doin treat me rite and poke me rite lmmfao u will girl take yo time!!
MARIE

United States

#5 Dec 19, 2012
feelinblu wrote:
we split up over a year ago. he started seeing someone else while we were together. i have dated guys since then and it doesn't help to distract me. i need to figure out how to get over him. help!
. How long was u two together?? It takes time?? Go have some fun gurl u will get it together
feelinblu

Indianapolis, IN

#6 Dec 19, 2012
we werent together that long. around 6 months or so. but i knew him my entire life. i just keep thinking about him every day. how do you make that go away???????? i know there are good guys and i have met some but just not interested.
wtf

Newburgh, IN

#7 Dec 19, 2012
He isnt think bout u so ur wasting your time.
ms cay

Chicago, IL

#8 Dec 19, 2012
I was with my ex on in off 6 yrs it takes haft that. truly get over them. I'm learning how not to look back but it makes it harder because we share kids together. Just let your self heal loosing someone you truly loved is like losing a arm because that person is there always and it DOSNT fell right when there gone. Also remember the reasons why you two broke up and be damn sure u tell your self. Only 2 is supposed to be in your relationship. no side lines. If u stop looking. at the good things in realize ya y'all had gr8 times but its time to move on God puts ppl in your life as a lessons or to stay long term realize his place. Also do dayes with your self so when the right guy comes your use to someone treating like the queen you are. As women we tend to look confused when a gr8 guy comes because we got use to all the b.s from the "dogs" in life.
keep it moving gril new day, new u , new yr!!! Try to get closure as well that's probably why ur stuck
MARIE

Newburgh, IN

#9 Dec 19, 2012
wtf wrote:
He isnt think bout u so ur wasting your time.
. Lady SoSa I'm goin to have to agree w ya bc he doin him an 6 mo is nothin girl go do u!!
Honey booboo

United States

#10 Dec 19, 2012
U must b a youngin lol 6 mo.. Really?? Let dat boiii go.. Enjoi yo life u wasting yo time
gonond

Masontown, PA

#11 Dec 19, 2012
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Supa freak

Florence, KY

#12 Dec 19, 2012
Get at me I will make u forget
feelinblu

Indianapolis, IN

#13 Dec 20, 2012
Supa freak wrote:
Get at me I will make u forget
trust me, you wont. however good you think you are.
thatsucks

Newburgh, IN

#14 Dec 20, 2012
It happened to me after 2 years. They aren't trying to be harsh but you need to forget him. He's not hurt and not thinking of you. If he does say it be careful because same shit happened when I gave mine another chance. Be careful what you wish for. Move on and dont settle on someone until you think they are wonderful and deserve it.
THE Husband

Tucker, GA

#15 Dec 20, 2012
mith wrote:
I have the same problem. It's like I am cursed! Doesn't matter what I do he is always on my mind and I don't want him there. Sucks :(
How long were you with him?
Big J

Evansville, IN

#16 Dec 20, 2012
Chit gurl..it easy fo realz! furst off you get yo ass in a hot bath tub,light some candles and play some jams..I be listenin to hall and oats..dat chit get me relax fo sho! Den after you get out da tub, put on yo jam jams and watch some cartoons...I like watch sponge bob..dat doo crazy! get yo mind off dat man..he move on..you need move on to fo realz! day be plenty lobster in da tank...reach in an snatch one suckas!
Jody

Akron, OH

#17 Dec 20, 2012
thatsucks wrote:
It happened to me after 2 years. They aren't trying to be harsh but you need to forget him. He's not hurt and not thinking of you. If he does say it be careful because same shit happened when I gave mine another chance. Be careful what you wish for. Move on and dont settle on someone until you think they are wonderful and deserve it.
That's the whole thing, women need to understand that they deserve better and don't have to settle for men incapable of being true and faithful.
If he was seeing someone when he was still seeing you, then that should be a major red flag about his character. If the woman he started seeing while he was still with you thinks that he's faithful and true then she's naive or just plain dumb.
We all know some men will string women along just to get in their pants.
You deserve someone wonderful and you should be cautious and hold out until that person comes along who respects and deserves you.
Good luck!
2centsWorth

United States

#18 Dec 20, 2012
Sometimes sterotypes about guys just wanting to get laid can be wrong. Sure there are a ton of men and women out there that aren't getting what they need out of a relationship, which makes the other stray and results in infidelity. No expert by any means. Granted, if a relationship gets to a point where one cheats, it should be done. No way to get over something like that. If you're looking for some closure, find out where there went wrong and make ur next relationship stronger for it. Beating ur self up abt things or dwelling on what could have been will only prevent u from finding true happiness.

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