confused

New Albany, IN

#1 Apr 19, 2013
So I was with this guy for a couple years, we broke up over him talking to other girls. I could never trust him because of his past! I fell inlove with him though, he took advantage of that and used it against me. It took me awhile to get over him now when I finally do move on he wants to be back in my life after he finds out I'm doing better. I don't want to hurt him & he's saying he still loves me? I just don't really know what to do.. Give me advice someone :-/
Hey

Benton, KY

#2 Apr 19, 2013
How long have y'all been together? And do you feel the same way about him?
ms. k

United States

#3 Apr 19, 2013
He will do the same thing again, at least statistically speaking there's a 98% chance he won't make u top priority and he will continue to talk to other girls, Etc. if u noticed he came back wanting u once he saw u doing good that's normal, most exes will be jealous and tey to get their ex back once they finally move on because they don't want to see another person make them happy.

Since: Apr 13

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#4 Apr 19, 2013
Yep. She's right. Unless you know for certain he has changed then keep moving forward. People can say they love you to anyone, if they don't prove it then you know they have no idea what love really is. And if he's saying it to you this quickly already....he's controlling. My advice would be to keep him in your past permanently.
confused

New Albany, IN

#5 Apr 19, 2013
[QUOTE who="ms. k"]He will do the same thing again, at least statistically speaking there's a 98% chance he won't make u top priority and he will continue to talk to other girls, Etc. if u noticed he came back wanting u once he saw u doing good that's normal, most exes will be jealous and tey to get their ex back once they finally move on because they don't want to see another person make them happy.[/QUOTE]
Thank you, alot! That is so true. I'm young and still learning! He really did break my heart and I couldn't give him another chance for that. I will defiantly listen to your opinion though.
ms. k

United States

#6 Apr 19, 2013
confused wrote:
[QUOTE who="ms. k"]He will do the same thing again, at least statistically speaking there's a 98% chance he won't make u top priority and he will continue to talk to other girls, Etc. if u noticed he came back wanting u once he saw u doing good that's normal, most exes will be jealous and tey to get their ex back once they finally move on because they don't want to see another person make them happy."

Thank you, alot! That is so true. I'm young and still learning! He really did break my heart and I couldn't give him another chance for that. I will defiantly listen to your opinion though.
Hang in there and keep your standards high and emotions guarded, they'll come down when they're supposed to, but mostly, don't be afraid of love, and don't ever let a man make you feel less of a person. Also, we all make mistakes in relationships, we all get our heart broken, we all have questions and wonder what if, but that's ok because when you end up with the right one you will really appreciate eachother. Also, don't let physical emotions cloud the true connections, sometimes we tend to be more inclined to fallfor someone after being intimate. so make sure uou really really like them first and have a commection, lol or married. ;). Drunk sex doesnt count. Good luck, and love will find you.
confused

New Albany, IN

#8 Apr 20, 2013
[QUOTE who="ms. k"]<quoted text>Hang in there and keep your standards high and emotions guarded, they'll come down when they're supposed to, but mostly, don't be afraid of love, and don't ever let a man make you feel less of a person. Also, we all make mistakes in relationships, we all get our heart broken, we all have questions and wonder what if, but that's ok because when you end up with the right one you will really appreciate eachother. Also, don't let physical emotions cloud the true connections, sometimes we tend to be more inclined to fallfor someone after being intimate. so make sure uou really really like them first and have a commection, lol or married. ;). Drunk sex doesnt count. Good luck, and love will find you.[/QUOTE]
Thank you! I will haha :) I'm not confused anymore. You truly do have wise words!
..hmm

Newburgh, IN

#10 Apr 26, 2013
Poor you.
jeff shoemaker

United States

#11 Apr 27, 2013
u poor mfers r stupid

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