Missing us

[StillnLuv]

I walked away from the love of my life & now I'm missing us like crazy. He was my best friend i could & did talk about everything. And because we were "technically single" he did him & through it all I had his back no matter what. But for some reason it just wasn't enough so I left. I love him so much & want us back but I'm afraid if I go back things will just be the same. Love is not supposed to be this hard!

[canrelate]

this is the worst feeling in the world huh my girl left me last month and its got me suicideal

[proud momma]

u need to follow ur heart if u love him u need to sit dwn nd talk to him let him no how u feel nd that u want to b in a commited relationship with him no extras just u nd him good luck sweety

[Goodman]

What are u waiting for, follow your heart and ask him for his!!!! Dont loose the person you care about the most.

[similar]

had a similar situation, my advice would be to make contact with him that isnt consdered harassment let him know that you would like to let go but really need closure for that to happen. In reality whatever kept you apart probably hasnt changed, therefore your realationship will just fall back into the comfort zone of the past. if your not happy with the past comfort then get closure otherwise let him know that you are ok with the past course of the relationship requardless of how long it takes for you and him to submit to one another. Remember to be honest with yourself concerning what it is you want and/or can live with, dont bullshit yourself and in return bullshit him. Me, Im still in love but only want closure, want to move on, It was a passinate love but its over now and somehow we both need to close it out. We need to acknowledge our mistakes but realize it was mistakes made by both that got us here. Cry together, hold one another, then say goodbye and mean it.

[he knows]

StillnLuv wrote:

I walked away from the love of my life & now I'm missing us like crazy. He was my best friend i could & did talk about everything. And because we were "technically single" he did him & through it all I had his back no matter what. But for some reason it just wasn't enough so I left. I love him so much & want us back but I'm afraid if I go back things will just be the same. Love is not supposed to be this hard!

Wut r ur initials

[sissy]

he knows wrote:

<quoted text>Wut r ur initials

No one ever puts initials on here.

[he knows]

sissy wrote:

<quoted text>
No one ever puts initials on here.

Sissy as in A.P.C

[sissy]

he knows wrote:

<quoted text>Sissy as in A.P.C

No sorry. I just commented. I am not missing anyone. I have my soul mate.

[StillnLuv]

How does the saying go? Nothing beats a failure but a try.@Similiar I never wanted closure I wanted us to go back to the way things were as best friends & lovers without all the extras. Thanks everyone for the encouraging advice, but I don't think he wants this as much as I do so ill take my love & my memories & move on. At least ill have the best memory of all; our son.@ he knows sorry I'd rather not give initials but I hope you get in touch with your love & it turns out better than mine. Maybe you should contact her

[Goodman]

StillnLuv wrote:

How does the saying go? Nothing beats a failure but a try.@Similiar I never wanted closure I wanted us to go back to the way things were as best friends & lovers without all the extras. Thanks everyone for the encouraging advice, but I don't think he wants this as much as I do so ill take my love & my memories & move on. At least ill have the best memory of all; our son.@ he knows sorry I'd rather not give initials but I hope you get in touch with your love & it turns out better than mine. Maybe you should contact her

Maybe you should call him, just a phone call away. He probably feels the same way, open yours eyes and don't let those memories fade away!!!!

[she knows]

StillnLuv wrote:

How does the saying go? Nothing beats a failure but a try.@Similiar I never wanted closure I wanted us to go back to the way things were as best friends & lovers without all the extras. Thanks everyone for the encouraging advice, but I don't think he wants this as much as I do so ill take my love & my memories & move on. At least ill have the best memory of all; our son.@ he knows sorry I'd rather not give initials but I hope you get in touch with your love & it turns out better than mine. Maybe you should contact her

No im good,lol...she walked out on me 2many times,just to go get her heartbroke numerous times,only then did she seem 2 care about me,so like I said im good and have moved on!!

[StillnLuv]

I did it!! I'm soooo happy we decided to give it another try. It's as if things never changed between us!:D I couldn't be more happier!!! Thanks guys for encouraging me to follow my heart!

[Confused]

Lies & deceit :( it never fails but not again

[StillnLuv]

Here we are once again going through the same old mess. I'm not against you I'm with you. I love you so much I hate that we're apart. I'm so happy when were together but I hate that you're afraid I'm gonna play you. Trust me when I tell you no one could compare. And I know you feel the same them girls ain't me!!! Not sure why you think I'm lying to you but I'm not. Your my one & only. It's time for you to let your guard down & take a chance & just be happy.

[sillywabbit]

StillnLuv wrote:

Here we are once again going through the same old mess. I'm not against you I'm with you. I love you so much I hate that we're apart. I'm so happy when were together but I hate that you're afraid I'm gonna play you. Trust me when I tell you no one could compare. And I know you feel the same them girls ain't me!!! Not sure why you think I'm lying to you but I'm not. Your my one & only. It's time for you to let your guard down & take a chance & just be happy.

Nice try, but the actual StillnLuv had no location setting :/

[StillnLuv]

sillywabbit wrote:

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Nice try, but the actual StillnLuv had no location setting :/

Thanks for taking up for me! But it's really me I'm on my phone & thought I had that turned off. Truer words couldn't have been spoken for me!:( But oan does it show my exact location or just my city?! The whole point of me coming on here was so I could vent anonymously!!! I really wish I wasn't so afraid to say these things to him face to face!:/

[iknowyou]

you and him do this all the time, and have hurt ppl, that come into your lives, outside of one another, its a shame, and in the order of things youre forgetting one thing, and by now, you both should know better!!!!

[StillnLuv]

iknowyou wrote:

you and him do this all the time, and have hurt ppl, that come into your lives, outside of one another, its a shame, and in the order of things youre forgetting one thing, and by now, you both should know better!!!!

I think you may have me confused with someone else. But overall I get the point you're trying to make. Your point kinda fits my situation, there has been people hurt I GUARANTEE not on purpose at least not on my behalf. As upset as I am & as much as I want us back it's kinda at that point where it's either gonna be or not. I've ran out of patience & understanding because believe it or not I'm the one being hurt the most!

[lolol]

StillnLuv wrote:

<quoted text>I think you may have me confused with someone else. But overall I get the point you're trying to make. Your point kinda fits my situation, there has been people hurt I GUARANTEE not on purpose at least not on my behalf. As upset as I am & as much as I want us back it's kinda at that point where it's either gonna be or not. I've ran out of patience & understanding because believe it or not I'm the one being hurt the most!

You should just move on then and try to find another that makes you smile. It may take sometime but it will happen. Good luck