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abc

United States

#1 May 26, 2012
I'm over 25 have no kids and am dating someone with a child by another woman... And I have never dated someone with a child. I don't understand the relationship there, neither one of them are ever around each other except for exchange of the child....but the mom still blows up his phone with texts and he always replies to her and its about nothing regarding the child so why do they need to talk if they dont wanna be with each other and they don't get along....why do they need to be in each others business blowing each others phones up for no reason...its aggravating and rude to be living with me and sitting in front of me always on his phone talking to this girl....#frustrated!
selfmade

San Jose, CA

#2 May 26, 2012
abc wrote:
I'm over 25 have no kids and am dating someone with a child by another woman... And I have never dated someone with a child. I don't understand the relationship there, neither one of them are ever around each other except for exchange of the child....but the mom still blows up his phone with texts and he always replies to her and its about nothing regarding the child so why do they need to talk if they dont wanna be with each other and they don't get along....why do they need to be in each others business blowing each others phones up for no reason...its aggravating and rude to be living with me and sitting in front of me always on his phone talking to this girl....#frustrated!
9 times out of 10 he still messin wit her. he's not gonna tell you because he dont wanna mess up what ya'll got goin on. get out while you can before you have to find out
babysalwaysfirst

Louisville, KY

#3 May 26, 2012
In some situations it is a stay on good terms to keep things as civil as poss an sometimes u suck it up to do that I can't stand my baby dad but wanna have a good relationship with him do that it does not affect my sons relationship with him
babysalwaysfirst

Louisville, KY

#4 May 26, 2012
And baby dad gets no benefits from me u my baby dad an not my man for a reason that isn't always true
abc

United States

#5 May 26, 2012
selfmade wrote:
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9 times out of 10 he still messin wit her. he's not gonna tell you because he dont wanna mess up what ya'll got goin on. get out while you can before you have to find out
I'm pretty sure they not messing around bc he's always with me, comes home to me....and when it comes to the baby I'm always there in the car for the quick exchange...so I don't think its that,but I feel an emotional connection between them and i guess I'm kind of jealous bc he doesn't tell me what it is he just says they don't get along...I just wish I understood bc all my exes I can't stand and i feel like if I had a child is let them know that if it ain't about the child, don't bother me. U know...
acii

United States

#6 May 26, 2012
Girl get used to it...my husbands baby's mama does the same crap. He doesn't want her but she feels the need to mark she child's territory like a dog. Just smile be the bigger person and don't sweat it and be nice to the kid. After all they have a kid so if he wanted her he would be there!!
abc

United States

#7 May 26, 2012
acii wrote:
Girl get used to it...my husbands baby's mama does the same crap. He doesn't want her but she feels the need to mark she child's territory like a dog. Just smile be the bigger person and don't sweat it and be nice to the kid. After all they have a kid so if he wanted her he would be there!!
thanks acii ur right and he tells me he doesn't want her, she just manipulative and it kind of bothers me when she be texting
acii

United States

#8 May 26, 2012
She will always be in the picture
Someone once told me the greatest gift a stepmother can give is to sacrifice to make everyone comfortable
Including him or her it will make I come out on top!!!
abc

United States

#9 May 26, 2012
acii wrote:
She will always be in the picture
Someone once told me the greatest gift a stepmother can give is to sacrifice to make everyone comfortable
Including him or her it will make I come out on top!!!
4 sure!
hmmm

Akron, OH

#10 May 29, 2012
mote then likely he is still messing with her. i know a guy that is 30 yrs old, lives wuth a chick, but wont call her his gf. while still sleeping with four other women including his daughters mother that he claims to hate. claims to live all of these women while still going home to this chick that he will not claim to be more then a friend. guys like this do not change. sorry hun
trf
#11 Jun 1, 2012
sounds like they might just have a bond or still be friends. with that child, you may have to just deal with it
true

Newburgh, IN

#12 Jun 1, 2012
Some girls just don't get it. If he wanted to be with his baby mama don't you think he would be there. Its his ex who thinks she still got him under her finger. Calling calling calling. Forget that. I'm not about to disrespect my women like that. I WOULD MAKE HER STOP CALLING
Mama B

United States

#13 Jun 1, 2012
Some guys love to think he has more than one girl thinkin bout him...
Grownwomannokids noBS

Evansville, IN

#14 Jan 4, 2013
I love this man but I am so sick of his youngests mother...yes she will always be around but let it be about the child. its like she tries to have a hold on this mans heart so no one else can have him~the calls and the texting and talking get on my nerves~drop of the child, make sure he got what he needs and leave my man alone...on the other hand HE doesnt need to be responding or worried about what she on or what she doing...u with me not her, if u wanna be with her then be with her and let me move on. Yea im ur outlet when u sick of her shit but I dont wanna hear that yall be all buddy buddy...it hurts my feelings BECAUSE I love u, Im not the one that cheated like she did, i didnt get pregnant just bc i wanted a baby like she did, im not the one putting u on child support to get back at u....Ughhhhhhhhhhhh
omg

Tucker, GA

#15 Jan 4, 2013
PLZ SAY IT AGAIN^^^
Bigblackwoman

Louisville, KY

#16 Jan 4, 2013
You would be amazed how ez it is to slip away for 5 min and have sex. Especially with an ex. If they are in each others business, its just a matter of time.. Trust me
exHD

Mount Pleasant, SC

#17 Jan 4, 2013
I have baby momma drama all the time. My fiances sons mother is always up In our business, trying to talk to my fiancé any chance she can get and about anything, she mouths me when ive never done a thing to her, she thinks she's better than everyone bc her parents have some money, I want everything to be peaceful for the child bc I do love him but I just CANNOT Like this drama filled big nosed bitch. I have no idea what to do here. Bc I really wanna punch this bitch in the face but don't want to ruin my relationship with the child, he loves his mother.
do get it

United States

#18 Jan 4, 2013
omg wrote:
PLZ SAY IT AGAIN^^^
do u get what it says
Vicki

Tucker, GA

#19 Jan 4, 2013
If u hav to ask he prolly cheating all u can do is wait until it comes out because all because he looks guilty does not make him guilty. I would leave him personally
omg

Tucker, GA

#20 Jan 4, 2013
@dogetit Yes I get it I ws agreeing. I kno a similar situation smh.

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