I really need an opinion. I dated my high school sweety for 4 years, we split up and ever since he has been in and out of my life, always wanting to get back with me. We have been dating other people since we broke up.. But he still wants to get me back and honestly it's been almost 3 years since I left him and although I am dating someone I can not stop thinking about him I miss him so much! Why do I still have these feelings for someone who I see occasionally? Should I feel like this after I have been in a relationship with someone for this long? I feel like I want him back too but then I doubt myself bc I'm worried that we will get back together and it will not work out like what we are hoping for. What worries me the most is that he will cheat on me ( which in the past he has not ) because things have changed lots since then and we were younger then And I am now 23. And also that i will loose what ive put into my current relationship thered be no going back, i am desperate for advice obviously or I wouldn't be on here but it's better to sometimes get an opinion from strangers. Should I take the chance and risk my current relationship if it doesn't work or just leave him alone? I need answers!! Someone i don't knw what to do!!