Is my man BISEXUAL or GAY? Help!

Is my man BISEXUAL or GAY? Help!

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Anonymous

Evansville, IN

#1 Dec 17, 2012
I need your help! I've been in a relationship with a man for two years and of late I'm beginning to question his sexuality. He jokingly told me once that since I left my dress over his house that he's going to wear it! One day while applying my makeup, he gets in the mirror and starts applying foundation and using black eyeliner to cover the gray in his eyebrows and moustache. I asked him why did he do that and he said that during his marriage (some years ago) people used to remark about how nice his then wife looked in foundation so he used her's since they were the same complexion. He's always looking at attractively dressed women and he always looking around in the women's clothes department. He's had liposuction on his abdomen and wears the finest of clothes. About a month ago he told me the following, " I'm going to come to your job in drag and behind my dick, I'm going to have a [email protected]@sy"! I was flabbergasted beyond words. He sits down on the toilet while urinating. About a month ago, I came in his bathroom to shower and I caught him using my feminine wash products. After I explained to him that those products are designed to work with a woman's ph balance levels he said that he was using them to prevent infections. Also, he uses Avon and Bath & Body Works bubble baths and bath gels. The only thing that puzzles me is the fact that he has absolutely no male friends - his only friends are females. It's for that reason that I'm confused as to whether he's gay or bi-sexual or not. Just yesterday, he told me that his menstruation was on! When I told him that he wants to be a girl, initially he laughed then he recovered and said that he wants what a woman has inside of her clothes (sex). Ok what do you think. All responses are welcome but understandably I prefer male "straight" and homosexual responses.
IHave1Thing2Say

Evansville, IN

#2 Dec 17, 2012
Kana

Evansville, IN

#3 Dec 17, 2012
What you describe doesn't necessarily mean he is gay or bi. He could be a TRANSVESTITE (likes dressing as a woman/roleplay as a woman) or at a stretch even TRANSGENDER (self-identification as a woman). He could have sexual fetish peculiar to him. Realistically no one on Topix can give you a definitive answer, if I were you I would sit down and discuss your feeling with him.
Im Gay

Newburgh, IN

#4 Dec 18, 2012
tell him you think he's a homosexual. If he is he'll laugh at you. But look at him after he laughs with the most serious look on your face and tell him how dead serious you are and that you think he is homosexual and wants to be a woman and that you need to talk about it. Make sure he knows how serious you are when you say this and don't take no for an answer to talk about it.
not healthy

Tucker, GA

#5 Dec 18, 2012
He's gay seriously always trust ur instincts I read about signs ur man is on the down low and he is text book he is showing every sign sorry boo I hope ur heart stays strong

Since: Jun 12

Location hidden

#6 May 5, 2013
NO!!!!!!!!!! This does not mean he is gay. If he was saying he was attrected to men I would say he was gay/bi. but that is not the case. TRUST ME WHEN I SAY NOT ALL GAY PEOPLE WANT TO BE A FEMALE./.. What is disturbing is the fact you want your bf to be trshy and dirty it sounds. All of what you said are nothing to worry about nor scream gay/bi.
jds way

United States

#7 May 5, 2013
Have you ever done jury duty in Memphis?
rainbows

United States

#8 May 5, 2013
He's gay!! A real man wouldn't do any of the things he is
gay

Columbus, IN

#9 May 6, 2013
If you're unhappy with what he does, that's your answer. Regardless of if he's gay or straight... Clearly if he is gay, he's not accepting it and will continue to be "straight".
Joe

Evansville, IN

#11 May 6, 2013
Anonymous wrote:
I need your help! I've been in a relationship with a man for two years and of late I'm beginning to question his sexuality. He jokingly told me once that since I left my dress over his house that he's going to wear it! One day while applying my makeup, he gets in the mirror and starts applying foundation and using black eyeliner to cover the gray in his eyebrows and moustache. I asked him why did he do that and he said that during his marriage (some years ago) people used to remark about how nice his then wife looked in foundation so he used her's since they were the same complexion. He's always looking at attractively dressed women and he always looking around in the women's clothes department. He's had liposuction on his abdomen and wears the finest of clothes. About a month ago he told me the following, " I'm going to come to your job in drag and behind my dick, I'm going to have a [email protected]@sy"! I was flabbergasted beyond words. He sits down on the toilet while urinating. About a month ago, I came in his bathroom to shower and I caught him using my feminine wash products. After I explained to him that those products are designed to work with a woman's ph balance levels he said that he was using them to prevent infections. Also, he uses Avon and Bath & Body Works bubble baths and bath gels. The only thing that puzzles me is the fact that he has absolutely no male friends - his only friends are females. It's for that reason that I'm confused as to whether he's gay or bi-sexual or not. Just yesterday, he told me that his menstruation was on! When I told him that he wants to be a girl, initially he laughed then he recovered and said that he wants what a woman has inside of her clothes (sex). Ok what do you think. All responses are welcome but understandably I prefer male "straight" and homosexual responses.
One way to find out. Cook some hot dogs for dinner. Put the dogs next to the buns. See if he just eats the dog or put the dog into the bun first. If he takes the dog and sticks it up his butt I think you have your answer.
yoloooo

Franklin, IN

#12 May 6, 2013
Tranny.
Cece

United States

#13 Jul 21, 2013
I need help. If me an my man are having sex , im on top an he is tell me( give me that penis. An i already know his bisexual. Does this mean he likes it in the butt??? Because that's how he made me feel
Lol

Chicago, IL

#14 Jul 21, 2013
I'm straight and none of that would ever cross my mind... Just sayin. Leave a dildo or vibrator over there and smear a small amount of lipstick or eye liner on it and see if its still there in a few days. If the mark is gone then its because he has used it
ya

Florence, KY

#15 Jul 21, 2013
Lol wrote:
I'm straight and none of that would ever cross my mind... Just sayin. Leave a dildo or vibrator over there and smear a small amount of lipstick or eye liner on it and see if its still there in a few days. If the mark is gone then its because he has used it
That's clever. How did you think of that?

Since: Jul 13

Birdseye, IN

#16 Jul 21, 2013
Not necessarily gay, but definitely a weirdo...just sayin'.

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