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wifey

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Jul 8, 2013
 
Looking for a girl named crystal that I believe lives here. I've been trying to get some closure on an affair that my husband had with her during a brief split which was in mid May (the 22nd to my knowledge). There is no animosity towards her, I just want to know her last name since he swears he didn't know it and be able to look her up and speak with her. This isn't an attempt to start a bashing thread. This is an honest attempt at settling what hasnt been settled within myself. I posted a while back and people took her name and started nasty threads in an effort to dig crap up the wrong way. I would greatly appreciate any mature and serious responses. Thanks in advance!
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Jul 9, 2013
 

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Closure should be with your husband....
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Jul 9, 2013
 

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Closure comes when everything has been put out in the open and there is nothing left to wonder about.. There is only so much one will tell their partner after this has happened.
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Jul 9, 2013
 
You are a good one, closure would have been putting husband out my doors. I feel like you will only upset yourself further coming in contact with the other woman. If I were you, spring toward the future an hope this will not happen again... Dwelling on this will only open old wounds over an over..
wifey

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Jul 9, 2013
 
Hellno wrote:
You are a good one, closure would have been putting husband out my doors. I feel like you will only upset yourself further coming in contact with the other woman. If I were you, spring toward the future an hope this will not happen again... Dwelling on this will only open old wounds over an over..
Very good advice! But you know us women... we want to know what she looks like, age, height, bday, whole life story LOL not literally but you know what I mean :) I just have my days when I can't stop thinking about it and other days where it doesnt bother me as much.I think iit'll hurt worse, too.. but at least all the hurt will be faced at once instead of dwindling intermittently :/
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Jul 9, 2013
 
Often times , "the other woman" is totally unaware of the wife/girlfriend. Men/women tend to leave this info out when their up to no good. I strongly believe once a cheater, always a cheater. I know you feel betrayed, disrespected, etc. Honestly, you will always be haunted by this, meeting the other woman will not change. Why is this woman so important that you want to see her an talk about affair , now thats torture? I would shrug it off , hold your head up, an shoot for the sky. This is a learning experience, a learned lesson to how some relationships turn out..
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Jul 9, 2013
 
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Very good advice! But you know us women... we want to know what she looks like, age, height, bday, whole life story LOL not literally but you know what I mean :) I just have my days when I can't stop thinking about it and other days where it doesnt bother me as much.I think iit'll hurt worse, too.. but at least all the hurt will be faced at once instead of dwindling intermittently :/
Ur name should be sucker instead of wifey!!! Theres probably 4 or 5 "Crystals" out there and im sure u think its their fault...LMAO
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Jul 9, 2013
 
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Ur name should be sucker instead of wifey!!! Theres probably 4 or 5 "Crystals" out there and im sure u think its their fault...LMAO
Seriously.. shut the hell up. Can you not read? People like you irk theshit out of me. I'm a nice person until ignorance such as yours rears its ugly face. If you can be of no help and feel the need to voiceyour immature thoughts of an underdeveloped mind, then find another post that doesn't cocern you and feel free to express your bullshit on it. Thank you.
wifey

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Jul 9, 2013
 
**excuse my typos**
Foolish

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Jul 9, 2013
 
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Seriously.. shut the hell up. Can you not read? People like you irk theshit out of me. I'm a nice person until ignorance such as yours rears its ugly face. If you can be of no help and feel the need to voiceyour immature thoughts of an underdeveloped mind, then find another post that doesn't cocern you and feel free to express your bullshit on it. Thank you.
Who ppl who call it like they see it...? Not read what, how ur "hubby" plays u like an old board game...If u read ur post carefully u will see that u r the one who seems to be ignorant, immature, and underdeveloped mentally...No self respecting person would put up with being played let alone post it on topix looking for help...I bet every time u give him some face u wonder if its the other girls po tang u tastin...LMAO...Now run along and be an obedient "wifey" while "hubby" is out gettin some strange...Ur pathetic point, blank, period..Have a nice day...
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Jul 9, 2013
 
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Who ppl who call it like they see it...? Not read what, how ur "hubby" plays u like an old board game...If u read ur post carefully u will see that u r the one who seems to be ignorant, immature, and underdeveloped mentally...No self respecting person would put up with being played let alone post it on topix looking for help...I bet every time u give him some face u wonder if its the other girls po tang u tastin...LMAO...Now run along and be an obedient "wifey" while "hubby" is out gettin some strange...Ur pathetic point, blank, period..Have a nice day...
What's the matter, sweetheart? Was it you whom he had to bend over because your body wasn't attractive enough to look at when you tried riding him? Were you the one who he snuck away from at 5 in the morning while praying that he didn't wake you up? You portray way too much aggression towards me regarding this post for you not to be connected to the situation somehow. Yeah, im pissed. At the whole situation. Her and her friends knew he was married so I have a right to be pissed at her if I want. But im not. I dont think this is her fault, but knowing that someone is married is a definite turn off for me. And im ignorant for standing behind my vows and not just throwing 8 years away? Ok. You do not know the situation, so you have no justifiable reason for throwing your judgmental comments and assumptions around at me.
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Jul 10, 2013
 

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Does it matter if they knew he was married? He is the one who should be held accountable after all he us the one who married you. If you know were she live and her friends ect. You should be able to find her. Did he tell you he had to bend her over? What man would say yes honey I cheated and she was a bad bitch, sexy as hell..loved every minute of it? Get a clue sweet heart. The affair was your closure, you need the name to check for AIDs and things like that
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Jul 10, 2013
 
I don't KNOW if she lives here or who her friends are. I know what I was told by people including my husband. I know her name is crystal.. I know that they were at Ri Ra's when they met. I know they went to an apartment off of covert and pollack. I know a room mates name was john and him and his wife/gf lived there.. And I know that this all took place around the 22nd of may. If I knew how to find her or what her last name is, I wouldn't be on here
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Jul 11, 2013
 
wifey wrote:
I don't KNOW if she lives here or who her friends are. I know what I was told by people including my husband. I know her name is crystal.. I know that they were at Ri Ra's when they met. I know they went to an apartment off of covert and pollack. I know a room mates name was john and him and his wife/gf lived there.. And I know that this all took place around the 22nd of may. If I knew how to find her or what her last name is, I wouldn't be on here
Got over it already!!! Its not like ur gonna leave him...All ur gonna do is harass this girl who prob didnt have a clue about u...
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Jul 29, 2013
 
Seems like all of the hoes live in Vann Park...My boyfriend cheated on me last year and her no good ass stayed out there...Some women get off on fucking another womans man/husband instead of finding someone to be with that isn't in a relationship...I hope you find peace with yourself because im still trying to fully get over what happened to me...Both people who are involved in an affair are supposed to be held accountable...For people to say a women didn't know a man is married or has a girlfriend I ridiculous...If he only comes to see you after dark then he's got a woman at home; point, blank, period..I wish there were more women out here that respected themselves because then there wouldn't be to many hoes for men to choose from..
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Jul 29, 2013
 
wifey wrote:
Looking for a girl named crystal that I believe lives here. I've been trying to get some closure on an affair that my husband had with her during a brief split which was in mid May (the 22nd to my knowledge). There is no animosity towards her, I just want to know her last name since he swears he didn't know it and be able to look her up and speak with her. This isn't an attempt to start a bashing thread. This is an honest attempt at settling what hasnt been settled within myself. I posted a while back and people took her name and started nasty threads in an effort to dig crap up the wrong way. I would greatly appreciate any mature and serious responses. Thanks in advance!
Does it really matter what her last name is?
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Jul 29, 2013
 
I would say yes that it matters. The whole point is to contact her. Not harass. Some people are more mature than that. Just because a woman wants to make contact with a mistress, does not mean they want to harass her.
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Jul 29, 2013
 
The best closure would be to leave him and find someone that respects you. Perhaps you need to respect yourself more, since you don't seem to mind living with someone that you know will betray you.
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Jul 29, 2013
 
I forgot to mention:

If you are half as intelligent as you sound, and decently healthy and attractive, you already have a leg up on most of the women in town. You should find you a REAL man.
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Jul 29, 2013
 
wifey wrote:
I would say yes that it matters. The whole point is to contact her. Not harass. Some people are more mature than that. Just because a woman wants to make contact with a mistress, does not mean they want to harass her.
Although you may not think so, I would say any contact you have with her would be a form of harassment.

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