gf problems

[xxxJAYxxx]

what does it mean when ur gf who just moved in with you a month ago, who just recently moved back to town from out of state, doesnt get that intament with you and says ur so needy. When all you want is a close physical relationship? when things like cuddling at night are a problem

[Get on with it]

She's just not that into you...nothing new and you aren't the first and won't be the last! Let go and move on, quickly!

[Renee750il]

Sounds like someone might have just wanted a place to stay and someone to help keep her up. You need to have a long talk and listen to your instincts.

Figure it out, one way or the other, so you don't waste your life.

[xxxJAYxxx]

i cant though we been together over a year now but since she came back from out of state for a few months she just seems different, like she really isnt that into me anymore

[Well]

It's harsh, but if she's pushing you away and isn't in to you anymore....she got the penis somewhere else.

[xxxJAYxxx]

ok i hear the bad shit but what about a solution any suggestions?

[mechanically inclined]

I got 99 problems but a b!tch ain't one...

[Well]

If you don't mind the fact she's fell out of love with you or cheated on you (possibly) then you could seek relationship counseling. A good first step is bring up and try to recreate the special 'firsts' in your relationship and that usually puts most girls back in the mood. Talk about the first kiss like it was a good thing. Also, another two things. One you sound young or you wouldn't be asking for relationship advice so perhaps you're too young to have these problems and should move on and two if she's not interested in you if you need to keep her around and look for someone else and when something starts forming there dissolve the old relationship and it won't be as bad knowing there are much better times to come. You've only invested a year. That's really not all that long.

[RawR]

IMO you should get out of it now, or prepare yourself for a lot of let down. Talking to her at this point she may just say your needy again.

[Question]

If you can't "cuddle" any better than you spell, no wonder she's out with someone who has a bigger box of crayons...