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Greer

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#41
Feb 28, 2013
 
The point is to show that Nesh is in severe pain and she needs help and round the clock care is obviously what she needs. It was very hard to watch but can you even imagine how hard it is for a mother to watch her daughter suffer like that. She's pissed!!!!! Your kids crying because their broken hearted is nothing compared to what's going on with Nesha and family. Please think before you judge.
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Elk City, OK

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#42
Feb 28, 2013
 
huh wrote:
It really surprises me that faith hospice didn't just send someone out there to stay 24/7. Seriously, there are too many hospice companies out there for them to get this type of publicity. This could ruin them. There is no law that says that they can't have someone set with her, it just effects their bottom line. You would think they would give this family a break. Their child is dying. There are other children in the home who are watching this and it has to scare them too. This is a very sad situation, my heart breaks for them.
It all depends on what soonercare will cover
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#43
Feb 28, 2013
 
Nita wrote:
<quoted text>Neesha looked bad on the news cast. I bet there is a real fine line when it comes to over medicating her. She is so tiny and frail strong pain medicines could kill her. She should be in a hospital where the doctors can take care of her and if something happens a doctor is there to take care of her. I agree with you the family might be looking for someone to sue.
Her mom had stated that she was on as much oxygen that she could have and her blood pressure was extremely low. Any more pain medicine would make her stop breathing
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#44
Feb 28, 2013
 
dawn wrote:
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I agree I think the mother loves the Hype! We want a Prom! We want a Million roses! As a mom she should be with her daughter every moment possible and not worry about "let's get on news channel4" she needs to cherish the moments that she has left-just my opinion!
you don't know anything, you are not there to see what is going on. Nesha wants these thing Because unlike you she is not gonna be here much longer. How would you feel If your daughter had cancer and could dye Anytime. She wont get to see her have kids, or graduate, or get married! Think about that.
Suck a nut

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#45
Feb 28, 2013
 
Haters are going to hate. And all you haters can suck a nut
No Name

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#46
Feb 28, 2013
 
Greer wrote:
The point is to show that Nesh is in severe pain and she needs help and round the clock care is obviously what she needs. It was very hard to watch but can you even imagine how hard it is for a mother to watch her daughter suffer like that. She's pissed!!!!! Your kids crying because their broken hearted is nothing compared to what's going on with Nesha and family. Please think before you judge.
I do not believe that hospice decides the amount of pain meds that she is to be given. If I am correct, her doctor makes that decision. As far as the around the clock care, does it fit the guidelines set by the government ? I seriously doubt that any company would deny any care to her. I think that maybe your anger should be directed at the people who make the rules, not the ones providing the care. Please explain to me how trashing, on the internet or TV, the same people who are providing the care to her is making this any easier on her !!
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#47
Feb 28, 2013
 
Since when did proper care become about abusing pain medicine. The company can lose their license over things like that!!! There really is only so much that can be done. They have turned away volunteers time and time again. They obviously don't need the extra help that bad! She's not any better than any other person out here dying. It looks bad that the mother is publicly asking people to email news places to bash a hospice company. It also isn't too smart to post about giving children alcohol!!! Yes the kid is dying and deserves it, but don't you think CPS will think if she'll give it to one she'll give it to another. This woman is obviously in denial, and needs some therapy before she really does something damaging.
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#48
Feb 28, 2013
 
I can only imagine the grief this family is going through. I have had good dealings with faith hospice. I had a parent go through this horrible disease, she had to be in continous care unit at a nursing home. I do know that feeling of helplessness. I can only pray for all involved.
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#49
Feb 28, 2013
 
I can promise if I worked for that place, I would ask not to be involved any longer with that case. Those people work hard for their licenses, and I'll be damned if an attention seeking women would put it at risk. Thankfully I'm just watching the wreck from the side of the road.
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#50
Feb 28, 2013
 
Big Nasty wrote:
From the outside looking in you have all the answers don't you dawn and blank. Just so you know, Perisha does spend every breathing moment with her. All the other stuff, roses, prom so on was at Nesha's request. You wouldn't know that from where you sit though.
I would also be willing to bet that if that was your child you to would wade threw Hell to see to it they are getting the very best care possible.
This is all true but on the same note hospice is only called in to make them comfortable. My mom was on hospice also terminally ill with cancer and her body ached even with strong doses of morphine because of the havoc the chemo and radiation put her body through. Legally they could only give her so much medicine because the risk that opiates cause labored breathing. Hospice is there to make you as comfortable as possible without assisting you in suicide by pain meds. They are not there 24 hours a day 7 days a week. They come in once a day handle business because its their job. Can you imagine how hard it is for hospice to not get attached to their patients?! They are trained to provide a service for those dying. If they got emotionally attached to all their patients their lives would suck with nothing but sadness and depression. It's hard to do but sometime the best thing one can do is sit back and pray that God just takes them because that is the only way to get rid of all the pain. Hardest thing I ever did but it was the least selfish thing we did. No one wants to lose someone but unfortunately it is part of life and what makes the world go around.
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#51
Feb 28, 2013
 

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Really?? You people are so pathetic!!! Perisha is living any mothers worse nightmare! I couldn't even imagine what she is going through right now! Her whole family for that matter!
How can you people be so childish and hateful! What all you trash talkers should be doing is minding your own damn business!
NESHA deserves nothing but the best! This little girl has touched so many lives! And perisha is a super hero in my eyes!
Grow up people, get a life!

PRAYING FOR NESHA & HER FAMILY!!!
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#52
Feb 28, 2013
 
huh wrote:
It really surprises me that faith hospice didn't just send someone out there to stay 24/7. Seriously, there are too many hospice companies out there for them to get this type of publicity. This could ruin them. There is no law that says that they can't have someone set with her, it just effects their bottom line. You would think they would give this family a break. Their child is dying. There are other children in the home who are watching this and it has to scare them too. This is a very sad situation, my heart breaks for them.
Happens to lots of people. Yes sad but unrealistic just because she is a child. Thousands of children die to cancer everyday
Greer

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#53
Feb 28, 2013
 
Hey genius obviously she's not receiving quality care from them so I'm guessing it's not gonna make anything worse. It's awareness for future families to be aware of how poor this hospice is so their family members won't have to suffer as Nesha has.
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#54
Feb 28, 2013
 
whatever wrote:
<quoted text>Her mom had stated that she was on as much oxygen that she could have and her blood pressure was extremely low. Any more pain medicine would make her stop breathing
Finally someone that's not an idiot!!!
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#55
Feb 28, 2013
 
Jamie wrote:
Really?? You people are so pathetic!!! Perisha is living any mothers worse nightmare! I couldn't even imagine what she is going through right now! Her whole family for that matter!
How can you people be so childish and hateful! What all you trash talkers should be doing is minding your own damn business!
NESHA deserves nothing but the best! This little girl has touched so many lives! And perisha is a super hero in my eyes!
Grow up people, get a life!

PRAYING FOR NESHA & HER FAMILY!!!
She is trash talking and making their lives other people's business. When you put yourself and minor child out there like she's done, it's unavoidable. She should be even more conscious of what she says and does for this very reason.
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#56
Feb 28, 2013
 
Jamie wrote:
Really?? You people are so pathetic!!! Perisha is living any mothers worse nightmare! I couldn't even imagine what she is going through right now! Her whole family for that matter!
How can you people be so childish and hateful! What all you trash talkers should be doing is minding your own damn business!
NESHA deserves nothing but the best! This little girl has touched so many lives! And perisha is a super hero in my eyes!
Grow up people, get a life!

PRAYING FOR NESHA & HER FAMILY!!!
All dying people deserve nothing but the best. It's unrealistic. In elk city alone they are probably overwhelmed with patients.
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#57
Feb 28, 2013
 
Greer wrote:
You people are evil!!!! I will ask again since obviously you have all the answers...... What if it was your daughter and she wasn't getting properly cared for?????? What would you do???? Would you not be furious??????
If you are not happy find something that will make you happy! Hospice can't make everything perfect they are there to get you through a difficult time. I use to work for Faith and I assure you they doing everything they possibly can.
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#58
Feb 28, 2013
 
concerened mother wrote:
All I know is I'm trying to get my kids to quit crying, because they personally go to school with Nesha, this is bs, for a news channel and her parents to put pictures of her like that on there. Where is maturity when it comes to a child's well being, the parents are supposed to be role models not use their child for attention from the media, sick at my stomach after watching this, and feel for this little girl.
Amen! My daughter wanted to watch as well and she became so upset it took hours to calm her. I wouldn't have key her watch had I known it would show what it did. Prayers
Elk citian

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#59
Feb 28, 2013
 
It's easy...take her to the hospital if you want continuous care!!!!!!!!!!
Understand Nesha didn't want that, but as the family says, she is incoherent and hallucinating.
No Name

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#60
Feb 28, 2013
 
Greer wrote:
Hey genius obviously she's not receiving quality care from them so I'm guessing it's not gonna make anything worse. It's awareness for future families to be aware of how poor this hospice is so their family members won't have to suffer as Nesha has.
Again, define quality care !! Are you professionally trained to make this determination ?? I understand the passion but if I was that displeased with their service, I'd fire them and get someone new !! Did you ever think that they might be doing all they can both medically and legally ?? And thanks for recognizing my genius.

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