Hurt

United States

#1 Nov 8, 2012
Have any if you ever been mistrusted in a relationship when you never cheated or even thought about it? I loved this awesome woman very much but never could get her to trust me no matter what. She said I didn't show her how much I loved her but how could I when the mistrust was always there. If your mistrusted for long enough you finally just don't care if they trust you or not. I have been dealing with a lot of issues in life and she just couldn't let up long enough to make it work. You know who you are and I love you very much but in the future you need to trust people more. Hopefully the next relationship works out better for you.

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#3 Nov 8, 2012
Maybe she had been done wrong in the past by other guys and that's caused her to not trust any guy at all? I felt that way in my last relationship and I drove him away. I know he never cheated on me and that he loved me but he was never home and we hardly ever spent true quality time together other than when we were laying next to each other at night. I still love him and miss him very much and wish things could've been different for us.
Right

Elizabethtown, KY

#4 Nov 9, 2012
He probably left because you are ugly as f_ck
how sweet

Elizabethtown, KY

#5 Nov 9, 2012
Hurt wrote:
Have any if you ever been mistrusted in a relationship when you never cheated or even thought about it? I loved this awesome woman very much but never could get her to trust me no matter what. She said I didn't show her how much I loved her but how could I when the mistrust was always there. If your mistrusted for long enough you finally just don't care if they trust you or not. I have been dealing with a lot of issues in life and she just couldn't let up long enough to make it work. You know who you are and I love you very much but in the future you need to trust people more. Hopefully the next relationship works out better for you.
At least you left her instead of stringing her along. You did do that didnt you? Theres another guy out there for her so dont u worry your precious little heart. She will be okay and so will you.
kuntrybabe

Elizabethtown, KY

#6 Nov 9, 2012
Hurt wrote:
Have any if you ever been mistrusted in a relationship when you never cheated or even thought about it? I loved this awesome woman very much but never could get her to trust me no matter what. She said I didn't show her how much I loved her but how could I when the mistrust was always there. If your mistrusted for long enough you finally just don't care if they trust you or not. I have been dealing with a lot of issues in life and she just couldn't let up long enough to make it work. You know who you are and I love you very much but in the future you need to trust people more. Hopefully the next relationship works out better for you.
Yep sounds like she had some bad expeiences with men in the past. She didnt trust you either, I was sorta that way when I was divorced from my first husband. He cheated and I found that it took years to trust again, sometimes with my boyfriend i find myself not wanting to trust him on some things but I always fight it and am fine. Alot of people dont' have the will power to trust again, but until she does she won't find true happiness, you can[t have a meaningful relationship without trust! plus it makes you a miserable person, therefore your boyfriend or spouse is going to miserable also. you did the right thing, until she can trust again, she isn't dating or relationship material. I have found that there are also alot of mistreated men out there like that also, they have been mistreated and think that all women are the same and do the same stuff, when thats not true at all. There are good trusting men out there and same goes with the women, you just sorta have to weed them out. Good luck!
Hurt 2

Elizabethtown, KY

#7 Nov 13, 2012
Hurt I feel ya bro been there done that but she has a reason to not trust you. Or she would.

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