Pants Down Spanking??!!
spanker

Scottsville, KY

#232 Jan 3, 2012
Wyothinker wrote:
I am 54 and I was spanked growing up, right through my teen years - even in high school -- by Dad. Always on the bare with his hand, paddle or belt. Sister was too. In younger days we were spanked at school and our playmates parents had implicit permission to do the same. And if one of them felt the need to spank us; well when you got home you got it again.(The worse was actually when Dad wasn't home -- then you got it thrice -- teacher or neighbor; Mom when you walked in the door; and, then Dad.)
Raising my daughter, she was spanked until about 16, always on the bare. Me and my sister are lawyer and my daughter is now studying for a Phd. Those spankings clearly did irreversible harm.
The focus is on how. My daughter only got spanked for three types of offenses -- bold-face, material lies; theft; and, gross disrespect. It was always after at least one if not three opportunities to correct her behavior -- fully knowledgeable of the consequences.
A spanking was always in private; after a discussion of the behavior; and, followed by a hug and reinforcement of the reasons why you were spanked. The spanking resulted in alot of tears, but only a very red bottom, which would return to normal in a few hours.(No bruising, and the bare bottom helps in judging that and adds to the humiliation -- yes, punishment is supposed have a component of humiliation. Most simply put, a spanking is a disciplinary process -- not a beating.
Having had alot of contact with children in the Courts system; if parents did spank; if school spanked; if neighbors could discipline -- if the entire village raised children -- ther would be better kids and then adults.
Totally agreed, i also was spanked and my son also, he grew up to be a respectable adult and loves everyone!! He treats everyone ! with respect. Never had a problem, thats where the world has gone to hell today, the kids fear nothing because there is no dislipline at home!! its not the courts fault its not the schools problem, the fixing comes at home, be a parent not a pushover!!
Passerby

Vine Grove, KY

#233 Jan 3, 2012
16 and Spanked wrote:
Whats the big deal? I am still spanked and dont see any problems with it. Heck I need it sometimes. Plus i would much rather be spanked than grounded. Sure it sucks having to bend over the bed with my pants and underwear down at my ankles getting the hairbrush from my stepmom, but it straightens me out.
Wow. Bare Bottom from your Stepmom?! I would be mortified if I had to drop my pants for my Stepmom.
16 and Spanked

Vine Grove, KY

#234 Jan 3, 2012
Passerby wrote:
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Wow. Bare Bottom from your Stepmom?! I would be mortified if I had to drop my pants for my Stepmom.
Why??!! My stepmom has spanked me for years. I dont see the problem. Its not like shes never seen me naked before.
Tim

United States

#235 Mar 24, 2012
Sara Beth wrote:
I was over a friends house recently and her son was misbehaving. After repeated warnings, she finally told him he was getting a spanking. She told him to go to his room and that he'd better have his pants pulled down when she got it there. Do most parents do that?!
That's exactly how my mother spanked me except i was told to be laying face down on my bed with a pillow underneath my waste. She'd usually make me wait almost half an hour before she came in!
sissy

Greensburg, KY

#236 Mar 24, 2012
Tim wrote:
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That's exactly how my mother spanked me except i was told to be laying face down on my bed with a pillow underneath my waste. She'd usually make me wait almost half an hour before she came in!
sorta like it when my step dad spanks me.i wouldn't tell him thow im 14 he dosen't spank me real hard but it kinda tingles through my body.just saying
Tim

United States

#237 Mar 24, 2012
sissy wrote:
<quoted text> sorta like it when my step dad spanks me.i wouldn't tell him thow im 14 he dosen't spank me real hard but it kinda tingles through my body.just saying
I didn't enjoy mine! My mother whipped my ass with a belt and it did a lot more than just tingle. My butt was on fire!
Crystal Renee

Elizabethtown, KY

#238 Mar 25, 2012
What is wrong with parents? Now and then. Their is a fine line between disiplining and abusing. Personally, I do not believe in spanking, but I think maybe it will work for some people. I think it is very abusive to to it bare bottomed, don't we teach young childen that they have parts that are not to be touched? It is humiliating and unnecessary, I help raise my twin brother and sister who are about to hit their terrible twos, and me nor my mom would ever even consider a form of punishment like that.
a good parent

United States

#239 Mar 25, 2012
it depends on the child. i have 2 kids and with 1 i would give spankings and he would say "do it again, it didn't hurt" and stuff like that. it would make me so mad. it was a struggle. with the other 1, she gets upset if i raise my voice. so easy to discipline. i parent both of them the same but the discipline is completely different...just like everything else about them. 2 different kids with 2 different personalities. there I'd nothing wrong with spankings, but not beating. beaters deserve to go to jail 7
tuckfard

Elizabethtown, KY

#240 Mar 27, 2012
I love eating out grandmother.
Parent

Vine Grove, KY

#241 Mar 29, 2012
Ever tried to spank a child with jeans on? Your hand will hurt worse than their bottom. Pants down is the way I spank my daughter. Her bottom only gets pink and i get the point across with f
ewer swats.
is it right

Cecilia, KY

#242 Mar 30, 2012
Parent wrote:
Ever tried to spank a child with jeans on? Your hand will hurt worse than their bottom. Pants down is the way I spank my daughter. Her bottom only gets pink and i get the point across with f
ewer swats.
my step dad spanks me with my jeans down and im 14 ?is that right?
Mary Jane

Vine Grove, KY

#243 Mar 31, 2012
Pants Down is the way it is at my house. Always on the bare bottom. No exceptions!! Very rare occurrence at my house.
well

Sonora, KY

#244 Mar 31, 2012
Mary Jane wrote:
Pants Down is the way it is at my house. Always on the bare bottom. No exceptions!! Very rare occurrence at my house.
My wife spanked me today with a big feather.
something wrong

Elizabethtown, KY

#245 Apr 1, 2012
well wrote:
<quoted text>My wife spanked me today with a big feather.
stepdad spanks my sister in front and back with hair brush makes me upsit she is 12 and i an 14.
nobody

Vine Grove, KY

#246 Apr 2, 2012
Sara Beth wrote:
I was over a friends house recently and her son was misbehaving. After repeated warnings, she finally told him he was getting a spanking. She told him to go to his room and that he'd better have his pants pulled down when she got it there. Do most parents do that?!
I think you need to learn how to my your own business! Everyone has a right to discipline their children the way see fit.
Steve

Mckees Rocks, PA

#248 Jun 14, 2012
As someone whose been thru the wringer on this subject I can attest that parenting either for or against has it inevitable failing.
A child with the cerebral capacity to reason is RARE! We all basically understand cause and effect but we incorporate it to different degrees as we mature and gain experience. As evidence we have Prisons and correction Facilities overflowing with those in society who have a lack or disregard for the consequences of their actions simply put some of us never advance to actually apply it to ourselves. Spanking is a extreme disciplinary tool. in my opinion a last resort. I have 2 daughters both have be spanked,grounded loss of privledges ect. I don't believe there is a one size fits all disciplinary regime. every child and situation is different and responds differently to who is disciplining them as well as how they are being disciplined. I am baffled by some remarks I've encountered on this thread. Ignorance of human nature and self styled "champions of the cause" both sides of the isle this is a forum your personal soap box to express yourself and for or against thenastiness is in my case unapreciated

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#249 Jun 14, 2012
Sick wrote:
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Only ones that don't know how to be a parent. Call CPS and report her immediately!!
is not cild as unless she is leavng bruises and cuts. Too many whiney liberals in our schools and homes. I think teachers should be able to spank and parents should get a 10% discount for busting an ass in Walmart when their kids are acting up. That's why kids that are 12 are telling their parents what to do. By the time they are 14 they are out of control and everyone blames the parents. The kids know that the parents can't do anything and they use that. Time outs! Hahahaha, taking away X box? Yea right. That works as well as windshield wipers on a donkey's ass. I say bust that ass and create an obedient and responsible enviroment. And yes my son turned out fine and yes I did bust that ass when needed. So report me!
Totally Agree

Elizabethtown, KY

#250 Jun 14, 2012
HandymanIII wrote:
<quoted text>is not cild as unless she is leavng bruises and cuts. Too many whiney liberals in our schools and homes. I think teachers should be able to spank and parents should get a 10% discount for busting an ass in Walmart when their kids are acting up. That's why kids that are 12 are telling their parents what to do. By the time they are 14 they are out of control and everyone blames the parents. The kids know that the parents can't do anything and they use that. Time outs! Hahahaha, taking away X box? Yea right. That works as well as windshield wipers on a donkey's ass. I say bust that ass and create an obedient and responsible enviroment. And yes my son turned out fine and yes I did bust that ass when needed. So report me!
Hoo Ha!!!!
Melissa

Petoskey, MI

#251 Jun 20, 2012
When I was spanked as a child it was always on my bare butt. I see nothing wrong with it, although of course it was no fun at the time!
say what

Madisonville, KY

#253 Jul 1, 2012
OMG,@ melyssakaye, sorry but your an idiot. spanking ISN'T abuse. It's disipline. I raised a wonderful young man, here is how I did it...got upset, maybe started to yell, stopped, told him to go to his room. I calmed down and the went. I would talk, explain his wrong actions, then used my belt on his behind. Made him sit and think of what he had done. Made him come to me later after he had time to think. We would talk then hug and I would tell him that I loved him. Buy he must behave. If had it to do over, I would spank again. Shut up and let people raise their own kids, and you raise yours. I am not here to say one should spank. But neither should be here to say you shouldn't. This is what's wrong with parenting. I got "whippings" every other day, and better for it.

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