Pants Down Spanking??!!
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Sara Beth

Goodlettsville, TN

#1 Jun 30, 2011
I was over a friends house recently and her son was misbehaving. After repeated warnings, she finally told him he was getting a spanking. She told him to go to his room and that he'd better have his pants pulled down when she got it there. Do most parents do that?!
Unbelievable

Wise, VA

#2 Jun 30, 2011
No most parents don't do that. That is what is wrong with kids today. Everyone is afraid to spank their children anymore. I believe in spanking and was spanked as a child. It is the best way to teach your child right from wrong and they wont forget it. When done correctly you shouldn't have to do it very often. People are too soft on children anymore and then they whine and wonder why they are so out of control.
anal intruder

United States

#3 Jun 30, 2011
Clothed beatings work much better
now

Vine Grove, KY

#4 Jul 1, 2011
I dont have an issue with spanking...I too was spanked as a child, but bare bottom isnt necessary. that is humiliating and it is confusing to the child.
Really

Goodlettsville, TN

#5 Jul 1, 2011
now wrote:
I dont have an issue with spanking...I too was spanked as a child, but bare bottom isnt necessary. that is humiliating and it is confusing to the child.
Why would it be confusing?
i mean

Nashville, TN

#6 Jul 2, 2011
I agree it is pretty humiliating. The whole Bend over and touch your toes bare assed is not ok. I do though think spanking in itself is fine. There is a difference between spanking and beating your child. People don't seem to understnad theres a difference between a spanking or smack on the hand and hitting in the face or leaving marks. BUT people are afraid to spank their kids these days BECAUSE YOULL GO TO JAIL AND LOSE YOUR BABY. I completely think thats why so many kids are little smart mouthed bad asses now days. I got my butt whooped when I was little and I had RESPECT for my parents. I am 21 years old with a child of my own and you still wouldn't catch me ating like these little 16 year old girls who do whatever they want and fight their moms and shit. WTF is that about????!! Its sad. You can't spank your kids cause you'll lose them and then they think because they arent punished they can get away with anything. Grounding and that kind of thing just doesn't work for some kids, they don't get it or sneak out or whatever else. Ugh. The world is so backwards.
now

Vine Grove, KY

#7 Jul 2, 2011
why would it be confusing? what a stupid question....You teach children that they should have places they shouldnt be touched inappropriately and then you take your trust away from them and spank them barebottom? its inappropriate. I agree that sometimes a "swat" on the bottom causes a redirection in behavior...but you dont have to humiliate them to get that point across....if you do then perhaps the problem is more with the parents and the way you are raising your child and not so much with the punishment that you give.
i mean

Nashville, TN

#8 Jul 2, 2011
now wrote:
why would it be confusing? what a stupid question....You teach children that they should have places they shouldnt be touched inappropriately and then you take your trust away from them and spank them barebottom? its inappropriate. I agree that sometimes a "swat" on the bottom causes a redirection in behavior...but you dont have to humiliate them to get that point across....if you do then perhaps the problem is more with the parents and the way you are raising your child and not so much with the punishment that you give.
Exactly!!! You teach your children that they're called "private" areas for a reason.
Really

Goodlettsville, TN

#9 Jul 2, 2011
now wrote:
why would it be confusing? what a stupid question....You teach children that they should have places they shouldnt be touched inappropriately and then you take your trust away from them and spank them barebottom? its inappropriate. I agree that sometimes a "swat" on the bottom causes a redirection in behavior...but you dont have to humiliate them to get that point across....if you do then perhaps the problem is more with the parents and the way you are raising your child and not so much with the punishment that you give.
What if the child in the bathtub when they were acting up. Would you tell them to go put clothes on and then spank them.
It Happens

Goodlettsville, TN

#10 Jul 2, 2011
Sara Beth wrote:
I was over a friends house recently and her son was misbehaving. After repeated warnings, she finally told him he was getting a spanking. She told him to go to his room and that he'd better have his pants pulled down when she got it there. Do most parents do that?!
Some still do. My sister has always spanked both of her sons with a belt on their bare bottom. She is very strict with them.
hmm

Nashville, TN

#11 Jul 2, 2011
thats a good ? about the bathtub, maybe its a little different bc theres a REASNO theyre naked you know? like youre not making them get naked just to spank them, theyre naked to be in the bath and THEN they started acting up so they are naked when they get spanked. i dk. the whol thing is weird cus everyone is sooooo opinionated about it. i firmly believe in spanking, but not humilitaing... i guess it also depends on the child
Sick

Goodlettsville, TN

#12 Jul 3, 2011
Sara Beth wrote:
I was over a friends house recently and her son was misbehaving. After repeated warnings, she finally told him he was getting a spanking. She told him to go to his room and that he'd better have his pants pulled down when she got it there. Do most parents do that?!
Only ones that don't know how to be a parent. Call CPS and report her immediately!!
realize

United States

#13 Jul 3, 2011
I have tried all sorts of ways to disipline my child and spankings do not work for him...he will continue doing whatever it was he was doing and tell me it didnt hurt. Whats another way besides spanking that works and will make them straighten up??
Person

Goodlettsville, TN

#14 Jul 4, 2011
realize wrote:
I have tried all sorts of ways to disipline my child and spankings do not work for him...he will continue doing whatever it was he was doing and tell me it didnt hurt. Whats another way besides spanking that works and will make them straighten up??
Take away his things, time outs, early bedtime, no TV, just to name a few. How hard are spanking him. If you just giving a few swats over his clothes, no wonder it doesn't hurt. Maybe try using a belt or a paddle and possibly consider spanking his bare bottom. If you willing to give it a try.

Since: Mar 11

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#16 Jul 4, 2011
Why would anyone want to physically hurt a child? A child can do nothing to deserve physical punishment. If your child is misbehaving and you can not redirect or correct that child without hitting them, then you are a failure as a parent and should take parenting classes. Children should be taught respect not fear!
really

United States

#17 Jul 4, 2011
melyssakaye wrote:
Why would anyone want to physically hurt a child? A child can do nothing to deserve physical punishment. If your child is misbehaving and you can not redirect or correct that child without hitting them, then you are a failure as a parent and should take parenting classes. Children should be taught respect not fear!
Seriously?? You comment on every topix...get a life!!
keeping peace

Dahlonega, GA

#18 Jul 4, 2011
melyssakaye wrote:
Why would anyone want to physically hurt a child? A child can do nothing to deserve physical punishment. If your child is misbehaving and you can not redirect or correct that child without hitting them, then you are a failure as a parent and should take parenting classes. Children should be taught respect not fear!
what a stupid thing to say,of course NO ONE WHO LOVES THEIR CHILDREN wants to hurt them,and a spanking is not bad, if they just spank,not a beating,I was the receiver of quite a few spankings and I lived to tell the tale,whatever I got that spanking for I never done that deed again.I truly love my children,they also got spankings They are hard workers,very good parents,and goes to church, They also spank,but it works,I loved the parents that spanked me and i feel my children love me. the spankings were the last resort,
Oxymoron

Campbellsville, KY

#19 Jul 5, 2011
keeping peace wrote:
<quoted text>what a stupid thing to say,of course NO ONE WHO LOVES THEIR CHILDREN wants to hurt them,and a spanking is not bad, if they just spank,not a beating,I was the receiver of quite a few spankings and I lived to tell the tale,whatever I got that spanking for I never done that deed again.I truly love my children,they also got spankings They are hard workers,very good parents,and goes to church, They also spank,but it works,I loved the parents that spanked me and i feel my children love me. the spankings were the last resort,
Oxymoronic username, huh? Dumb Christians.
hmm

Nashville, TN

#20 Jul 5, 2011
melyssakaye wrote:
Why would anyone want to physically hurt a child? A child can do nothing to deserve physical punishment. If your child is misbehaving and you can not redirect or correct that child without hitting them, then you are a failure as a parent and should take parenting classes. Children should be taught respect not fear!
Youre ridiculous. You and everyone else in the world knows some kids just don't listen. Period. It is not ALWAYS the parents fault. That doesn't mean they didn't try other punishments first. And honeslty maybe if people would spank their kids more often we wouldnt have so many smart mouthed pregnant 15 years olds around would we? You are not God and not a perfect parent so no you do not get to jduge everyone else for their parenting abilites. And yes I know you sit on topix all the time to preach to everyone and push your opinions on everyone. In no way shape or form does spanking make you a bad parent. Get off your high horse. Noboyd said beat them or leave marks or hit them in the face. Theres a difference in spankng and beating. Some kids need a little more of a reality check than others!

Since: Nov 10

Sonora, KY

#21 Jul 5, 2011
Omg dont spank your kid, dont spank your kid. Shut the fuck up! I remember gettin my ass whipped with a switch I had to go pick out and bring it to them. I understand there is a limit, but nothing wrong with spanking, maybe if the kids acted better they wouldnt get there ass busted as much

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