Did I really cheat?

[Stacey]

I feel really confused and unsure what to do. Last night I watched a movie with two of my boyfriend's friends from school.(My boyfriend is away working at a summer camp.) Anyway, nothing major happened, but I ended up jacking both of them off. We didn't even kiss, but I feel kind of bad about it becuase we had a really fun time. Has anyone else been been in this position before? How did you resolve the inner conflict?

[casey moats]

I dont know what to say but i wish i was your friend you could rub my wand anytime

[Hussie]

YES YOU CHEATED...
And, if you even can't manage to watch a movie without jacking off your boyfriends multiple friends, you're a gutter slut who should be sent back to whichever gutter you came from...

Grow up, wise up, and remain single if you like playing with various dicks...

[cuttershelper]

Go to the "Human Sexuality" forum, a portion of Topix(type "Human" in the search bar above)it is the appropriate place for your sort of question.

[kikki]

cheat or not you are a slut

[cuttershelper]

kikki wrote:

cheat or not you are a slut

Uh oh, someone else on base......the plot thickens.

[kikki]

cuttershelper wrote:

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Uh oh, someone else on base......the plot thickens.

you got to agree right i mean come on

[kikki]

who re

[Telstar]

In this day and age of sex on the first date - Don't worry too much about jerking a couple of guys off.

[Stacked]

Hussie wrote:

YES YOU CHEATED...
And, if you even can't manage to watch a movie without jacking off your boyfriends multiple friends, you're a gutter slut who should be sent back to whichever gutter you came from...
Grow up, wise up, and remain single if you like playing with various dicks...

Classic. I really do love you hussie!!!!=)

[Stacked]

I think you REALLY cheated because you admitted to having fun. Just think of how much fun it will be to your boyfriend to hear this story and you know...

[cuttershelper]

kikki wrote:

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you got to agree right i mean come on

Agree with what?

[kikki]

cuttershelper wrote:

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Agree with what?

That this little lady is pretty sluty

[cuttershelper]

Personally I cannot lay judgment on anyone without knowing them, their personality and their characteristics. Based on one single post I will not agree that a person is a slut just because she JO'd a couple guys. It's sex. It's natural. It's fun.
What's the problem?
Are you asexual?

[Hussie]

cuttershelper wrote:

Personally I cannot lay judgment on anyone without knowing them, their personality and their characteristics. Based on one single post I will not agree that a person is a slut just because she JO'd a couple guys. It's sex. It's natural. It's fun.
What's the problem?
Are you asexual?

No...But I'm not wantonly jacking off my boyfriends buddies for kicks either...
If the poster didn't want an answer, they shouldn't have asked the question...

[Telstar]

Hussie wrote:

<quoted text>No...But I'm not wantonly jacking off my boyfriends buddies for kicks either...

Don't know if it was wanton or not. Perhaps it's as Michael Jackson says - "Loving".

[Hussie]

Telstar wrote:

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Don't know if it was wanton or not. Perhaps it's as Michael Jackson says - "Loving".

Please, get off the Michael Jackson shit already...There are plenty of threads about his death, and this isn't one of them...
Living in California, his death/murder is ALL we hear about...Frankly, it's old...Let the investigation run it's course, bury him, and move on...People die everyday, and sometimes, dead is better...

[Froon]

Whether you cheated is up to your partner; it's not up to you and it's not up to us.

"Cheating" varies from person to person; the one who gets to decide is the one who may or may not have been cheated. Maybe he's cool with it; maybe he'd think it's hot. Maybe not. Find out.

[Hussie]

Froon wrote:

Whether you cheated is up to your partner; it's not up to you and it's not up to us.
"Cheating" varies from person to person; the one who gets to decide is the one who may or may not have been cheated. Maybe he's cool with it; maybe he'd think it's hot. Maybe not. Find out.

I would agree, if the person hadn't decided to air their dirty laundry on a forum site...
That being said, it sounds as though the poster is not only proud of what she did, but doesn't give a shit enough about her boyfriend to at least tell him...
That, to me, is slutty...

[cuttershelper]

Hussie wrote:

<quoted text>No...But I'm not wantonly jacking off my boyfriends buddies for kicks either...
If the poster didn't want an answer, they shouldn't have asked the question...

Sorry Hussie, was asking that of kikki. My apologies for not clarifying that sooner. I understand and respect your viewpoint.