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#1 May 6, 2013
Ladies..my husband normally has a massive sex drive and wants me every chance he gets! Recently, that's not the case! Its been about 5 months since his normal sex drive has gone out the window! Now we have sex maybe once a week!! He always either says he's tired or he just falls asleep to avoid a confrontation...should I b worried! He's always had the same job so I know its not work wearing him out or he would have always been this way! Is my husband cheating?
salty

El Dorado, AR

#2 May 6, 2013
Send him down to Pine Bluff to visit the chuck city gang.
Disappear

Oklahoma City, OK

#3 May 6, 2013
question wrote:
Ladies..my husband normally has a massive sex drive and wants me every chance he gets! Recently, that's not the case! Its been about 5 months since his normal sex drive has gone out the window! Now we have sex maybe once a week!! He always either says he's tired or he just falls asleep to avoid a confrontation...should I b worried! He's always had the same job so I know its not work wearing him out or he would have always been this way! Is my husband cheating?
good grief, are u realy that pathetic? Obviously if you are going on here for opinions! Just post what you are really trying to get at and stop the games. Maybe you are just boring in bed and he would rather not waste his time. Plus if you have been married for a while once a week isn't that bad! You must think he's cheating or you wouldn't come on here and ask.
answer

Little Rock, AR

#4 May 6, 2013
question wrote:
Ladies..my husband normally has a massive sex drive and wants me every chance he gets! Recently, that's not the case! Its been about 5 months since his normal sex drive has gone out the window! Now we have sex maybe once a week!! He always either says he's tired or he just falls asleep to avoid a confrontation...should I b worried! He's always had the same job so I know its not work wearing him out or he would have always been this way! Is my husband cheating?
If you're this pathetic and, god forbid, I was with you, O'd cheat every chance I got. But I'm sire ur man has more integrity and watches porn.
Anxious

Oklahoma City, OK

#5 May 6, 2013
question wrote:
Ladies..my husband normally has a massive sex drive and wants me every chance he gets! Recently, that's not the case! Its been about 5 months since his normal sex drive has gone out the window! Now we have sex maybe once a week!! He always either says he's tired or he just falls asleep to avoid a confrontation...should I b worried! He's always had the same job so I know its not work wearing him out or he would have always been this way! Is my husband cheating?
does he blame it on "stress"? Then he probably is getting side action. They need a new excuse, that one is as lame as a woman saying she has a headache! Maybe its a stress headache?!
Patient

Grand Prairie, TX

#6 May 6, 2013
Blaming "stress" is better than saying that you'd rather just sleep rather than pass out from boredom due to her flopping around like a dying fish.
dilligaf

El Dorado, AR

#7 May 6, 2013
question wrote:
Ladies..my husband normally has a massive sex drive and wants me every chance he gets! Recently, that's not the case! Its been about 5 months since his normal sex drive has gone out the window! Now we have sex maybe once a week!! He always either says he's tired or he just falls asleep to avoid a confrontation...should I b worried! He's always had the same job so I know its not work wearing him out or he would have always been this way! Is my husband cheating?
Drop about 50 pounds, buy some Summers Eve and maybe his sex drive will come back
Anxious

Oklahoma City, OK

#8 May 6, 2013
Patient wrote:
Blaming "stress" is better than saying that you'd rather just sleep rather than pass out from boredom due to her flopping around like a dying fish.
that sounds like you are speaking from experience. It must not have been that bad at first, what man would marry a woman he had terrible sex with, i mean, it was his choice to be there, im sure he wasnt forced!
I know the truth

El Dorado, AR

#9 May 6, 2013
question wrote:
Ladies..my husband normally has a massive sex drive and wants me every chance he gets! Recently, that's not the case! Its been about 5 months since his normal sex drive has gone out the window! Now we have sex maybe once a week!! He always either says he's tired or he just falls asleep to avoid a confrontation...should I b worried! He's always had the same job so I know its not work wearing him out or he would have always been this way! Is my husband cheating?
Follow his ass and find out! Or get his cell records. Don't just sit around guessing. Find some proof!
patient

Dallas, TX

#10 May 7, 2013
Anxious wrote:
<quoted text>that sounds like you are speaking from experience. It must not have been that bad at first, what man would marry a woman he had terrible sex with, i mean, it was his choice to be there, im sure he wasnt forced!
Not speaking from experience, and nothing in my post would indicate as such. You made up this lie on your own. And it's all about effort. She might have been "trying" BEFORE they got married. How are you so stupid that you need this explained to you?
Anxious

United States

#11 May 7, 2013
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Not speaking from experience, and nothing in my post would indicate as such. You made up this lie on your own. And it's all about effort. She might have been "trying" BEFORE they got married. How are you so stupid that you need this explained to you?
i didn't make anything up! I was just saying just because men get a little bored with their wives at times doesn't give them a free ticket to cheat! Im sure he "tried" more before marriage too! Get off your soap box and eat a twinkie.dang.
really

Oklahoma City, OK

#13 May 8, 2013
Women get tired of there husbands too but that don't ever give ANY one a reason to cheat. Cheaters go straight to hell with the liars!!!!!
patient

Little Rock, AR

#14 May 8, 2013
Anxious wrote:
<quoted text> i didn't make anything up! I was just saying just because men get a little bored with their wives at times doesn't give them a free ticket to cheat! Im sure he "tried" more before marriage too! Get off your soap box and eat a twinkie.dang.
You made up the lie that I was "speaking from experience." Men don't cheat because they get bored with their wives. Their wives become distant and whiny, only expecting romance to be given to them. He tried before marriage, which was successful, but once she became cold and pissy, he wised up and began spending time with someone who would appreciate it. Get your head out of your rat hole and lay off the Twinkies. Your man might be able to look at you without losing his dinner. Dang.
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United States

#15 May 8, 2013
Ok..I'm slowly regetting starting this conversation! Anxious is the only commentor that seems to have any sense! The rest of u are some low life's!! Sometimes women need a few opinions from anonymous people to help them think straight! So first of all I know how good I am in bed and that's not the issue..neither is stress! And @dilligaf years maybe I should lose about 50 pounds that could have something to do with it but I'm sorry if I dnt think 170 is fat for a woman and the fact that he's given me 2 beautiful children is the only reason I gained weight in the first place! For all u other assholes who think u know something stop posting shit making urself look stupid! As far as I'm concerned anxious is the only commentor I'm interested in! Thanls
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United States

#16 May 8, 2013
Oh and btw for the assholes writing on this post we have been together for 7 years married for 8 months and we r both still in our early 20's so I'm pretty sure sex drive isn't something that should b causing an issue right now! We should b thriving so I think my question is legit
Anxious

United States

#17 May 8, 2013
question wrote:
Ok..I'm slowly regetting starting this conversation! Anxious is the only commentor that seems to have any sense! The rest of u are some low life's!! Sometimes women need a few opinions from anonymous people to help them think straight! So first of all I know how good I am in bed and that's not the issue..neither is stress! And @dilligaf years maybe I should lose about 50 pounds that could have something to do with it but I'm sorry if I dnt think 170 is fat for a woman and the fact that he's given me 2 beautiful children is the only reason I gained weight in the first place! For all u other assholes who think u know something stop posting shit making urself look stupid! As far as I'm concerned anxious is the only commentor I'm interested in! Thanls
I know EXACTLY what you are going through... Im not in my 20's anymore, and your question is legit, have you discussed this with your husband? If he gets super defensive or tries to make you feel like the "crazy" one then you might want to dig a little deeper, but it may not be pleasant.
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United States

#18 May 8, 2013
Anxious wrote:
<quoted text>I know EXACTLY what you are going through... Im not in my 20's anymore, and your question is legit, have you discussed this with your husband? If he gets super defensive or tries to make you feel like the "crazy" one then you might want to dig a little deeper, but it may not be pleasant.
Anxious, I am prepared for the unpleasent what I'm not prepared for is the issue being me..I'm just confused
Anxious

United States

#19 May 8, 2013
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Anxious, I am prepared for the unpleasent what I'm not prepared for is the issue being me..I'm just confused
its NOT you! Do NOT blame yourself! Im even going through the same thing you are at this very moment. As hard as it may be don't blame yourself, its him, lack of communication i think is a big problem for men, they act before they think also. Suggest counseling, give yourself a cutoff date, and if it hasn't gotten any better GET OUT! You are young, don't waste your life letting him run over you,and your kids don't need a mom thats depressed or parents that fight all the time. Don't give up on your marriage by any means, just don't be the only one fighting to make it work, it takes two, come up with a plan and stick to it. Btw, a man will do anything to protect himself from getting caught, you would be surprised, maybe if they put all that effort in marriage there wouldn't be so many divorces.
Anxious

United States

#20 May 8, 2013
patient wrote:
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You made up the lie that I was "speaking from experience." Men don't cheat because they get bored with their wives. Their wives become distant and whiny, only expecting romance to be given to them. He tried before marriage, which was successful, but once she became cold and pissy, he wised up and began spending time with someone who would appreciate it. Get your head out of your rat hole and lay off the Twinkies. Your man might be able to look at you without losing his dinner. Dang.
this is obviously coming from someone that is with a married man, someone else's man, and not only that I'm sure you are young and dumb, if he is soooo miserable he has two legs he can walk out the door with! I look damn good, so if you think you were insulting me you didn't, theres always two sides sweetheart, i can see whose story you think is the gospel, if you are so great and so smart why is he still married? And any man that is married "spending time" with a woman other than his wife should realize MAYBE thats why she is cold and distant!
patient

Dallas, TX

#21 May 8, 2013
Anxious wrote:
<quoted text> this is obviously coming from someone that is with a married man, someone else's man, and not only that I'm sure you are young and dumb, if he is soooo miserable he has two legs he can walk out the door with! I look damn good, so if you think you were insulting me you didn't, theres always two sides sweetheart, i can see whose story you think is the gospel, if you are so great and so smart why is he still married? And any man that is married "spending time" with a woman other than his wife should realize MAYBE thats why she is cold and distant!
I'm a man, you dumbfuck. So yes, you were insulted. That's why you responded with a defensive, "blah, blah, blah" bullshit post. Now, wipe away your tears and learn how to suck a d!ck. That might keep your next man around.

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