Family mourns son who was stabbed to death

[the truth is out]

her name is lisa and she is a murderer...if she didnt do it on purpose why didnt she call the cops..why did she take all the time to drive him to the hospital...cuz she wanted him to die..in front of their own daughter..shes not in jail becuase the detectives on getting all the evidence they need to charge her and they only had 72 hours to hold her.....she would slit her wrist and say tom did it...he never kidnapped her...she made him pick her up and she willing got in the car and went to a hotel with him..she told him her father beat her and her dad was scared someone would tell so she made up a lie....how come when she had the no contact order on him, she got his house more then 80 times to try to get him in trouble...shes a pyscho lying bitch that knows shes the one that was beating him and he was only trying to protect his dog and his baby!!! she never had marks on her...tom had several stab wounds and scars from her. she never did anything with her life until she atteding school...never cleaned never cooked...would throw everything on tom! Everytime he tried to leave she would threatening him she would do something to herself and blame it on him and put his ass in jail....YOU HAVE SOMETHING COMING LISA AND EVERYONE IS ON TOMS SIDE NOT YOURS CUZ YOUR A FUCKIN LAIR....you play mind games and everyone knows you hurt yourself and blamed it on tom...your such a lair

[friend of both]

i know both of them and was friend with both..lisa was the controlling one that wouldnt let him ever ever go out with his friends..tom could care less..tom was a very mellow guy..he always ran to his parents everytime they fought becuase she was so unpredictable...she is a very loud person and contolling and jealous..she puts on a act to make everyone feel sorry for her,and i gave into a lot, after a while i figured out whos she was...and to her sister, lisa even said you were a bitch and crazy yourself so duh youd stick up for her shes your sister! Tom never cared if she went out, if tom on the other hand went out she would threaten him and then when he got home she would hurt him and he would always try just to get away. She even one time stole his dog and wouldnt give it back unless he came to get it becuasee she wanted to hurt him..she stabbed him 3 times before, once in the thigh, in the foot and another time he grabbed the blade from her. And if she is saying its self defense, how come there was no mark on her, and how come she didnt want to call the cops..any normal person if they stabbed someone would not put them in the car and drive, they would be freaked out and call the cops...and there was no reason for her to kill him espiecailly if there was not one single mark on her body, not even a scratch...now who is the lair...you cant kill someone and say its selfdefense if that victim never hurt you, now if she had a bloody eye and nose and bruises everywhere, then thats a different story but thats not what happened.. Shes going to go away for a while cuz shes pysho and everyone knows that, and she has no proof of it being self defense.

[ALSO a friend to both]

Did you witness all of what you say? She is NOT physco at all....and controlling??? Are you kidding me? I have known her and her family for years and she is the total opposite of how you are portraying her. She is a sweet person with a big heart. She is a good person who was involved in an abusive relationship. She would NEVER hurt herself..EVER. She is NOT violent, NOT controlling, NOT jealous! She ALWAYS cooked and cleaned, I am not sure why people would say different. And everyone talks about how Tom loved his little girl so much?? He had nothing to do with her until she was 4 months old. And Tom didn't want her to go to school, he said it was stupid. But she wanted a better life for her little girl. And why didn't she call the cops? Well, I am pretty sure that he got to the hospital alot faster than if she would have waited for the cops come. It really doesn't matter because what is in the past in IN THE PAST. I know you all are saying all of this because you are friends/family of Tom but bad mouthing her isn't going to bring him back. Please before you start putting people down and making up lies because you are angry about his death, remember there is a little girl that is involved and when you say these things you are hurting her too.

[You make me laugh]

Obviously the last post was written by someone who wants to paint a pretty picture of who she is. Those of us who know her and her family know better.
Telling the truth about who she is will not bring him back, nonetheless she should be brought to justice. She was holding the murder weapon, she admitted to doing it and she was wearing bloody clothes, what more evidence does the prosecutor's office need? If he were abusive so was she. Theirs was a bilaterally abusive relationship and she chose to kill him instead of walking away.

[to Also a friend to both]

You also have to remember that the baby was there in the car with Tom bleeding to death. If she truly loved her child she would put her in to her room and call 911, instead she let’s her see it all. She is the one hurting everyone including her own family. Our comments tell the truth and Tom’s daughter needs to know that her father was a good person.
What kind of hart do you have? How can you even say “IN THE PAST”“ISN’T GOING TO BRING HIM BACK” I am a mother myself and if someone would kill my child I would seek justice, remember no one has the right to kill.

[friend]

if you are being abused, you NEVER grab a knife unless you have a knife put on you...killing someone they way she did is not self defense, and call the aumbuance would have been faster becuase she wouldnt have to wait for tom to try to get down 3 flights of stairs and she wouldnt have had to carry vikki, like a dumass. I know if anyone would have done it in selfdenfense they would call the cops.. It makes no sense and its sad vikki lost a good dad! Tom wasnt there for the first 4 months of vikkis life becuase he wanted to get away from lisa cause she was so abusive...and she is one angry girl that needs help...it is never right to kill and lie about what happened.. a lot of ppl are hurt over this and her family and her probably dont give a fuck...they are probably celebrating...lisa probably tried to kill him before by stabbing him in the leg before and 2 other times.

[ALSO a friend to both]

For your information her and her family are NOT celebrating, they are mourning. And don't you think that if she was "trying" to kill him she would have stabbed him more than one time? It was a 1/2 inch cut!!! He walked down the stairs himself. And there was no blood on her. She would never want him dead, she loved him for some crazy reason. SO before you start talking about stuff you should know the facts. And I am also a mother and IF my son was in such danger I would have stepped in. But I also wouldn't toleralte my SON hitting his g/f. SO even if she hit him back he deserved it. I know the family well and THEY ARE NOT HORRIBLE AS EVERYONE MAKES THEM SOUND. Yes, they have problems but doesn't everyone? I don't believe just anyone deserves to die but it happened and nothing will bring him back. And everyone arguing back and forth will not make any difference. We all have our own opinions and no one will change what the next person believes about each of the parties involved. So can we just give it a REST!

[friend of both]

YOU ARE PROLLY PART OF THEIR FAMILY...ur insensitive, and yes she probably was tryig to kill him since she stabbed him once in the chest, and wait till you have someone you love pass away like his family and friends have exprienced. you would not just let it rest and say oh well

[ALSO a friend to both]

Nope I am not related to any of them...and I have had the someone close to me die, and I am not insensitive about it. I am just sick of reading all the lies about her. I know her better than any of you. You just don't want to admit that he was wrong too.

[toms friend]

I know that family...They are terrible!!! What is the little girl still doing there? No parenting goes on in that house at all.

[ALSO a friend to both]

Funny....I see her everyday and she is always taking care of her little girl, do you see her everyday? I am thinking NOT...

[toms friend]

ALSO a friend to both wrote:

Funny....I see her everyday and she is always taking care of her little girl, do you see her everyday? I am thinking NOT...

so you are unemployed too?!

[ALSO a friend to both]

I work at home...not that it is any of your business...

[toms friend]

ALSO a friend to both wrote:

I work at home...not that it is any of your business...

watching Oprah...LOL. What is the name of the trailer park where the killer lives? or hides?!
You know, when she is found guilty you will have to drive a lot to see her everyday?

[ALSO a friend to both]

I hate Oprah.....Seriously dude....GROW UP AND GET A FREAKIN' LIFE!

[toms friend]

ALSO a friend to both wrote:

I hate Oprah.....Seriously dude....GROW UP AND GET A FREAKIN' LIFE!

I have a life...you are the one hanging out with a killer...What is wrong with Oprah?

[Malwina]

Girly- we are praying for you! Many of us have been in the same type of relationship and it could have happened to anyone! Noone knows what they would do in a situation like that because they've never been in such a situation. Keep your head up hon we know you didn't mean to hurt him!! Your mourning just as much as anyone else, probably even more.:( I'm so sorry for your loss hunny. He was such a GREAT PERSON, especially when he didn't drink and when he wanted to be. My condolenses go out to Matczak family.

[tomazs friend]

we are praying for justice and that you get what YOU deserve

[friend]

are you serious malwina!!! she killed tom and you feel sorry for her??? Are you insane like she was or something...no one in their right mind would grab a knife and stab someone in the chest in front of their daughter especially, they would cal the cops. DUH!! DIDNT MEAN TO HURT HIM, SHE STABBED HIM ONCE IN THE HEART, IF YOU DONT MEAN TO HURT SOMEONE, FIRST YOU NEVER PUT A KNIFE TO HIM AND SECOND YOU GO FOR A FINGER OR SOMETHING, WOW WAKE UP AND REALIZE YOUR FRINED IS A KILLER AND SHE MEANT TO DO IT

[Toms Friend]

To Malwina - Remember she let him bleed to death if she really wanted to save him she would call 911 for help. She knew they would put her in jail for attempted murder and he would tell what really happened. We don’t want any more or less for her; we just want justice for what she has done to Tom his family, friends and especially to his daughter.