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How in the world is it that literally every day I hear about someone new being pregnant. and their usually between 15 to 19 years old? I'm starting to think that these kids just don't want to have a life.

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Lol wrote:
How in the world is it that literally every day I hear about someone new being pregnant. and their usually between 15 to 19 years old? I'm starting to think that these kids just don't want to have a life.
becuz of mtv and parents that dont teach their kids anything
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no one ever told you about the birds and bees?
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Mar 31, 2013
 
Obviously. Are girls just getting more sluty or do people just want to have kids young like they used to back in the day
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@Lol.. How in the world do you have the time to post and judge others for bringing life into this world? You're making it seem so negative and because of ignorance like you pregnancy can no longer be looked at as a beautiful thing. How would you feel if someone ridiculed your mother while she was pregnant with you.. It's wrong. No matter the age of these new mothers and fathers its how they view life not all are the parents they should be but not all view pregnancy as the end of their life nor view it as "not wanting to have a life" keep your ignorance to yourself.
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Reality...you're an idiot...it is a HORRIBLE thing for teenagers to get pregnant..mainly because their parents end up paying most of the expenses for the child. If you're married and established w a full time job as a teenager good for you I'm happy you got pregnant but when people are together for a month and suddenly they have to bring a new life into the world the child suffers. You are seriously stupid if you think a 16 yr old bringing a life into this world is beautiful. It's stupid and immature
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Everyone's situation is different and I agree 15 and 16 year olds aren't mature enough themselves to properly take care of a child and most that age would have to depend on their parents.. But what about the 18 and 19 year olds who have graduated attend college work for themselves and have a good head on their shoulders?and have been with their significant other for quite some time. I don't think it's fair for everyone who has a baby or is pregant to be put into that category of having a ruined life is what I'm trying to get across you don't have to be rude or call someone an idiot to make your statement more efficient here. These kids are going to do what they do and have step up and be a parent but pregnancy ITSELF used to be a beautiful thing and regardless of the situations it will always be to me atleast. No matter how tarnished everyone makes it. Thanks!
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Mar 31, 2013
 
By the way your talking I'm either assuming that you were a victam of young pregnancy or someone close to you is.
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Mar 31, 2013
 
Victim? oh my Lol ok. I see this was pointless.
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Mar 31, 2013
 
You right I used the wrong term. I meant stupidity.

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Apr 1, 2013
 
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@Lol.. How in the world do you have the time to post and judge others for bringing life into this world? You're making it seem so negative and because of ignorance like you pregnancy can no longer be looked at as a beautiful thing. How would you feel if someone ridiculed your mother while she was pregnant with you.. It's wrong. No matter the age of these new mothers and fathers its how they view life not all are the parents they should be but not all view pregnancy as the end of their life nor view it as "not wanting to have a life" keep your ignorance to yourself.
its one thing to view pregnancy as beautiful when you are grown and mature its quite another when its 13 14 15 yr olds getting knocked up...mtv glorifies pregnancy with its teen mom shows showing how these skanks get pregnant and say its oh so hard but have a 10, 000 pay check at the end of it all..per episode.

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Apr 1, 2013
 
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Everyone's situation is different and I agree 15 and 16 year olds aren't mature enough themselves to properly take care of a child and most that age would have to depend on their parents.. But what about the 18 and 19 year olds who have graduated attend college work for themselves and have a good head on their shoulders?and have been with their significant other for quite some time. I don't think it's fair for everyone who has a baby or is pregant to be put into that category of having a ruined life is what I'm trying to get across you don't have to be rude or call someone an idiot to make your statement more efficient here. These kids are going to do what they do and have step up and be a parent but pregnancy ITSELF used to be a beautiful thing and regardless of the situations it will always be to me atleast. No matter how tarnished everyone makes it. Thanks!
cuz 18 or 19 yr olds are mature? I dont think so..
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Apr 1, 2013
 
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Everyone's situation is different and I agree 15 and 16 year olds aren't mature enough themselves to properly take care of a child and most that age would have to depend on their parents.. But what about the 18 and 19 year olds who have graduated attend college work for themselves and have a good head on their shoulders?and have been with their significant other for quite some time. I don't think it's fair for everyone who has a baby or is pregant to be put into that category of having a ruined life is what I'm trying to get across you don't have to be rude or call someone an idiot to make your statement more efficient here. These kids are going to do what they do and have step up and be a parent but pregnancy ITSELF used to be a beautiful thing and regardless of the situations it will always be to me atleast. No matter how tarnished everyone makes it. Thanks!
im sorry..but..when a young person decides she is going to trap another dumasd male of the same age because she thinks that we will have someone to love us forever and ever! or that i have not figured out how to get out of my daddys house and live on my own....then getting knocked up looks like a great option...IT IS NOT A BEAUTIFUL THING!!!
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I was 16 when I had my son and it was a very hard road to travel. I was not dependent on my family I had to get a job, go to school pay for a sitter. Had my own apartment (non kp or public housing). After high school I went to college and was determined to make a better life for my child. My family helped from time to time and his dad wasnt around. I am a better person for having him but it was a hard situation and most teens are not willing to sacrifice and work like I did. Had I planned my future I would have been successful before bringing him into the world as he would have been able to spend more time with me opposed to me trying to play catch up and juggle all the time. It took me until my late 20's to finally have a career and support him the way I should have planned before hand. So yes pregnancy is beautiful but it's more of a joy when you have your t's crossed and i's dotted.
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the world would be a much happier place if people would keep their own opinions to their selves and not post them on social media
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Apr 1, 2013
 
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<quoted text>its one thing to view pregnancy as beautiful when you are grown and mature its quite another when its 13 14 15 yr olds getting knocked up...mtv glorifies pregnancy with its teen mom shows showing how these skanks get pregnant and say its oh so hard but have a 10, 000 pay check at the end of it all..per episode.
SKANKS??? did you really say something so ignorant? Did you know some of these girls were with the first boy ever? I PRAY you dont have children, you know you can teach them but sometimes they do it anyway. EVERY teen girl doesnt get 10g or is on TV, at least they arent aborting them! That closed minded, will assure you your children will not talk to you before. STUPID STUPID
Teaching them not too, is the best but sometimes efforts fail.
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and can someone tell me why these same dumb bitches have the baby and within a month are leaving them with whoever to go out and party?? I'm usually not one to judge, but I see this a lot around here and it's disgusting. I know some young women don't do this, but if you are still into partying, and are not mature enough to care full time, for a young child, you could simply take birth control or use a damn condom. Sick losers.

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SKANKS??? did you really say something so ignorant? Did you know some of these girls were with the first boy ever? I PRAY you dont have children, you know you can teach them but sometimes they do it anyway. EVERY teen girl doesnt get 10g or is on TV, at least they arent aborting them! That closed minded, will assure you your children will not talk to you before. STUPID STUPID
Teaching them not too, is the best but sometimes efforts fail.
thats right, I said skanks..what of it..and that is exactly what they are when they are spreading their legs at that age because everyone is doing it! And yes I do have children and I damn sure will be kicking ass if I ever think they want to have sex! Kids that age should not have sex on the mind..but according to you its ok because they've been with the same boy for longer than 6 months..
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Apr 1, 2013
 
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<quoted text>thats right, I said skanks..what of it..and that is exactly what they are when they are spreading their legs at that age because everyone is doing it! And yes I do have children and I damn sure will be kicking ass if I ever think they want to have sex! Kids that age should not have sex on the mind..but according to you its ok because they've been with the same boy for longer than 6 months..
I bet that ass kicken your going to give stops them from everything. GOOD kids do make mistakes, I dont encourage sex but I do encourage them being honest with me.
No I dont believe six months was mentioned in my post. I also dont think I said because others are doing it. I feel sorry for your ignorance and mostly your kids. The stupid bitch that says my kids wont is the one that it slaps in the face the hardest. Good luck to you, your kids will be the one hiding shi* from you as they are to afraid to talk to you. I bet you were a virgin when you married? If you were good for you, it wasnt a decision you felt was okay for you. Teenagers need to make informed decisions and we as adults have to inform them. Do I believe teens should be parents absolutley not, but dont believe every teen age girl who has had sex is a SKANK, your narrow minded and just an all around freaking idiot.
I do thank you though, you re assured me my way of parenting is much better than yours. I over half of the pregnant ones were to afraid to go to their parents BEFORE and figure out what was best for them! Shove your head back in the sand and believe its not going to happen and I pray for you that it doesnt.
For the record- I have two kids one is a 20 year old girl, and she wasnt a teen Mom. I would have supported her and loved her either way!

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<quoted text> I bet that ass kicken your going to give stops them from everything. GOOD kids do make mistakes, I dont encourage sex but I do encourage them being honest with me.
No I dont believe six months was mentioned in my post. I also dont think I said because others are doing it. I feel sorry for your ignorance and mostly your kids. The stupid bitch that says my kids wont is the one that it slaps in the face the hardest. Good luck to you, your kids will be the one hiding shi* from you as they are to afraid to talk to you. I bet you were a virgin when you married? If you were good for you, it wasnt a decision you felt was okay for you. Teenagers need to make informed decisions and we as adults have to inform them. Do I believe teens should be parents absolutley not, but dont believe every teen age girl who has had sex is a SKANK, your narrow minded and just an all around freaking idiot.
I do thank you though, you re assured me my way of parenting is much better than yours. I over half of the pregnant ones were to afraid to go to their parents BEFORE and figure out what was best for them! Shove your head back in the sand and believe its not going to happen and I pray for you that it doesnt.
For the record- I have two kids one is a 20 year old girl, and she wasnt a teen Mom. I would have supported her and loved her either way!
I speak with ignorance...im sorry I didnt know you were such an expert on how I raise my kids and so glad you showed your ignorance by saying your way was so much better then mine...you better believe I am behind my kids in every way possible whether they make the stupid mistake of getting knocked up but they know my opinion in teen pregnancy...because I feel this way that must mean my kids are afraid to talk with me I dont think so and in fact I encourage them no matter what mistake they make they can talk with me...but dr phil they know my stance on what I expect from them ;)

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