hello

Moneta, VA

#1 Mar 15, 2013
Since I got your attention dose anyone know what you have to do to sign rights over. How dose a parent sign over their rights
hum

Covington, VA

#3 Mar 15, 2013
you have to sign a Waiver of Interest form provided usually by a lawyer, and then it has to go before a judge. But in most states the other parent has to sign off on it too saying they agree to it also. Has to do with child support, etc.
think

Hillsboro, WV

#4 Mar 15, 2013
If I was you I wouldn't even consider it.. having a child is so amazing..yes sometimes it can be rough but its the moments in between that matter most...it is something u can't take back..a child deserves to have both parents... my child father and I want through this and now he regrets it more than anything...so honestly consider not just yourself but the child too.
hello

Moneta, VA

#5 Mar 15, 2013
Yes that is true. I have another child i care for. I have thought about it for a long time now. Trust me its in the best interest of everyone involved. Some people just can't be together and just shouldn't be. The child dose not know I'm her father. We have been to court but the mother has moved and kept the child away. Its best to just start over. It really is for the best.
Hmm

Covington, VA

#6 Mar 17, 2013
You know I can't stand people like that. There is women out here who just wishes their babies father was around and tries very hard but just can't get through to them and you have men out here that does want to see their child but the women won't let them and we (the women wanting their babies daddy around) want this and don't get it. Nobody should keep their children from their parents. This child will one day grow up and realize what has happened and if you do sign your rights over that child could end up finding out you were her real father and then be even more mad at you because you just "abandoned" him or her.
BEEN THERE

Demotte, IN

#7 Mar 17, 2013
Just make sure deep in your heart that this is what you really want. There is no undoing it once its done. In my case, my babies daddy wanted nothing to do with his son. I was lucky enough to meet a real man that wanted my son no matter what. But if you want to be in your childs life, dont give up because a child is Gods greatest gift to us in life. My prayers go out to you.
hello

Saint Albans, WV

#8 Mar 17, 2013
Its complicated but trust me it will be for the best I would go into detail but I don't want it on here. I wanted to be in my child's life I've tried but I don't know what else I can do. plus the mother is delusional saying I want to be with her and that's why I want to see my child. I wish I never met that girl
BEEN THERE

Demotte, IN

#9 Mar 18, 2013
hello wrote:
Its complicated but trust me it will be for the best I would go into detail but I don't want it on here. I wanted to be in my child's life I've tried but I don't know what else I can do. plus the mother is delusional saying I want to be with her and that's why I want to see my child. I wish I never met that girl
Sometimes we regret who we have children with but dont give up your rights yet. Try working through an impartial mediator. Try everything you can before you sign away your rights. It seems like you want your child in your life. Try all possibilities first. PLEASE
hello

Moneta, VA

#10 Mar 18, 2013
Its been years of tdying
Hmm

Roanoke, VA

#11 Mar 20, 2013
I know it's rough going through this but do you truly love this child? Do you want to know this baby? Then you WILL make it happen someway, somehow. I know it's been years of trying but you have to keep fighting for this baby. But in the long run it's only YOUR choice nobody can make it for you. I just ask that you truly ask yourself if this is what you TRULY want. Good luck man!
BEEN THERE

Demotte, IN

#12 Mar 20, 2013
DONT DO IT! Dont give up your biggest gift & joy in your life. Keep trying no matter what. You will regret it forever if you dont fight with every breath you have in you for this child. In the long run, the child will know you love it & didnt give up.
Umm

Covington, VA

#13 Mar 20, 2013
The judge can make her let you see your child. No fight is too hard when it comes to your child. You may think its better but really its just easier. If I had to fight for my child the rest of my life so be it.as for her let her keep talking, you know the truth thats all that matters. Just cause things are difficult you dont give up. Make it known you are this childs father and you will be in his/her life and time will take care of the rest. im sorry but this is a stupid excuse to sign your rights over. If you were a druggie and a poor excuse for a father who was in and out of jail and would be a bad role model then I could see why. but if not take a stand continue to fight because this could be your biggest regret.
BEEN THERE

Demotte, IN

#14 Mar 20, 2013
Umm wrote:
The judge can make her let you see your child. No fight is too hard when it comes to your child. You may think its better but really its just easier. If I had to fight for my child the rest of my life so be it.as for her let her keep talking, you know the truth thats all that matters. Just cause things are difficult you dont give up. Make it known you are this childs father and you will be in his/her life and time will take care of the rest. im sorry but this is a stupid excuse to sign your rights over. If you were a druggie and a poor excuse for a father who was in and out of jail and would be a bad role model then I could see why. but if not take a stand continue to fight because this could be your biggest regret.
AMEN
Jessica

Charles City, VA

#15 Mar 20, 2013
My ex husband signed his rights up for his two kids. We both had to go to court and he just told the judge he didn't want them anymore and she had us sign a paper and we went our separate ways. That was the end of that. I hope all works out for you and the child(ren)
hello

Saint Albans, WV

#16 Mar 20, 2013
Thank you for all of the info and thoughts

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