found out my husband has a man on the side

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why me

United States

#1 Nov 28, 2011
I recently left my husband because he was cheating on me with another man. I don't have no where to go and moved in with my sister. He said he was tired of me and needed a little adventure. But that he still loved me and our three children. I want to end my life because I felt humiliated after I came home to get my things. I have my own key and when I went into the house I caught both of them naked in my bed. I called the cops because we were in a huge argument. And he was defending the man that was with him. I managed to slap and punched both of them a few times and broke the huge HDTV but got thrown out by both of them until the cops got there.
Now I'm so depressed and have not even gone to
work. Need some encouragement and help. The
cops said we Need counseling and I was so outrage because they wanted to arrest me. Was I wrong in doing what I did? Now I don't even trust the law.
just do it

United States

#2 Nov 28, 2011
call your lawyer and he should make your ex move out because he was unfaithful and caught in the act. in most cases the law is always on the woman's defence. Research your Rights
Word Of Experience

Englewood, CO

#3 Nov 28, 2011
why me wrote:
I recently left my husband because he was cheating on me with another man. I don't have no where to go and moved in with my sister. He said he was tired of me and needed a little adventure. But that he still loved me and our three children. I want to end my life because I felt humiliated after I came home to get my things. I have my own key and when I went into the house I caught both of them naked in my bed. I called the cops because we were in a huge argument. And he was defending the man that was with him. I managed to slap and punched both of them a few times and broke the huge HDTV but got thrown out by both of them until the cops got there.
Now I'm so depressed and have not even gone to
work. Need some encouragement and help. The
cops said we Need counseling and I was so outrage because they wanted to arrest me. Was I wrong in doing what I did? Now I don't even trust the law.
There's no point in counseling he's not going to change, my advice is be rational, don't hit him cause you'll loose more. He was at fault. So you have more rights over your children and your belongings. Find a new man.
He won't change, I should cause I'm gay a I've dated married men. I know all their secrets and their lies.
the who

United States

#4 Nov 28, 2011
life goes on

live for the kids

child support

fish in the sea

he will come begging

kids will never forgive him
the who

United States

#5 Nov 28, 2011
whats his name?

where both guys work?

ruin lives

payback
why me

United States

#6 Nov 28, 2011
I want to posts the names of these two mugres but then I don't want to have my children humiliated. He is a very important man to the city so that's out the question. The other man I am going to expose soon. I managed to take my husbands personal laptop and have found some really nasty naked pictures of both of them and a few sex videos. I never would of known until my 5 yr old told me his daddy was kissing another boy. I just brushed it off as him being silly. But now I listen to everything my kids say. But my husband just decided to tell me flat out and that's when I knew my son wasn't lying. Everyone will soon know who this man who stole my man is. He works for the electric company. But I ain't saying much yet until I get with my lawyer.
EP Historian

Houston, TX

#7 Nov 28, 2011
Look my friend it's more cheaper to Pay a Puta to have a kid or 2 kids than to get engage with her so You can be humiliated by her and the maggeth cops Face it it's very IMPOSSIBLE to find a REAL teen girl or young Woman that wants to have a Husband and a Family, Married Women in Eagle Pass they ALL want to have a spare 15 incher boner when ever they feel horny in that case for example Laura Centeno, So if you want to have a better Life? PAY A BITCH TO HAVE A FAMILY AND SUPPORT HER THAT'S ALL DON'T GET ENGAGED WITH HER OR YOU WILL ENDUP BANKRUPT IN JAIL WITH A BIG HORNS ON YOUR HEAD. GOODLUCK! Rudy Heredia the Lady Puncher is Champion EXAMPLE!
just do it

United States

#8 Nov 28, 2011
again, please talk to your lawyer because although you have all that evidence it's still considered personal and could backfire on you as stolen but if you have any file that are your's in there that might help you as it being community property.
que

United States

#9 Nov 28, 2011
why me wrote:
I want to posts the names of these two mugres but then I don't want to have my children humiliated. He is a very important man to the city so that's out the question. The other man I am going to expose soon. I managed to take my husbands personal laptop and have found some really nasty naked pictures of both of them and a few sex videos. I never would of known until my 5 yr old told me his daddy was kissing another boy. I just brushed it off as him being silly. But now I listen to everything my kids say. But my husband just decided to tell me flat out and that's when I knew my son wasn't lying. Everyone will soon know who this man who stole my man is. He works for the electric company. But I ain't saying much yet until I get with my lawyer.
What do you mean "important man to the city"?
cuentamelove

San Pedro, Mexico

#10 Nov 29, 2011
why me wrote:
I want to posts the names of these two mugres but then I don't want to have my children humiliated. He is a very important man to the city so that's out the question. The other man I am going to expose soon. I managed to take my husbands personal laptop and have found some really nasty naked pictures of both of them and a few sex videos. I never would of known until my 5 yr old told me his daddy was kissing another boy. I just brushed it off as him being silly. But now I listen to everything my kids say. But my husband just decided to tell me flat out and that's when I knew my son wasn't lying. Everyone will soon know who this man who stole my man is. He works for the electric company. But I ai n't saying much yet until I get with my lawyer.
El amante de tu esposo es gay soltero o esta casado y pasa ante la sociedad como muy hombre??'
el dolor se ira

San Pedro, Mexico

#11 Nov 29, 2011
why me wrote:
I recently left my husband because he was cheating on me with another man. I don't have no where to go and moved in with my sister. He said he was tired of me and needed a little adventure. But that he still loved me and our three children. I want to end my life because I felt humiliated after I came home to get my things. I have my own key and when I went into the house I caught both of them naked in my bed. I called the cops because we were in a huge argument. And he was defending the man that was with him. I managed to slap and punched both of them a few times and broke the huge HDTV but got thrown out by both of them until the cops got there.
Now I'm so depressed and have not even gone to
work. Need some encouragement and help. The
cops said we Need counseling and I was so outrage because they wanted to arrest me. Was I wrong in doing what I did? Now I don't even trust the law.
Sé que todo esto es muy reciente pero el tiempo ayudará a curar tus heridas...cuida a tus hijos ellos te necesitan mas que nunca y no los hieras nunca diciéndoles cosas de su papá..,los lastimarías para toda su vida.dios te proteja y pide ayuda terapéutica, ten fe...algún día tu dolor sanará y encontrarás un hombre verdadero que te ame te respete y sea sólo para tí.
Te envío un abrazo fraternal y mis mejores deseos de que un día no lejano superen todo este tormento.
soy perra

United States

#12 Nov 29, 2011
Amiga, lo que a ustedes les falto fue confianza! Mira que toda mujer puede ser perra! Las relaciones hoy en dia ya no son las mismas que las de nuestros abuelos o nuestros padres! Uno tiene que ser lo que el marido le pida. En tu opinion sere perra o puta o marrana. Pero yo con mi marido he tenido trios con otras mujeres, he tenido sexo en grupo, y hasta relaciones con otras mujeres. Eso de hombre con hombre lo pudistes haber solucionado tu con una macana en mano! Si hubiera la confianza para satisfaserse mutuamente tu marido no te hubiera enganado! Suerte te deseo lo mejor!
cuetamelove

United States

#13 Nov 29, 2011
Ya pon el bomber del amante de tu esposo, me mata la curiosidad!
why me

United States

#14 Nov 30, 2011
I told my husband lover I was going to expose him and he threatened to expose my husband if I released photos of both of them in the internet. They are going around so might as well put it out there. But then I have to think about the children. Don't want them to be bullied at school because of their father being very important to the city. All I'm saying is my husband is in his mid 40's short hair beard and mustache. From what I found out from his boyfriend is that he is also married with children and works for the electric company. I managed to contact his wife and let her know what's going on. Since he wrecked my home I exposed him to his wife and now she kicked him out. I gave her photos so she could believe me. They are now together in our home which is located in the mondragon area. I can't kick them out of the house because the house ain't under my name but I have to have my lawyer fight for my rights and the children. I went and got most of my things, mainly clothes for me and the kids. He also got a lawyer and said he was going to fight for the kids since he has connections and was going to take them away from me. Because of me he was forced to seek out a lover. That I was too strict and hardly gave up sex and affection which is totally not true. And he lost interest in me two years ago. I am going to expose both of them to the media if he files to take my children away.
just do it

United States

#15 Nov 30, 2011
ok, "why me" i think that you'd done enough which is omly fair but remember what i said from the begining that regardless of what he tries to do just let your lawyer take care of the rest and please keep in mind that the law is on your side and in the best interest of your kids. Period!
selada

United States

#16 Nov 30, 2011
You are very protective of this person. Are you related to the woman's husband? I just feel you are telling her to stop doing what she is doing and let her lawyer handle it. But you make it clear that she has done a lot and to stop it. Do I smell a cover up here. I do and I bet you are related to her husband and don't want him exposed. "WHY ME" just release the name of these two married men who are cheating on you. Better yet call CHEATERS ON THEM AND HAVE THEM EXPOSED ON NATIONAL TV. Now that would be awesome to watch.
just do it wrote:
ok, "why me" i think that you'd done enough which is omly fair but remember what i said from the begining that regardless of what he tries to do just let your lawyer take care of the rest and please keep in mind that the law is on your side and in the best interest of your kids. Period!
just do it

United States

#17 Nov 30, 2011
hey selada, No i'm not related to anyone there i just think that this is a very interesting scenario and all that i want her to do is to stay ahead of the game and not to jeopardize chances of her winning her case to the fullest. And by posting anything on line without a signed consent is a big no no... i would rather just walk those photos to those that she wants those pictures to be exposed to and that's it. i do professional video productions and we need signed consent even if your across the street from a shoot. So, that's where i stand. No cover up here just standing up for everyone's rights.
selada

El Monte, CA

#18 Nov 30, 2011
It happens all the time in Hollywood. What's the difference? News media magazines are always exposing pictures of Hollywoods and nothing bad happens. Just the pictures get printed and released to the public. And to top it off. They give real good money for such photos. I wonder if news gram would pay a good lump of cash to release these pictures so all eagle pass would know. How about the zocalo? Someone who is important to the city well that's something to be concerned about.
cerdos

Dallas, TX

#19 Nov 30, 2011
mostly every gay in ep are gay !!
la lichona

San Antonio, TX

#20 Nov 30, 2011
no me digas k es jorge tapia lol

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