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Tired

United States

#1 Nov 19, 2012
My bf hardly kisses me and when he does, he is not even passionate. I always try so hard to look good for him but he never even tells me i look nice or pretty. When we make love he always closes his eyes. I always push him to become better but i think he just takes me for granted. He doesnt really make me feel wanted often.
male

Eagle Pass, TX

#2 Nov 19, 2012
Tired wrote:
My bf hardly kisses me and when he does, he is not even passionate. I always try so hard to look good for him but he never even tells me i look nice or pretty. When we make love he always closes his eyes. I always push him to become better but i think he just takes me for granted. He doesnt really make me feel wanted often.
He is cheating on you... He is not into the relationship and he is looking for a way out.
yes

United States

#3 Nov 19, 2012
Tired wrote:
My bf hardly kisses me and when he does, he is not even passionate. I always try so hard to look good for him but he never even tells me i look nice or pretty. When we make love he always closes his eyes. I always push him to become better but i think he just takes me for granted. He doesnt really make me feel wanted often.
Sorry but other poster might be right. He doesn't want to be the one to break it off. He's hoping you'll call it quits.
yep

Eagle Pass, TX

#4 Nov 19, 2012
They're right. If he's NOT cheating he's just over you already but isnt man enough to break it off. Hoping you'll pull the trigger
Tired

United States

#5 Nov 19, 2012
yep wrote:
They're right. If he's NOT cheating he's just over you already but isnt man enough to break it off. Hoping you'll pull the trigger
But he claims he does want to be with me. I feel as if i do more for him than he does for me.
Tired

United States

#6 Nov 19, 2012
Our kisses are barely pecks. There is no passion in his kisses. Its SO boring.
male

United States

#7 Nov 19, 2012
You don't have to do more.. I am pretty sure you are doing enough.. your relationship shouldn't be work it should come natural for both of you... He is half way out the door
yes

United States

#8 Nov 19, 2012
Tired wrote:
<quoted text>But he claims he does want to be with me. I feel as if i do more for him than he does for me.
He might not want to hurt you :-(

And it's true, a relationship shouldn't be work.
Tired

United States

#9 Nov 19, 2012
male wrote:
You don't have to do more.. I am pretty sure you are doing enough.. your relationship shouldn't be work it should come natural for both of you... He is half way out the door
Its difficult because we have been together for a while. I wish he were more affectionate. Its a major turn off if a man cant be passionate and affectionate.
yep

Eagle Pass, TX

#10 Nov 19, 2012
Look I was with a guy who did the SAME sh!t and waste my time. "but I DO want to be with you baby!, I DO love you!, of course I'm not heating on you!" I wouldn't believe anything he says. I mean, y'all have sex and his eyes are closed?! C'mon! If that's not a sign what is?! Your man is supposed to WANT you. WANT to see you naked. WANT to kiss and hold you. He's either into someone else or just doesn't want to be with you. He "doesn't want to hurt you" so he will be cold with you until YOU say, That's Enough! Until then he's going to treat you the way you let him. I'm sorry to tell you but your relationship is over and it probably isn't your fault. But hes not man enough to say so. So save yourself the time and just break up with him.
yep

Eagle Pass, TX

#11 Nov 19, 2012
Tired wrote:
<quoted text>Its difficult because we have been together for a while. I wish he were more affectionate. Its a major turn off if a man cant be passionate and affectionate.
like I said sweetie, I've been through the SAME stuff. I had been with my bf for 7 years and the day we broke up all I said was, I'm tired of this shit! We shouldn't be together! And that was that. He walked away, no questions asked and a week and a half later he was already out with the girl he was cheating on me with. So please pay attention to me and even the GUYS that are telling you the truth.
male

Eagle Pass, TX

#12 Nov 19, 2012
How long have u been together
Have you asked him

Carrizo Springs, TX

#13 Nov 19, 2012
why havent u asked him why he is so COLD? has he always been like this or is it something new?
male

Eagle Pass, TX

#14 Nov 19, 2012
Listen to "yep", she is telling you what is going to happen... The same shit happen to me in my last relationship. All the signs are there, you are trying to ignore them cause you are in love with the guy, but he is long gone.
Tired

United States

#15 Nov 19, 2012
male wrote:
How long have u been together
3 years. The beginning he was sweeter but the kissing part has always been that way- vague & boring (after the 1st month)
He has always closed his eyed when we have sex!
yep

Eagle Pass, TX

#16 Nov 19, 2012
Tired wrote:
<quoted text>3 years. The beginning he was sweeter but the kissing part has always been that way- vague & boring (after the 1st month)
He has always closed his eyed when we have sex!
male is right. You ignore it because you're in love or infatuated with him. 3 years seems like a lot but 4 years down the road you're going to say, I should've left him then. I wish I could say things will get better, hang in there or things to that effect but I'd be lying. I think deep in your heart you know it's over if your last resort for advise was topix. People deserved to be loved and respected and wanted. If he is no longer loving toward you or doesn't want you then why are you staying? You staying with him is you hurting yourself! Think about it. You CAN be happy with someone else.
male

United States

#17 Nov 19, 2012
Do you guys live together. Plus is he sucked at kissing at.first, what made u think he would improve..
Tired

United States

#18 Nov 19, 2012
We dont live together. Not yet. He didnt suck until about a month later. At first we would kiss passionately.
male

Carrizo Springs, TX

#19 Nov 19, 2012
So what are you thinking of doing?
Tired

United States

#20 Nov 19, 2012
male wrote:
So what are you thinking of doing?
I dont know. Im confused. I love him but he doesnt give me the affection i need. I dont want to settle. I wish he could change and get on the ball. I live my days always thinking how to make things better for him. Lately ive been thinking about me and i realize he doesnt do much for me.

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