Why is it so hard for a man to just s...
omg

United States

#126 Mar 23, 2013
Brown_28 wrote:
I'm a man and my fiance have been together for about a year now. She is pregnant and I don't bother her for sex that often but she never wants to please me. I don't want to cheat on her cus I'm faithful to her, but what about my needs? I need some advice from a woman on what to do.
Talk to her. Tell her how u feel truthfully. Coming from 14 yrs of a happy relationship. N im not even 30.just talk to her it helps more then u no.just don't cheat if u love her it will get btr with time. Cheating makes it alot worse
Really

Colorado Springs, CO

#127 Jun 24, 2013
Trickydick wrote:
Men are not meant to be with just one mate. Look around the animal kingdom. We do em and move on to the next conquest. That is just natural. The Bible is what make women want that false sense of security. It is just not natural! Get over it.
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Wow. That doesn't make any sense at all. Maybe you should re-read The Bible.
Christina

Sioux City, IA

#128 Jun 24, 2013
God made Adam and Eve. Not Adam, Phil, Gary and Eve.
Christina

Sioux City, IA

#129 Jun 24, 2013
Or Adam and Karen, Denise and Eve.
No way out

West Chicago, IL

#130 Jun 24, 2013
BCT wrote:
Per Capita Dyersburg is the divorce capital of the world. I live elsewhere now, thank goodness, and reality is totally different. When I lived there I know very few people, male and female, that had not cheated on each other. Why? Well other than going to church the only other thing to do there is get drunk and screw around. Now I live in a bigger more educated and entertaining place and can honestly say in 8 years I have not known anyone personally that has cheated or been caught cheating.
If you want to find a good partner and live a good life, get the eff out of that hellhole called Dyersburg!
But when it done already happened,you can't ran away.Sometimes you are stuck. Dyersburg is hell.
guest

United States

#131 Jul 10, 2013
There are men who are faithful and loyal. Dont lose hope
Soon to be Wife

Singapore, Singapore

#132 Jan 8, 2014
As they say...."Men are polygamous by Nature", but I still believe that if it's real you will not get only faithfulness but you will get a commitment
insidious

United States

#133 Jan 8, 2014
Soon to be Wife wrote:
As they say...."Men are polygamous by Nature", but I still believe that if it's real you will not get only faithfulness but you will get a commitment
feelings do change with time. Love changes. Just wait "soon to be wife" 7 to 20 years into your marriage, kids keeping you busy, sex drive bottomed out and he's prowling cause you aren't meeting his needs.
Pepper

United States

#134 Jan 8, 2014
It's hard because it's "hard"......duh :)
debbie

Houston, TX

#136 Mar 26, 2014
Ann wrote:
Im starting to think there is no such thing as a man that can actually stay faithful.
I need to know if I should follow my intuition or just ignore it & belief what Im being told by my husband.
go with your gut feeling especially if there are signs but be sure you have the facts and your guard up and never leave it down good luck I've been there and there even now I'm going through the same thing myself
just sayun

United States

#137 Mar 26, 2014
Ive always heard follow your gut instincts....wish id followed mine....mine cheated a couple months ago and everytime we go in public hes STILL shoppin...checking out all ...ready to say screw it! Y not let me go and go get the hoes?
reformed

Memphis, TN

#138 Mar 26, 2014
A man...or a woman is gonna do what they wanna do regardless of YOU. Doesn't matter how much love, affection, attention or anything else you show them. It boils down to what's been previously said... Their moral character. You can't stop it or change them. Let em do what they do... Then do what you gotta do!!
Faithful

Medon, TN

#140 Mar 27, 2014
Trickydick wrote:
Men are not meant to be with just one mate. Look around the animal kingdom. We do em and move on to the next conquest. That is just natural. The Bible is what make women want that false sense of security. It is just not natural! Get over it.
You must be Rick Loncar! Lmao
Darwin

Dyersburg, TN

#141 Mar 28, 2014
Christina wrote:
God made Adam and Eve. Not Adam, Phil, Gary and Eve.
God made male and female. The names came later. You do not really believe in the Adam and Eve allegory, do you? The world is older than 6000 years. So what is your point. Besides I guess he made all those fellers.
Committment

Dyersburg, TN

#142 Mar 28, 2014
reformed wrote:
A man...or a woman is gonna do what they wanna do regardless of YOU. Doesn't matter how much love, affection, attention or anything else you show them. It boils down to what's been previously said... Their moral character. You can't stop it or change them. Let em do what they do... Then do what you gotta do!!
Sad sad sad. So much for commitment. Arrsssholes.
Reliable

Clarksdale, MS

#143 Apr 3, 2014
I really don't see why it so hard if you are a man and you tell a woman you love her that's making a promise to her heart and a man is only as strong as his word a little boy is the one that just says something to stop being critizized and lies
Old friend

La Vergne, TN

#144 Apr 6, 2014
Ann wrote:
Im starting to think there is no such thing as a man that can actually stay faithful.
I need to know if I should follow my intuition or just ignore it & belief what Im being told by my husband.
kegels

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise
guest

Atkins, AR

#145 Apr 6, 2014
Well all i can say is be careful who you let into your home and your bed. If you can't trust your partner to kick his dick to his self other than you, you need to think about yourself. I got genital hsv 1 also morr widely know as herpes from a man here in dyersburg because he couldn't keep it in his pants. women are more prone to catchin it from men than the other way around unfortunately like most stds. I lived right with integrity and honesty and i still got it all because of a cheating ass man. If you cant trust a man to be faithful get the hell out. you deserve better. There are faithful men. Good luck hun. and try to remember every ending is a new beginning.
guest

Simi Valley, CA

#146 Apr 7, 2014
I don`t know why it is so hard. it shouldn`t happen.. just keep your d*cks to your wives and stop screwing with other females. if your not happy dicorce and than be with another women until than just. stop screwing with others hearts. thats what I say.
Serious question

Simi Valley, CA

#147 Apr 7, 2014
attraction does not ultimately get banished completely when one gets married After years of life together you hit your highs and you low , lows. So sometimes a person may find themselves very much attracted to someone else cause, it brings a spark, a reminder of what the initial brand new feelings they at on time felt for their spouses. sometimes their marriage might be a lossing battle. Other times maybe all they need to do is presue their wives like they did when they were first courting. affairs happen and sometimes it is the end or final straw. Other times it could be what finally gets those spouses to recognize this is it. I could really loose my side kick. my best friend ...And that could be what wakes them up. i guess it really depends how valuable your marriage and life you had built with them is. i guess thats some important stuff to consider when one cheats and has had affairs that could cost them their marriage.. so yes stop and consider all these things if you find yourself there.

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