Why is it so hard for a man to just s...

Why is it so hard for a man to just stay FAITHFUL?

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Ann

Brighton, TN

#1 Jun 22, 2012
Im starting to think there is no such thing as a man that can actually stay faithful.
I need to know if I should follow my intuition or just ignore it & belief what Im being told by my husband.
Honestly

Monroe, LA

#2 Jun 22, 2012
Not all men are cheaters. Most if them have no idea how good they have it at home but need the thrill of being chased or the thrill of sneaking around. They love their wives & their side piece but look who it is they go home to. Sad thing is that they make their 'girlfriends' feel like they are going to give them the world & hey guess what..... only thing they get is a fast piece of ass. Hell if i was 1 if them girls-id use their ass to my advantage. Im hell on heels & baby im coming for you
Unbelievable

United States

#3 Jun 22, 2012
Ann wrote:
Im starting to think there is no such thing as a man that can actually stay faithful.
I need to know if I should follow my intuition or just ignore it & belief what Im being told by my husband.
. It's not only men its women also. If a husband and wife socialize together as one with there friends everything will be fine. If not one or the other will cheat. its a fact.
wives

Sioux City, IA

#4 Jun 22, 2012
2 categories of wives: those that find out their husband is cheating or has cheated and those that never know
NotAllCheat

Dyersburg, TN

#5 Jun 22, 2012
Not all men cheat, & it's not just men it's women 2. If u know 4 a fact ur husband is steppin out on the side then u need 2 confront him. Find out why it is that he feels the need 2 see someone else. Sometimes it's because they ain't gettin what they need at home, & then sometimes it's because they're just not the "serious relationship" type. May sound crazy but try marriage counseling 2 get 2 the root of the problem. There's also 2 books that could help ur relationship 2...1) The 5 Love Languages & 2) The Love Dare. Makin a marriage work isn't easy...it takes both parties 2 make it possible. Best of luck 2 ya!
Guest

Sioux City, IA

#6 Jun 22, 2012
NotAllCheat wrote:
Not all men cheat, & it's not just men it's women 2. If u know 4 a fact ur husband is steppin out on the side then u need 2 confront him. Find out why it is that he feels the need 2 see someone else. Sometimes it's because they ain't gettin what they need at home, & then sometimes it's because they're just not the "serious relationship" type. May sound crazy but try marriage counseling 2 get 2 the root of the problem. There's also 2 books that could help ur relationship 2...1) The 5 Love Languages & 2) The Love Dare. Makin a marriage work isn't easy...it takes both parties 2 make it possible. Best of luck 2 ya!
It has been my experience that no matter where you get them whether its church or the local bar thay are ALL pathetically weak and all the same!
Tyrone

Mims, FL

#7 Jun 22, 2012
Wimmin r jus krazee,its usually their fault if da man do wrong!

Since: Dec 11

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#8 Jun 23, 2012
Men and women cheat, it's a known fact. People get married and forget why they got together in the first place. Jobs, kids, and stress take over and they forget to do and say the little things that brought them together. You have to still date your spouse and keep that spark. Feeling unappreciated and alone is the start of cheating thoughts and from there it just escalates. There is always someone willing to tell your man how wonderful he is or your girl how beautiful she is, when if their spouse had been saying those things all along their wouldn't be a chance for someone else to step in. Marriage takes work and effort, it doesn't come easy.
Huh

Sioux City, IA

#9 Jun 23, 2012
Women are just as bad as men. Most women have it made and usually turn to someone who has nothing and can give them nothing, Maybe wives should appreciate thand not make excuses why they can't do things that caught their husbands to begin with!!!!
Trickydick

Jackson, TN

#11 Jun 23, 2012
Men are not meant to be with just one mate. Look around the animal kingdom. We do em and move on to the next conquest. That is just natural. The Bible is what make women want that false sense of security. It is just not natural! Get over it.
Wife

Trumann, AR

#12 Jun 23, 2012
That's bullshit! It just shows that you are a DOG and you aren't ready to be faithful just yet or never. We do reap what we have sown & if God wanted men with more than one woman he wouldn't have gave Adam just only one in the beginning. I hope you are being strap trickydick because there are diseases out there that you can't get rid of. If I wasn't married just by your name give me the creeps.
BCT

Atlanta, GA

#13 Jun 23, 2012
Per Capita Dyersburg is the divorce capital of the world. I live elsewhere now, thank goodness, and reality is totally different. When I lived there I know very few people, male and female, that had not cheated on each other. Why? Well other than going to church the only other thing to do there is get drunk and screw around. Now I live in a bigger more educated and entertaining place and can honestly say in 8 years I have not known anyone personally that has cheated or been caught cheating.

If you want to find a good partner and live a good life, get the eff out of that hellhole called Dyersburg!
BCT

Atlanta, GA

#14 Jun 23, 2012
It says I posted from Anniston Alabama and have never even been there lol, wtf up with that? Im in East Tennessee haha
Husband

Trumann, AR

#15 Jun 23, 2012
Really it isn't hard to be faithful. People just feel like they can do what they want because they are grown. As we been told we can't have our cake & ice cream & eat it too. We know that cheating is wrong but now in this day in time people think right is wrong & wrong is right.
Guest

Sioux City, IA

#16 Jun 23, 2012
Trickydick wrote:
Men are not meant to be with just one mate. Look around the animal kingdom. We do em and move on to the next conquest. That is just natural. The Bible is what make women want that false sense of security. It is just not natural! Get over it.


Sounds like you come from the DOG family, they screw any ole thing cuz they don't have the sense to know better!
guest

Sioux City, IA

#17 Jun 23, 2012
Sometimes a man becomes so successful, he thinks he is entitled to have and do what ever he wants. And he is selfish enough to act on it. And he thinks he can get away with it. Somebody always gets hurt. And sometimes everyone gets hurt.
whatever

Sioux City, IA

#18 Jun 23, 2012
The excuse he gives for not being faithful only sounds good to him and no one else. Being unfaithful reveals his true character. It doesn't really say anything about his wife.
reconsider this

Sioux City, IA

#19 Jun 23, 2012
Trickydick wrote:
Men are not meant to be with just one mate. Look around the animal kingdom. We do em and move on to the next conquest. That is just natural. The Bible is what make women want that false sense of security. It is just not natural! Get over it.
What about all those STDS out there, especially dyer county! Herpes is everywhere here! Don't you worry about this---how nasty. When your trickydick is "blistery dick" you might be reconsidering. One mate is natural and healthier!
Trickydick

Jackson, TN

#20 Jun 23, 2012
I would love to bend you over and do you doggie style or just open wide and take it baby! My wife won't ever know.
Wife wrote:
That's bullshit! It just shows that you are a DOG and you aren't ready to be faithful just yet or never. We do reap what we have sown & if God wanted men with more than one woman he wouldn't have gave Adam just only one in the beginning. I hope you are being strap trickydick because there are diseases out there that you can't get rid of. If I wasn't married just by your name give me the creeps.
Wife

Trumann, AR

#21 Jun 23, 2012
Trickydick wrote:
I would love to bend you over and do you doggie style or just open wide and take it baby! My wife won't ever know.
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You will never have to worry about me being an unfaithul wife to my husband. And if I wasn't married you wouldn't be my type because you get around & I don't.

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