Tired of being let down and treated like dirt

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guest 69

Santa Barbara, CA

#1 Nov 28, 2009
Well.. anyone else out there getting sick and tired of being treated like dirt by a damn man? i sure am. i am a damn good woman and i give my all and get my heart stomped on like i dont have any feelings.
guest

Dyersburg, TN

#2 Nov 28, 2009
welcome to the club. this not only happenes to women though most of you think it does. men get treated like shit too you know. me for example, i think i am a pretty good guy, treat girls nice and do the honorable thing by them and what happens? they shit on you eveytime. just do what i do and deal with it. remember noone is worth the hurt!!!!
guest 69

Santa Barbara, CA

#3 Nov 28, 2009
You are so right guest. thats what i keep trying to tell myself. and trust me i know guys out there get hurt too. there are still some guys left out there that are actually good but i havent been lucky enough to find a good one yet:( i wish i could though. the reason why i think sometimes its just the women getting hurt is probably just simply because im a woman and i dont know how men think! lol. just seems to me that if u treat the person u are with great they treat u like shit. they take advantage!
hellbilly

Dyersburg, TN

#4 Nov 28, 2009
As a guy I know this to be true both ways. I've seen it myself. I am starting to wonder that if you treat a girl like shit (cheat on her or hit her) she might be there forever. I just can't bring myself to do those kinds of things, so I get shit on. And the world keeps turning. And sometimes I thinks it sucks ass way too often.
guest

United States

#5 Nov 29, 2009
hellbilly wrote:
As a guy I know this to be true both ways. I've seen it myself. I am starting to wonder that if you treat a girl like shit (cheat on her or hit her) she might be there forever. I just can't bring myself to do those kinds of things, so I get shit on. And the world keeps turning. And sometimes I thinks it sucks ass way too often.
What's your name?
guest

AOL

#6 Nov 29, 2009
i have also saw the same thing in women...i have seen guys treat them awful and the women stays with them..i could never understand that either...it doesnt make since...i try all the time to find a good woman and i treat them with respect...i open doors and pull out chairs for them..i woman should be treated with respect...my daughter tells me i am to nice to some women and they are not used to it or some might think i am being nice because i am trying to sleep with them but that isnt it...i just think a man should treat a woman with respect and like the treasure they aremaybe ill find someone...who knows these days....i have a lot of love to offer a woman who wont shit on me as well...if there are any out there let me know how to contact you...maybe we can go to a movie or eat or something nice...or just talk

Since: Aug 09

Dyersburg

#7 Nov 29, 2009
hellbilly wrote:
As a guy I know this to be true both ways. I've seen it myself. I am starting to wonder that if you treat a girl like shit (cheat on her or hit her) she might be there forever. I just can't bring myself to do those kinds of things, so I get shit on. And the world keeps turning. And sometimes I thinks it sucks ass way too often.
This for the most part in my opinion I think is true. You can treat a woman with kindness and respect. But the minute some hard bodied smooth talkin player comes along all the good characteristics about your personality seem to disappear perhaps honestly it has allot to do with looks Me for instance I rarely drink (2 days this year) do not smoke, do drugs but I am not a chiseled smooth talker so there usually on the outside looking in. Sadly we all have types. For me it tends to be the Headcase someone that has had problems in there past. And have issues but I care anyway End up getting hurt because either they find the chiseled smooth talker or they go to someone chiseled who treats them the way there used to being treated... Like crap (Honestly makes no since to me)
guest 69

Santa Barbara, CA

#8 Nov 29, 2009
You are right again guest!:) i dont understand why women get treated like shit and still stay with that man. then moving on to somebody else, they expect th same treatment and dont like it if they actually treat them with respect! its crazy! those are the women that will end up dead in a screwed up relationship. this is the reason i started this conversation. i just got out of a relationship where i was mentally abused. not physically. just mentally. i couldnt deal anymore. even my daughter was mentally abused by this. i had to get out. im really truly looking for somebody thu will grow to love me and my daughter and treat me with respect and treat me like i really deserve to be treated. i truly think anybody would be lucky to have me. i would make somebody a great wife one day:)
Kelly

Santa Barbara, CA

#9 Nov 29, 2009
I was in a realationship for 6yrs and had three kids with a abusive control freak and it took me this long 2 get out cuz i didnt think i could make it by myself but i was wrong my kids started seein things that a child shouldnt see but now iam so happy and free and get the love we both deserve
guest

Tiptonville, TN

#10 Nov 29, 2009
how old are you
guest

AOL

#11 Nov 29, 2009
guest 69 wrote:
You are right again guest!:) i dont understand why women get treated like shit and still stay with that man. then moving on to somebody else, they expect th same treatment and dont like it if they actually treat them with respect! its crazy! those are the women that will end up dead in a screwed up relationship. this is the reason i started this conversation. i just got out of a relationship where i was mentally abused. not physically. just mentally. i couldnt deal anymore. even my daughter was mentally abused by this. i had to get out. im really truly looking for somebody thu will grow to love me and my daughter and treat me with respect and treat me like i really deserve to be treated. i truly think anybody would be lucky to have me. i would make somebody a great wife one day:)
thanks for agreeing with me...you sound like a really great woman...the kind i have always wanted to meet...i cant go into details about myself here but i would be very honered if you would email me and lets talk through emails...i would like to get to know you...write me and ask me anything you want to ok...i wont be able to answer your emails until friday evening...ill be gone all week for my job but as soon as i get home friday ill write you back...ill do that before i do anything else when i get home...email me at zwwwgot1@yahoo.com...we may have more in common than you know....at least we can be friends...please write and ill write back soon as i get home friday i promise....be careful and be safe until then...hopefully your new friend
hellbilly

Dyersburg, TN

#12 Nov 29, 2009
guest wrote:
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What's your name?
What's your name?
guest 69

Santa Barbara, CA

#13 Nov 29, 2009
Ok guest. i wrote your email down and i will def email u. u also sound like u got a good head on your shoulders and also someone i would love to get to know better:) maybe we will hit it off. . who knows but im willing to give it a shot even if i just made a new friend and nothing more. thats fine by me:) thanks:)
Kelly

Santa Barbara, CA

#14 Nov 29, 2009
Iam 21 yrs old i knw some of u think thats really young 2 have 4 kids but i do a great job raising and louin my girls and not a day goes by that iam not thankful 4 them my marriage sucked but the outcome of the whole thing is beautiful. i have had a hard life and its just now gettin better but when i look at them i cnt help but smile i take pride and joy in what i do.
okdokee

Dyersburg, TN

#15 Nov 29, 2009
Kelly wrote:
Iam 21 yrs old i knw some of u think thats really young 2 have 4 kids but i do a great job raising and louin my girls and not a day goes by that iam not thankful 4 them my marriage sucked but the outcome of the whole thing is beautiful. i have had a hard life and its just now gettin better but when i look at them i cnt help but smile i take pride and joy in what i do.
you go girl.
Guest

Dyersburg, TN

#16 Nov 29, 2009
Kelly wrote:
Iam 21 yrs old i knw some of u think thats really young 2 have 4 kids but i do a great job raising and louin my girls and not a day goes by that iam not thankful 4 them my marriage sucked but the outcome of the whole thing is beautiful. i have had a hard life and its just now gettin better but when i look at them i cnt help but smile i take pride and joy in what i do.
21 and 4 kids? Geez.
abandoned

Bedminster, NJ

#17 Dec 1, 2009
I was with my husband for 14 yrs married three. We have two great kids. He wanted to go out to the club every weekend and drink and he also had a pill problem but i stayed for my children and from fear of being alone. Well in Jan he up and walked out one day and never looked back. He had his flaws but was a damn good dad until he left us! He has a new girl or should i say has had a new girl every since then and now i feel like i have to force him to see my kids:( But all we can do is keep our heads up and realise the best thing that happened 2 us was him leaving. My kids and i have become much closer thro the struggles and i thank him for that all i need are my babies:)

“Doing what people say I can't”

Since: Aug 08

In your head

#18 Dec 2, 2009
Love is nonexistent
michelle

Bedminster, NJ

#19 Dec 2, 2009
i read something today that just popped out at me and wanna share it: Relationships are like glass.Sometimes it is better to leave them broken than to try to hurt urself putting them back together

Since: Aug 09

Dyersburg

#20 Dec 2, 2009
michelle wrote:
i read something today that just popped out at me and wanna share it: Relationships are like glass.Sometimes it is better to leave them broken than to try to hurt urself putting them back together
Sounds like sound advice

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